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Karmacat: To Infinity And Beyond!

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  • Pippajo
    Pippajo Posts: 900 Forumite
    When you have a DH that had decided how he was going to commit suicide I guess you just learn to get in with it and be positive - I have to be, while I am positive he can handle it all. Plus, the !!!!!!s are not going to beat me, we stood up for them when others said nasty things, now they have done this.

    Much of the ideas will involve outside financing and backers, but if we can get through the next year on a small amount of money then we can survive anything :money:
  • Lots of respect Pippajo you deserve to succeed.

    DTxx
  • Pippajo
    Pippajo Posts: 900 Forumite
    Lots of respect Pippajo you deserve to succeed.

    DTxx

    Thanks DT, but you have been through far more than I have, and you give your time to so many, respect to you too x

    (Sorry for Hijack KC :o)
  • macgirl
    macgirl Posts: 5,091 Forumite
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    Evening everyone.

    Hugs to Pippajo and your DH and :T for have such optimism, you deserve for things to work out and I'm sure they will.

    I've been in CBA/ hibernation mode too, it's about all I can muster at this time of year. Best thing to do is, wrap up and eat well to ward off the dreaded lurg x
  • Karmacat
    Karmacat Posts: 39,460 Forumite
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    Pippajo wrote: »
    When you have a DH that had decided how he was going to commit suicide I guess you just learn to get in with it and be positive - I have to be, while I am positive he can handle it all. Plus, the !!!!!!s are not going to beat me, we stood up for them when others said nasty things, now they have done this.

    Much of the ideas will involve outside financing and backers, but if we can get through the next year on a small amount of money then we can survive anything :money:

    Ouch. You've already survived the worst that can be thrown at you :grouphug: making do on very little money is nothing in comparison to what you've faced together.
    Pippajo wrote: »
    (Sorry for Hijack KC :o)

    I like hijacks, I do, seriously - it makes me feel wanted :D
    macgirl wrote: »
    Evening everyone.

    Hugs to Pippajo and your DH and :T for have such optimism, you deserve for things to work out and I'm sure they will.

    I've been in CBA/ hibernation mode too, it's about all I can muster at this time of year. Best thing to do is, wrap up and eat well to ward off the dreaded lurg x

    Evening! I'm finally finished - this is the longest day I've had for ages, I'm still running on adrenalin, but I *have* eaten, at least. I really understand hibernation :o but this time when I come out of it, I want to make sure that I *go* out, rather than just bounce around the house, which is what I do too often.
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
  • (()) hug pippajo - (())

    KC nice you've got to the end of the day now, enjoy tonight!
    Total debt 26/4/18 <£1925 we were getting there. :beer:
    Total debt as of 28/4/19 £7867.38:eek:
    minus 112.06 = £7755.32:money:
    :money:Sleeves up folks.:money:
  • Karmacat
    Karmacat Posts: 39,460 Forumite
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    :o Umm thats the depressing bit I don't have any ideas to bounce the research is to try and find ideas and I coming up with nowt if I could find some ideas I would happily bounce:D


    DTxx

    the multiquote thingy didn't pick up that I asked it to quote you as well, DT .... okay, I understand the difficulty a bit more, sorry :o Haven't you been doing Firewalker's exercises? How did that go? Or what about the local chamber of commerce?

    **stops and thinks**

    Okay, what kind of income are you actually looking for? What jobs give that income? Self employed or salaried? Any of those jobs that you like? That you don't have to train for? I'm sure it was you I said it to, that if you like where you live and don't want to move, *and* want a job with a biggish income, then it has to be something about the web.... what about virtual assistant, like a PA but online?

    I know .... give us a stream of consciousness type paragraph about your search .... we'll take it from there. Sorry to butt in, its just that I'm *sort* of going through that too - I'm focussed on the trading, but I'm also trying to imagine what my life would be like when I was having the trading as my main income, and its quite difficult to imagine.




    EDIT - hi Pippi! Thanks, I will! Off for a cuppa tea, brb........ (I' ve finally realised what those initials mean :) )
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
  • Cheery_Daff
    Cheery_Daff Posts: 17,267 Forumite
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    Gosh pippajo, really hope you can both be positive and pull through this, sounds like you will :T What a shocking thing to happen though :( ((((())))))) hugs for you both xx
  • Pippajo
    Pippajo Posts: 900 Forumite
    He's a bit wobbly tonight but I know that he will not go through with it (it was last year and earlier this year that he was at his worst) because of our DS.

    I had my veggies for my tea, followed by a mini pack of Haribos - bad bad girl :A
  • Karmacat
    Karmacat Posts: 39,460 Forumite
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    From the sublime (well, the deep) to the ridiculous, Pippajo - such is our life on here. I didn't realise that the trauma was so recent ..... I'm glad you feel confident he won't go through with it.
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
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