MSE Parents Club Part 6

elle_gee

Well done caz Did you ever find comfy shoes for work?

Just had a call from the comms nurse.. Rhys' calcium levels are up again The consultant is going to look at the notes and results and phone me tomorrow..

searching_me

just read my post back and realised that sound abit mean didnt mean it like that its just i have the biggest fear of cot death so much so i didnt sleep for the first 4 days of jayden being born i was seeing double by the end of it ... even now jayden sleeps in his bouncer til we go to bed x

SusanC_2

keelykat wrote: »

I haven't read the article yet-but can anyone give a simple answer why bottle fed babies are more likely to have sids? (not after an arguement just interested )

I think for most of the risk factors they know about it's just a guessing game as to why it makes a difference.

weezl74

searching_me wrote: »

cheers weezl you just heightened my fear ... its ok hes not leaving my sight x

sorry searching, it scares me too.

I think I should have just posted a link, I'm really sorry to have worried people

Forgive?

Fritha_2

Tigsteroonie wrote: »

And it was lovely, he fitted just perfectly against me and settled right down for a good hour's snooze, arm outstretched onto my boob. I'm a Mum

That made me cry too!

keelykat wrote: »

can anyone give a simple answer why bottle fed babies are more likely to have sids?

I think part of it is that when they're titchy bf babies wake up all the bloody time so they don't get into a deep deep sleep or something! (And when they're less titchy some of them still wake up all the bloody time *pointed stare at Celia* :rolleyes:)

mookiandco

Thanks for the article Weezl, I found it very interesting.xx

searching_me

weezl74 wrote: »

sorry searching, it scares me too.

I think I should have just posted a link, I'm really sorry to have worried people

Forgive?

forgiven ... funny thing is im more scared with jayden then i ever was with zoe i think ignorance was bliss back then now i know the true scariness of it all it is my biggest fear x

astonsmummy

My friends baby died of cot death just before I found out I was pregnant with Ryan, poor cow, when I was pregnant with Aston my nans nwxt door neighbours daughter died of sids too on new years eve

Hope everyone is ok, I'm good, Ryan has a blocked tear duct and there is nothing that canbe done until he's at least a year old.

I just had a right laugh at my Aston, he likes blowing kisses but calls them 'blow kiss' then earlier he said ''blow me Mummy'' I nearly died :rotfl:

Right we are getting a staffie pup In October, a joint pressie for OH's birthday, it's a !!!!! but we cant think of any decent names, anyone got any ideas?

elle_gee

angela6834 wrote: »

..MM and Elle, Can I ask how you feel when you look at those photos? Glad that they've came so far or upset that it happened in the first place? Dont want to upset you but i still cant
bare to look at the photos of Rose in SCBU yet x

Proud that he's come so far and, in a way, like it happened to someone else. The times I've been back to the unit I've felt very odd - like it's the first time I've been there - so I think I've somehow shut it all out. But then that's the same with other previously bad events in my life - I just box them off, so maybe that's my way of dealing with things. If I think about it too deeply the guilt (of not carrying him safely and of daring to comtemplate a DNR decision) takes over and I can't handle that, day-to-day.

I was just sat looking through the pics then looking over at Rhys sat in his bouncy chair and I'm just proud, not upset

money_maker_3

Angela, I look at them sometimes like is not my baby, but incredibly happy to know that he came through a lot in a very short period of time I think like elle, I can see them, but not really believe it all happened.