Dad won't be at my Wedding

red_devil

miserly_mum wrote: »

If that was the case then surely there'd be no point anyone posting on any forum as all they can give is their version?

dont bother then, I dont, just try and work through them yourself. Nobody can solve your family problems anyway!:D

galvanizersbaby

red_devil wrote: »

dont bother then, I dont, just try and work through them yourself. Nobody can solve your family problems anyway!:D

Charming! :rotfl:

red_devil

true though!

it would do your nut in trying to solve everyones problems on here and you dont even know them?

I try not to post anything problem family related. I just find family problems boring too sorry!

NAR

red_devil wrote: »

I try not to post anything problem family related. I just find family problems boring too sorry!

Mmmm you've managed quite a few on this thread! :rolleyes:

red_devil

yes but not problems ie i dont get on with mil or sister not talking to me.;)

galvanizersbaby

red_devil wrote: »

true though!

it would do your nut in trying to solve everyones problems on here and you dont even know them?

I try not to post anything problem family related. I just find family problems boring too sorry!

I don't attempt to solve people's problem's on here but if I have some experience I try and give some advice/experience if I can - but generally I don't take myself that seriously

If you find family problems boring why on earth do you post so much on marriage and moneysaving and these types of threads?

If a thread looks uninteresting/irrelevant to me I don't tend to even click on it - if I do click on it and decide I've got nothing useful to add I generally tend not to post but you seem to post something negative or rude.

red_devil

not always. I have posted things but then people come back to argue it seems sometimes people only want to hear one thing! Only post if you agree type of thing.

It gets pathetic you can find yourself arguing about others peoples problems what a waste of time? It intrigues me how did people solve things before the net!

We have lots of family issues who dosent but i wouldnt bore you:D or expect you to help when you havent heard both sides. In a court of law you get to hear all sides dont you before you make a decision.

galvanizersbaby

red_devil wrote: »

not always. I have posted things but then people come back to argue it seems sometimes people only want to hear one thing! Only post if you agree type of thing.

It gets pathetic you can find yourself arguing about others peoples problems what a waste of time? It intrigues me how did people solve things before the net!

We have lots of family issues who dosent but i wouldnt bore you:D or expect you to help when you havent heard both sides. In a court of law you get to hear all sides dont you before you make a decision.

Yes but MSE is hardly a court of law is it?

I guess I am in not in the habit of taking it seriously as I have a busy life offline but for some people this site and the net is important.

I've just got used to ignoring threads that I know I'm not going to be able to relate to/have any interest.
For me often the thread starter is the clue as to whether I click on the thread or not!:D

Skippycat

red_devil wrote: »

dont bother then, I dont, just try and work through them yourself. Nobody can solve your family problems anyway!:D

Perhaps nobody on here can solve the OP's family problems but people can offer advice and talk about similar situations that they've encountered which may be v. useful to the OP.

Anyway good luck with it all miserly mum. Just remember that the wedding day is about you and your partner and enjoy it (regardless of who is or isn't there on the day).

Skippycat

galvanizersbaby wrote: »

Yes but MSE is hardly a court of law is it?

If only it was...... :D:j