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  • I've been reading through this whole post since yesterday and just wanted to put my tuppence in and say chin up. :grouphug:

    When things are as bad as they seem for you just now, they can only get better. I think we all get to a stage where we don't think we can go on but somehow we manage to dust ourselves off and eventually look back and wonder why we felt so bad. ;)

    Also, I know it's really hard to imagine sometimes, but there genuinely are people out there who are worse off than all of us. Try making a little "feel good" list for yourself of the things that are good just now e.g. you still have your house, you have the love and support of each other, you have all us MSErs :D etc etc Sometimes it helps me to focus on the good/what I have rather than the bad.

    Hope everything goes well for you today, I'm sure we'll all be thinking about you xxxx
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  • md123
    md123 Posts: 148 Forumite
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    Hi
    I have just found this thread this morning and read through it all. Sorry I don't have any advice, but felt I had to add something.

    I find it unbelievable that people can be so unkind to others, as your PIL are being to you and your partner. I hope you manage to get yourselves sorted soon and hope you get on fine at the doctors today. Thinking of you.

    Best wishes.
  • stripeyfox
    stripeyfox Posts: 474 Forumite
    Thinking of you Jen xx
  • Boro_cass
    Boro_cass Posts: 17 Forumite
    hi jen.
    i have no advice to give but i just wanted to let you know that i am thinking of you.
    Boro Cass
    x x x

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  • stripeyfox
    stripeyfox Posts: 474 Forumite
    Hi Jen.
    Been thinking of you all day at work! Wish there was some advice I could give. If I win the lottery this week I'll send you a cheque!

    Just wanted to keep this thread at the top in case someone has a more pragmatic solution.
  • wendym
    wendym Posts: 2,945 Forumite
    I don't suppose I'm alone in feeling concerned and out of my depth.

    Thinking of you Jen, and would love to hear from you, however briefly.
  • mom23
    mom23 Posts: 746 Forumite
    Hi Jen just popped on to see how you are!!
    Thinking of you xx
  • aliwatts
    aliwatts Posts: 654 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts Combo Breaker
    Hi Jen,

    Like the many others, was just posting to see how you are today?
    :hello: Laugh and smile everyday, it keeps you healthy ! :wave:
    Thanks for everybodies help on here, what a great community !
  • wendym
    wendym Posts: 2,945 Forumite
    I have no idea whether bumping is allowed, and I'm sorry if you think I'm nagging Jen, but I wanted you to see the thread easily if you're there tonight.

    Hope you've had a better day.
  • chivers1977
    chivers1977 Posts: 1,499 Forumite
    Hi Jen

    Any update

    V xx
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