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Flower08

Afternoon everyone,

Lara - glad everything went well in Paris, and that you have got your uni fees paid for.

Well today has just been one of those days. OH and i had a huge arguement this morning and he stormed off to work and i havent heard from him since. I texted him to see if he wanted to go round to our friends tonight as they have invited us round, he didnt bother to reply. Yet he replies to his mums messages :rolleyes:
MEN!!! (sorry NIM )

Hope everyone else is having a nice relaxing weekend.

Dinah93

Relaxing - spent 8 hours today sorting out the shed with all my stuff in. Only did half of it. Knackered. Talk tomorrow x

Flower08

Dinah93 wrote: »

Relaxing - spent 8 hours today sorting out the shed with all my stuff in. Only did half of it. Knackered. Talk tomorrow x

Sounds almost as good as my day :rotfl::rotfl:

Still havent heard from OH so we didnt go out tonight. So another boring Saturday night in - watching casualty with OHs mum instead, how much fun can one person have!

Dinah93

What did you fight about to still not have heard from him?!

Flower08

Well hes still at work. He was supposed to finish at 6 but he text me to say hes hes staying on to help behind the bar. He sometimes works behind the bar after he has finished his shift in the kicthen to get some extra hours, but he hates doing it and very rarely does it.

Argued because he went out after work lastnight with some friends and ended up spending a fortune, oh and also argued about his 'friend'.

Dinah93

Ah. That one needs sorting out really, that girl is a menace. How much did he spend?

Flower08

70 pound, it was a spare of the moment thing after he finished work. So not only ha he spent all his spends money for this week but he has spent mine aswell. I could have let it drop but he played right into her hands andgave her something against me. He was out with a group of people and she was there aswell, i didnt know until she text me this morning saying 'u missed out on a great night last night, was really good to see him, oh and tell him its my turn to get the drink next time'

:mad:

Im not that angry with him because i know it would have been something completely innocent just getting a round in, but he just played into her hands. And now he is avoiding coming home!

His mum did say though that he was staying on at work to make up for money he spent lastnight, but why doesnt he just tell me that!!

Dinah93

I'd kill him to be honest with you! More for not giving her what for than the money though, I'd make clear I wasn't happy, but a one off slip, okay. Not inviting you and giving her ammo, not okay.

Flower08

Yea i have to say i am more angry about giving her ammo. Im cross about the money, but i know hes trying to make up for it now by working extra - and it is a complete one off.
I guess he probably realises how angry i am and thats why hes avoiding coming home or speaking to me. He cant stay away forever though!

And cross because hes ruined my diet by making me eat chocolate lol

I probably wont speak to him until tomorrow now if hes going to be home late, and im sure it will be fine, but now i have to put up with her!

Dinah93

I really think you need to sit down and come to a resolution over her together. End of the day even if he doesn't agree, it upsets you, so he needs to do something about it.