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  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    I am a wimp when it comes to doing things alone, I need to learn to be braver and do something too.

    I like singing although not worthy of being on X Factor, was thinking of joining a choir before the split, I should maybe look into something like that again
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • doodledo_2
    doodledo_2 Posts: 4,676 Forumite
    Thats a good idea. My problem is I have no talents and no real interests so no idea where to even start lol
    Proud to be dealing with my debts - DFW No: 712

    03/09/09 - DEBT FREE AT LAST :D
    Racing Hypno to Save - £10/£5000
  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    Yeah me neither really, god we are a right pair!
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 28,971 Forumite
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    oh doodles - hope you manage to find something good for you to get involved with....

    My philosophy on life - is that we need to be able to give ourselves the things we need in life - and not rely on others to do it - that way any partner is kind of a bonus rather than a source of life essentials... Don't know if that makes sense? I am married, love my husband but probably get a lot of my support from close friends and here of course....
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 6/7/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £24.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 30.1/£127.5K target 23.6% 29/7/25
    4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
    5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/25
  • doodledo_2
    doodledo_2 Posts: 4,676 Forumite
    SH - it's so true and definately a philiosophy I will follow in the future. A partner is nice but they will not take over my life.
    Proud to be dealing with my debts - DFW No: 712

    03/09/09 - DEBT FREE AT LAST :D
    Racing Hypno to Save - £10/£5000
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 28,971 Forumite
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    Someone once said...

    there's worse things than being single.....

    being married to a plonker!
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 6/7/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £24.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 30.1/£127.5K target 23.6% 29/7/25
    4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
    5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/25
  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    Both your posts are very true SH!!!!
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • doodledo_2
    doodledo_2 Posts: 4,676 Forumite
    Well I am officially single.............again :(
    Proud to be dealing with my debts - DFW No: 712

    03/09/09 - DEBT FREE AT LAST :D
    Racing Hypno to Save - £10/£5000
  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    Oh sweetie, was it him that ended it or you?
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • doodledo_2
    doodledo_2 Posts: 4,676 Forumite
    A joint decision really but I am quite gutted as I did think we had something special.

    Oh well single life again lol
    Proud to be dealing with my debts - DFW No: 712

    03/09/09 - DEBT FREE AT LAST :D
    Racing Hypno to Save - £10/£5000
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