MSE Parents Club Part 5

searching_me

i was looking to spend about £60 on it ... so not cheap but cheaper then some x

searching_me

sami i just saw the quoted thing that elle put about being upset (sorry i skimmed abit this morning) ... i hope i didnt upset you about the libido ... if i did im really sorry i didnt mean to x

BrunoM

elle_gee wrote: »

We're going here and have been here - some company, just two different parks. Depends what you want from it - it's like Centre Parcs with all the activities toned down. Small pool, woodland walks, bike hire (I think), indoor soft play, outdoor play area for Chris at the one we've been to Lovely place though, so peaceful - good place for your OH to switch off and no mobile reception

Elle! We've been considering going to one of those - can you give us a more in-depth review? Facilities, atmosphere?

Sami_Bee

searching_me wrote: »

sami i just saw the quoted thing that elle put about being upset (sorry i skimmed abit this morning) ... i hope i didnt upset you about the libido ... if i did im really sorry i didnt mean to x

oh don't worry hun you didn't upset me at all. I just feel a bit like I'm letting OH down and also feel a bit like I'm not a whole woman because that bit of me has gone ( and slightly scared it won't come back!)

that buggy was about £40 I think, I'm sure it got a good review

I think the fairies would be happy to buy it and but to one side until you can afford it

Feelie thanks for PM :kisses3: I hope you feel less blue/black and more sparkley n bright soon xxx

redmel1621

Sami_Bee wrote: »

Thanks fritha
It's weird I'm not bothered about people seeing me feed it's mor that [I think] I can feel that everyone is doing the 'trying not to stare whilst still having a nosey' thing :undecided

I remember doing that, years back...I was sat talking to a lady in the shopping precinct not long after having ds1 and she was cuddling (or so I thought!) a tiny baby. I only realised after about 20mins that she was actually breastfeeding the baby. I felt terrible, I didn't know whether to just look - to show that I thought it was great and I wasn't embarrassed, or whether by looking I would make her uncomfortable, but if I didn't look would she think that I was embarrassed myself and then feel awkward for making me feel that uncomfortable????? It was such a conundrum, I ended up sort of looking but not looking, trying to cover all possibilities....but as you say, maybe that made her feel worse

Thank You peeps - Yes my boys are great:) I was very proud of them....especially given the rocky start where they didn't really like Kai!! I obviously really needed the sleep, but still feel a bit guilty, I should not have left a 6mth old baby to be looked after by a 6yr old and an 8yr old:o

Krystaltips

Sami, I completley agree with Tia (I think it was Tia that said it anyway) Sometimes you just have to do it, even when you don't fancy it just to get back into the swing of things... My hubby's ever so understanding... He'll snuggle up behind me in bed and I just say 'I'm not gonna hump ya' But then he's understanding about most things... I'm lucky that way I think...

cazscoob

sami you need to feel good about yourslef, go get your hair or nails done and have a bit of fun! buy some nice undies etc, but make sure that you are comfortable and happy, take it all at your pace not his!

all kids beded but erin is still grinning here wide awake and no signs of sleep at all!

searching_me

Sami_Bee wrote: »

oh don't worry hun you didn't upset me at all. I just feel a bit like I'm letting OH down and also feel a bit like I'm not a whole woman because that bit of me has gone ( and slightly scared it won't come back!)

that buggy was about £40 I think, I'm sure it got a good review

I think the fairies would be happy to buy it and but to one side until you can afford it

nice things those faires but its ok ... im glad i didnt upset you (noticed ive done that alot just lately mainly i dont realise im so blunt) im sure it'll come back just taking alittle longer you're not letting your OH im sure e understands ... you're definately whole woman though you do more things then i could i take my hat off to you luv .. (if i had one on) x

redmel1621

I agree with the others...to be completely honest the first few times with dh after having babies, I wasn't really interested and had to sort of 'force' myself to do it...a bit like kick-starting an old car, but once you get it running it recharges it own battery and is more inclined to start itself the next time;)....You really do just have to do (in the mood or not!)

I forgot to say earlier - Tine - I hope you get sorted out, in your down below area! I am kinda jealous...I have had three BIG babies and not a single stitch...don't even try to imagine it:o (9lb6oz, 8lb4oz, 9lb1oz)

Edit - Sami...I am not saying you are an 'old car' or any other old thing....but ygwim:p

cazscoob

please i need help to get this baby to sleep at night! i was thinking about giving her some cereal at 9 before i feed her and put her down but she is sleeping til 3 then up every hour having a little feed and then screaming til i put her in her own bed! shes driving me crazy!