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Can I have a moan? Please feel fee to tell me I'm being an unreasonable cowbag...!

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  • Moglex
    Moglex Posts: 1,581 Forumite
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    sunnysea83 wrote: »
    i find the way in which you are attacking me on these posts a threat and the way inwhich you make unneccessary comments.

    I see. You find 'unnecessary' comments a threat?

    And you find it threatening when someone who hasn't the vaguest clue who you are nor your address nor telephone number disagrees with you?

    You didn't make this absurd paranoid tendencies clear when we started communicating, did you?

    And yet you expect OP to list everything that you deem to be important right from her very first post.

    The old double standards problem again, do you see?
  • Moglex wrote: »
    So you post with your eyes closed?



    Are you ever going to get the salient point into your head.

    You do not need a reason to wish to continue communicating in the manner you started and to resist orders from from someone else arbitrarily instructing to you to change.

    Do you just subserviently do what complete strangers tell you to do?

    Do you feel obliged to list your disabilities in order to justify yourself for not acquiescing with the instructions of complete strangers?

    Oh Moglex... Much as you are my hero right now I fear we are going to have to stop flogging this particular dead horse. Some people have absolutely no conception of how they come across to others and that is a problem far too big for you and I to deal with on a mere message board.

    Everyone with eyes can see who is posting mean comments and who is thanking them for doing so and thanks to yours and other illuminating posts will now be able to draw their own conclusions.

    Dismount your white charger, and throw off your armour Sir Moglex. The dragon is slain! :T :beer:
  • Moglex
    Moglex Posts: 1,581 Forumite
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    Oh Moglex... Much as you are my hero right now I fear we are going to have to stop flogging this particular dead horse. Some people have absolutely no conception of how they come across to others and that is a problem far too big for you and I to deal with on a mere message board.

    Everyone with eyes can see who is posting mean comments and who is thanking them for doing so and thanks to yours and other illuminating posts will now be able to draw their own conclusions.

    Dismount your white charger, and throw off your armour Sir Moglex. The dragon is slain! :T :beer:

    I tend to agree.
  • sunnysea83
    sunnysea83 Posts: 1,351 Forumite
    Moglex wrote: »
    I see. You find 'unnecessary' comments a threat?

    And you find it threatening when someone who hasn't the vaguest clue who you are nor your address nor telephone number disagrees with you?

    You didn't make this absurd paranoid tendencies clear when we started communicating, did you?

    And yet you expect OP to list everything that you deem to be important right from her very first post.

    The old double standards problem again, do you see?


    You didn't make this absurd paranoid tendencies clear when we started communicating, did you?

    No because i dont have any...

    And yet you expect OP to list everything that you deem to be important right from her very first post. -

    asking for advice re a seller asking you to call and failing to give the reason you cant/want is a pretty major fact thats missing! when people asked her why she wouldnt ring she could have told them then so that everyone could give her helpful advice! it was a very important fact.

    The old double standards problem again, do you see?

    No i dont have double standards. i just dont like communicating with people who cant see past there opinions and arent open to the fact that everyone is entitled to voice an opinion when its asked and the title of the thread even invites honest open opinions!

    And you find it threatening when someone who hasn't the vaguest clue who you are nor your address nor telephone number disagrees with you?

    You dont need my address, name or contact details to be verbally threating in a written post, i saw the way you write your posts as verbal attack on me!
  • sunnysea83 wrote: »
    No the seller didnt cause the problems, the seller made 1 very simply request that Jacks was unable to do and wouldnt tell us or the seller why! which makes life hard and makes helpin someone hard, had she have been honest then everyone would have been able to be more helpful cause they would know the full story not one about call costs.

    We only have jacks side of the story dont forget.

    I did read the bit about the husband but i do have to say it seems a bit far fetched i cant see why the seller wouldnt speak to him unless its because he didnt know who it was calling him.

    This is just one post where you cast aspersions about Jacks honesty.
  • Moglex wrote: »
    I tend to agree.

    Easier said than done I know, but I'm really going to try to leave it be now. I know Jacks is mortified by the unpleasantness and she hasn't even seen the last couple of pages!
  • sunnysea83
    sunnysea83 Posts: 1,351 Forumite
    Oh Moglex... Much as you are my hero right now I fear we are going to have to stop flogging this particular dead horse. Some people have absolutely no conception of how they come across to others and that is a problem far too big for you and I to deal with on a mere message board.

    Everyone with eyes can see who is posting mean comments and who is thanking them for doing so and thanks to yours and other illuminating posts will now be able to draw their own conclusions.

    Dismount your white charger, and throw off your armour Sir Moglex. The dragon is slain! :T :beer:
    Everyone with eyes can see who is posting mean comments and who is thanking them for doing so and thanks to yours and other illuminating posts will now be able to draw their own conclusions.

    Molgex is the only threating, abusive and rude person on this topic and his/her personal attack on me is very clear for all too see. I think your right in your first paragraph he/she (moglex) has no conception of how they come across to others and how very rude and un open minded they are!
  • sunnysea83
    sunnysea83 Posts: 1,351 Forumite
    This is just one post where you cast aspersions about Jacks honesty.


    where does it state Jack your a liar which is whatyouve accused me of doing!
    sorry nope it doesnt......
  • sunnysea83
    sunnysea83 Posts: 1,351 Forumite
    Easier said than done I know, but I'm really going to try to leave it be now. I know Jacks is mortified by the unpleasantness and she hasn't even seen the last couple of pages!

    I dont understand why she would be to be honest, she asked for advise and even put in the title we could tell her is she is being a cow bag!

    we didnt know all the facts so we couldnt help her....

    If moglex the school bully wasnt acting in the mannor he/she is then this post would have been donewith hours ago!!
  • Caliendo
    Caliendo Posts: 283 Forumite
    MsCrow wrote: »
    No, there just happen to be people who disagree and, correct me if I'm wrong, this is a forum for discussion....which Jacks actually invited.

    People who have disagreed have actually been quite polite, it's those who've taken such an adamently supportive position that have used emotive and vitriolic language.

    You can express a lot of cruelty by being cold and dismissive, and without ever having to be impolite. I went to school with girls like that.
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