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Weekly Flylady Thread 3rd August 2009

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  • LilacPixie
    LilacPixie Posts: 8,052 Forumite
    Dolly I have the same issue only problem is i work full time too. Seriously you would think i had asked my OH to cut off and cook his own testicals if i ask him to hoover or put on the WM of do some dishes. Its always I will do them first thing or i will do it later and it never gets done.
    MF aim 10th December 2020 :j:eek:
    MFW 2012 no86 OP 0/2000 :D
  • jtb2412
    jtb2412 Posts: 1,782 Forumite
    Dolly, pop his dirty clothes in the bottom of his (his side) of the wardrobe. Out of sight, out of mind. He'll soon get the message (my DH did !) lol ;)

    You could always do what my mum used to do and chuck them out of the window ! :eek::rotfl:
    :jWeight loss to date 1st 11.5lb :j
  • rosepink1984
    rosepink1984 Posts: 2,753 Forumite
    Dolly I did that with DH, he never put his clothes in the washing basket and just would leave them in a pile wherever he had taken them off. After several close calls where he nearly ran out of pants he learned. Sometimes he gets a bit lax about it but I just leave them and (if I'm feeling nice) gently remind him of what will happen. He's quite good about it really now. I still haven't found a way to get him to tidy up all his other stuff, put his plate in the kitchen, put empty loo rolls in the recycling, through away empty packets of stuff...perhaps I should chuck them out the window like JTB suggests! LOL!

    Have tidied the LR. Don't even have the energy to have a shower and get dressed before my support worker comes. She will just have to take me as she finds me today I'm afraid.
    "Snowflakes are one of nature's most fragile things, but just look what they can do when they stick together."
    Sealed pot challenge no.576 Loose change pays your debt challenge #2 no.1 Wannabe flylady
    Weight lost since 9 June 2009: [STRIKE]5.5[/STRIKE] 6 lbs
  • gratefulforhelp_2
    gratefulforhelp_2 Posts: 9,286 Forumite
    edited 6 August 2009 at 12:41PM
    sssssh

    However I do use mine to heat the kitchen, dry the washing, press lots of the clothes, don't have a microwave, toaster or kettle so try to get the max out of it:o

    For me the whole thing is more about waste than anything else, I don't intend to ever have another cooker so in terms of manufacturer, distribution, landfill it helps.

    Try to remember the three R (Reduce, Reuse, Recycle) are in order of important, recycling is really the one but last resort l***fill

    I'm the same, of course. I don't ever intend to have another cooker, and it means no need for all of those-quiteshortlived-electrical appliances. The oil consumption though! We are on cool setting for the summer, so not soo bad...

    guys what about putting OH's mess in a nice pile where he spends most time (on sofa, in shed, by pc, in car) hard to ignore then!
    Please do not confuse me with other gratefulsforhelp. x
  • elf06
    elf06 Posts: 1,547 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Potato skewers? Not sure about them. With the baked pots i would nuke them in the microwave first then pop them on the barbie for about half an hour or so.

    Cool will maybe give them a try - thanks
    Elf, I would do baked potatoes, as wouldn’t the potato skewers be too soft and disintegrate?

    Oh now I didnt think of that!! I have a BBQ cookbook but its or Aussie origin so the recipes are either stuff I would never cook or cant get here. The baby pot skewers were in there and I thought they sounded nice. Worried about them now! Also they have a carrot and dill rosti in there which sounds lovely but not sure how I would cook in on the BBQ without it falling through........?!

    Anyways flying wise I am now in the process of TD the loads of washing as I hung it out and then the flipping rain came on AGAIN!!! And the list is looking more like this now

    Wednesday Wonders! ~ Bathroom & Study
    Level Two
    Wash shower curtains/bath mats etc Shower screen way past disgusting - needs a long time to tackle!!
     
    Thrilling Thursday ~ Childrens Rooms and Land of Spare Oom
    Level One
    Put ALL the toys back in their homes!
    Level Three
    Sort a box of toys
    Extras

    [STRIKE]
    Smallfry gets to choose a DVD/film to watch and you have to watch it with them BUT.. and it is a big but.. they have to have helped do some tidying in their room!! Popcorn/sweets/crisps as appropriate.. Wont be doing this as he wont sit through a film but if he helps putting some toys away OR with stripping bed then I will make him a treat and will sit through some cartoons of his choice
    [/STRIKE]
    We watched a few episodes of fireman sam because DS helped me with the washing and dishes this morning and we had a few sneaky cookies while watching :D
    Emma :dance:

    Aug GC - £88.17/£130
    NSD - target 18 days, so far 5!!
  • Triker
    Triker Posts: 7,247 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    Thanks but I really don't get what is good about them :confused:


    Sequences, maybe its just me that sees them. They look neat.;)
    DFW Nerd 267. DEBT FREE 11.06.08
    Stick to It by R.B. Stanfield
    It matters not if you try and fail,
    And fail, and try again; But it matters much if you try and fail, And fail to try again.
  • xx_Jo_xx
    xx_Jo_xx Posts: 2,858 Forumite
    Uniform Washer
    I hate job sites....they are so slow, provide completely irrelevant search result and then crash everytime you try to apply.

    Im thinking maybe its my laptop.....just what i need! for this thing to go on the blink....
    :)Sometimes lurking, sometimes posting, but always flying:)
    You are supposed to be the leading lady of your own life, for God's sake! - The Holiday
    DFW :idea: August 2013... Debt total £15,475.56 - Jan 15 £11,738.66 - DEBT FREE by 2015
    Feb GC £48.02/£250 (£201.98)
    :D I will declutter my house and debts :D
  • Dustykitten
    Dustykitten Posts: 16,507 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Grateful - mine is gas, not sure if that is worse?

    Pancakes done - DS3 like to 'play' with the last one so has been running up and down the garden t*ssing it in the pan.

    Still feeling a bit grim. Going to have my lunch and see how I feel after that.
    The birds of sadness may fly overhead but don't let them nest in your hair
  • Dustykitten
    Dustykitten Posts: 16,507 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Triker wrote: »
    Sequences, maybe its just me that sees them. They look neat.;)

    OK, I need you to detail that for me - I want to see it!
    The birds of sadness may fly overhead but don't let them nest in your hair
  • Natty68
    Natty68 Posts: 3,469 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    I'm back from vets, well have been for a while but it has taken me an age to cool down. I've even had to have another shower, wash hair and put a different set of clothes on because I was so hot..:eek:

    Well it is good news from the vets, I think lo., He has just got a slight fever - possibly some kind of virus, and some gingivitis (strange as he had his teeth cleaned in february by my friends vet and they didn't pick up on this, )anyway he has a 48 hr antibiotic jab and a steroid jab. I am hoping that this will kick start him into eating again. At the moment he is asleep on his bed at the end of the living room. I did wave the tuna under his nose but he wasn't interested so I shall pop out later and get some really smelly cat food and tempt him with this.. Although the vet did mention something about boiled chicken, not sure I could face boiling chicken though..does anyone have any thing that they can recommend instead of this. Would a pre cooked chicken work instead..?

    Off to declutter a couple of beef rolls for lunch. Was supposed to have a friend round for lunch as we arranged yesterday, but she has let me down and hasn't even rung to telephone me. I have rung her at home a couple of times and got no answer, and she hasn't switched her mobile phone on so can't take messages either. Oooh that really makes me mad when you arrange something and then don't keep to it or let someone know you can't make it.:eek:

    Triker how did you get on at the Drs hon?
    Kazwookie what on earth are you going to be using the cement breaker for, it sounds dangerous..?

    Oooh also conquered my fear of spiders, and squished the biggest one you could find in the bedroom - it was huge, about 3 inches from end to end..:eek: I dread to think what the neighbours thought they as I was squealing while squishing it..lol Then had to get it off DH's shoe before he notices tonight..lol Is it me or are the spiders mutating this year, I swear they are the biggest I have seen..:confused::eek:


    Magnificent Monday ~ Living room, hall and stairs!
    Level One
    Level Two
    wipe the sofas

    Wipe the paintwork in the hallway and up the stairs
    Level three
    Wash any curtains/nets soft furnishings that need it
    Vacuum under any furniture you can safely move


    Extras
    1. Update spreadsheets/meal plans etc.. :D
    2. HHI
    3. 15 minutes filing/shredding
    4. Binbag dance!
    Tuesday Terrors! ~ Kitchen and Dining area
    Level One

    Level Two
    Wipe all small appliances and replace
    Sweep and mop the floor
    Wipe over large appliances and unit doors.. make sure insides are clean too
    Level Three




    Extras
    1. clean filters and door seals of large appliances
    2. Clean windows and sills as necessary
    3. HHI
    4. Run washing machines and DW through clean cycles
    Wednesday Wonders! ~ Bathroom & Study Level One
    Declutter the floors
    Clean the baths, loos, showers, sinks etc
    Level Two

    Wash shower curtains/bath mats etc
    Defrag PC while you clean the tiles and shine the mirrors!
    Level Three
    Wipe any sofas/chairs in these places



    Extras
    1. dust and deweb
    2. Clean windows and sills as necessary
    3. Wipe over any paintwork
    4. 15 minutes filing and desk clearance!
    Thrilling Thursday ~ Childrens Rooms and Land of Spare Oom
    Level One
    Strip beds, vacuum and turn mattresses if needed and remake with clean bedding
    Put ALL the toys back in their homes! - does this include dog toys :rotfl:
    Level Two
    Declutter the floor

    Dust and deweb
    Level Three
    Sort a box of toys
    Sort a cupboard of clothes
    Vacuum the floors
    Extras
    1. Wash the curtains/blinds etc if needed
    2. Wipe the paintwork/walls etc if needed
    3. Wash the windows if needed
    Mortgage Free as of 20.9.17
    Declutter challenge 2023, 2024 🏅 🏅⭐️⭐️
    Declutter Challenge 2025
    DH declutter challenge award 🏅⭐️
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