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Weekly Flylady Thread 27th July 2009

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  • Hippy110
    Hippy110 Posts: 662 Forumite
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    Evening all

    Not done anything since my last post as I needed to visit 3 neighbours re different things and stopped for a glass of wine at the last one.

    Stars/lists and life

    Firslty a massive thank you for Pigpen for the lists. I am sure a lot of thought goes into them and I can honestly say that over the months I have done many tasks that I would never have if they had not been on the list (things like sort the airing cupboard, clean the porch, wash the pet bedding, wipe the front door etc)

    To start with I loved getting the stars but to be honest like those of us with kids know star charts can be short lived and the effects wear off and can even lead to rebellion. I found that if I knew I could not get a star for that day I'd do less of the day rather than nearly get a star - just me I'm sure, but I can find them demoralising. Sounds like me whenever I saw windows on the list :rotfl:

    The levels are great and I think for flybabies are definitely the way to go.

    I like having the odd challenge - not every week, but I hope to complete some of the declutter this week.

    Posting your own lists can be very usefull too.

    Considering the work involved I'd go with OS and Serena and say scrap them, go back to basics, be glad of what you have achieved in a week. Use Pigpen's wonderful lists for inspiration and guidance but why clean out a cupboard that doesn't need doing when your DW filters are filthy, just to get the star? I am sure there has been improvising/cheating/substitution going on to get the stars but what the h$ll as long as something was done.

    However, some people may just love the stars and I'd hate for Toots to feel that we did not appreciate her star keeping so if others want to keep them that is good too but on reflection I'm going back to using Miss P for guidance and inspiration with the odd bit of tweaking and a few days of just well being.

    Love to all Dusty (two glasses of wine have gone to my head)


    wot she said ^^^
    Don't put it down, put it away - thanks Valli

    Thank you to all who post competitions & help the smooth running of the comps board
  • Bitsy_Beans
    Bitsy_Beans Posts: 9,640 Forumite
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    edited 28 July 2009 at 10:28AM
    Tuesday Terrors ~ Master bedroom and landing
    level One
    [STRIKE]
    Declutter the floors
    [/STRIKE]Level Two
    [STRIKE]
    Declutter the shelves and flat surfaces
    [/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]
    Vacuum the floors
    [/STRIKE] Have done ALL the rooms as I can't be bothered to get the vac out up there again. Dysons are great but blinkin' heavy to carry!!!!
    [STRIKE]Clear away the floordrobe[/STRIKE]
    Level Three
    Sort a box of junk
    [STRIKE]
    dust and Deweb
    [/STRIKE]
    Not sure if I'll get ALL this done today but will give it a go :D

    I find posting my list on here really motivating, regardless to getting a star etc. I used to write lists at home but always managed to ignore them ;)

    Right I think that's me done for today. Have a minded child coming shortly for settling in session and I've still not had my brekkie!!!! Will try and sort a drawer of junk in the bedroom later if I get chance (demanding children -my own in fact ;) - permitting).
    I have a gift for enraging people, but if I ever bore you it'll be with a knife :D Louise Brooks
    All will be well in the end. If it's not well, it's not the end.
    Be humble for you are made of earth. Be noble for you are made of stars
  • elf06
    elf06 Posts: 1,547 Forumite
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    Monring all - just off to catch up
    Emma :dance:

    Aug GC - £88.17/£130
    NSD - target 18 days, so far 5!!
  • elf06
    elf06 Posts: 1,547 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Valli wrote: »
    ooh I have a dilemma - your thoughts please.

    DD (13-and-a-half) has been invited to a sleepover at her friends, Friend has a big brother 14/15 and a really sensible lad who I get on with. Dilemma is both mum and mum's OH will be at work, on nights so the kids will be in on their own. Now I KNOW they ARE all sensible kids ...

    thoughts please?
    Sorry havent totally caught up yet but saw this and thought I would answer this first. Personally I wouldnt do it. I know plenty of sensible kids who have done something silly in the spur of the moment. I also know you should give them the chance to prove themselves. Dont know what time the parents will be home but my initial reaction would be a 'NO'. What did you decide?? (answer may be in the bits I havent read yet so sorry if you have already answered that)
    Emma :dance:

    Aug GC - £88.17/£130
    NSD - target 18 days, so far 5!!
  • kassey
    kassey Posts: 1,523 Forumite
    Morning everyone
    Tuesday Terrors ~ Master bedroom and landing
    level One
    Declutter the floors
    Strip the bed and wash the bedding and replace before bedtime!!
    Level Two
    Declutter the shelves and flat surfaces
    Vacuum the floors
    Clear away the floordrobe
    Level Three
    Sort a box of junk
    Wash any soft furnishings that need it
    dust and Deweb
    Extras
    1. wash the windows
    2. HHI
    3. Tidy a cupboard/drawer
    4. 100 thing fling!
  • carlsberggal
    carlsberggal Posts: 993 Forumite
    Morning lovelies, hope your all well and happy.

    Valli - a question for you regarding DD, if she said she was going round to mates during the day and her parents were at work (assuming a good 8 hours), would you say yes or no?

    If yes, what's the difference? Just cos it's during the day doesn't mean they are good little angels that would not get up to mischief. Also just because it's evening/night doesn't mean they suddenly turns into devils with wicked evil thoughts and doings.

    Just my thoughts. It's hard to let them grow up, we are always worried about doing the 'wrong' thing. They will suprise you with how grown up they can be, well in the case of my three that was so
    To love and be loved is the greatest happiness of existance - Sydney Smith
  • loshypops
    loshypops Posts: 152 Forumite
    Hello my dears!!:hello:

    I have the day of work in order to get some college work prepared for tonight but i will be flying in between studying today so hopefully i will be like a little whirlwind and get my house up to scratch again!!

    Hope everyone is okilydokily i havent had a chance to read through the thread but i'm just about to sit down with a coffee and catch up as i havent been on here for a while and i need to get back into the swing of flying if that makes sense!!

    Anyway i did nothing at all yesterday because i'm feeling a little under the weather, hope to god its not swine flu so many people in my family and friends have it now its bound to be me next!!!!:eek::D:D so this is what ive done inthe last ten mins or so;-

    Magnificent Monday ~ Scabby Crabby kitchen!
    Level One - done!:j

    Level Two
    Wipe all appliances.. large and small :p
    Wipe over units and kickboards
    Sweep and mop the floor
    Level Three
    Sort and organise a cupboard in these rooms!..

    Thoroughly clean the fridge
    [STRIKE]Wipe the table.. does it need a clean cloth
    [/STRIKE]

    Extras
    1. [STRIKE]Empty, wipe and make pretty any shelves[/STRIKE]
    2. Wash the windows if they need it
    3. Kill a hotspot!
    4. Scrub out the oven and [STRIKE]hob[/STRIKE]
    Tuesday Terrors ~ Master bedroom and landing
    level One
    Declutter the floors
    Strip the bed and wash the bedding and replace before bedtime!!
    Level Two
    Declutter the shelves and flat surfaces
    Vacuum the floors
    [STRIKE]Clear away the floordrobe
    [/STRIKE]Level Three
    Sort a box of junk
    Wash any soft furnishings that need it
    dust and Deweb
    Extras
    1. wash the windows
    2. HHI
    3. Tidy a cupboard/drawer
    4. 100 thing fling!
    I'm too busy to start sorting through ebay items etc this week, i wish i had more time on my hands i feel like everything is getting on top of me. I need to write more to do lists lol!

    Ciao! xx
    Official DFW Nerd Club - Member no. 1147 - Proud to be dealing with my debts
    Lately did you ever feel the pain
    in the morning rain as it soaks you to bone
  • Magnificent Monday ~ Scabby Crabby kitchen!
    Level One-done

    Level Two-done
    Level Three
    Sort and organise a cupboard in these rooms!..

    [STRIKE]Thoroughly clean the fridge[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]Wipe the table.. does it need a clean cloth[/STRIKE]

    Extras
    1. Empty, wipe and make pretty any shelves
    2. Wash the windows if they need it
    3. Kill a hotspot!
    4. Scrub out the oven and hob


    Tuesday Terrors ~ Master bedroom and landing
    level One
    Declutter the floors
    Strip the bed and wash the bedding and replace before bedtime!!
    Level Two
    Declutter the shelves and flat surfaces
    Vacuum the floors
    Clear away the floordrobe
    Level Three
    Sort a box of junk
    Wash any soft furnishings that need it
    dust and Deweb
    Extras
    1. wash the windows
    2. HHI
    3. Tidy a cupboard/drawer
    4. 100 thing fling!
    i have a helper now for 6 weeks :j
  • loshypops
    loshypops Posts: 152 Forumite


    i have a helper now for 6 weeks :j

    if thats not a reasoning statement to put to oh who is not so sure about having more kids then i dont know what is!

    lol :beer:
    Official DFW Nerd Club - Member no. 1147 - Proud to be dealing with my debts
    Lately did you ever feel the pain
    in the morning rain as it soaks you to bone
  • elf06
    elf06 Posts: 1,547 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Magnificent Monday ~ Scabby Crabby kitchen!
    Level One
    Empty and wash out the bin.. make it smell sweet!

    Level Three
    Sort and organise a [STRIKE]cupboard[/STRIKE] drawer in these rooms!..

    Tuesday Terrors ~ Master bedroom and landing
    level One
    Strip the bed and wash the bedding and replace before bedtime!! stripped and in WM
    Level Three
    Sort a box of junk

    Extras
    wash the windows
    100 thing fling!

    Well been off to a great start this morning and although I havent quite hoovered yet I have taken it off cos I am just about to (hoover out and plugged in raring to go). Then I am going to do the bin and chuck out the contents of one drawer and then monday will be done. Will be back later to update (once its all done)
    Emma :dance:

    Aug GC - £88.17/£130
    NSD - target 18 days, so far 5!!
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