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Alcohol self help thread II

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  • Al_Mac
    Al_Mac Posts: 5,519 Forumite
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    lewt wrote:
    "But the thread isn't about alcoholics, it is about people with alcohol problems."-al. good point al maybe im in the wrong place.
    Saying it's not a problem to you?

    Threads open to anyone. I take breaks from it, miss it when I do:o
  • beer2006
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    Morning Al, everyone

    Haven't seen ac around for a while, you OK ac?
    “Pleasure of love lasts but a moment, pain of love lasts a lifetime.”
  • Good morning all,

    Seems like there's been quite a heated discussion going on....

    From my own (limited) personal experience, if I'd known about Al-Anon while I was in that relationship, I would probably have clung to it like a liferaft. And I can understand the 'evangelising' aspect. After all, if I have been saved from drowning by finding AA or Al-Anon, why wouldn't I want everyone that I see out there in the open ocean to come aboard my liferaft? So how do I deal with people who insist that it's their right to stay floating in the ocean and find their own way?

    Hope that makes sense. I believe that the AA/Al-Anon people do have others' interests at heart, but sometimes it can come across as 'preachy'. And sometimes there genuinely is another way that can work as well for some people.
    Retired in 2015.
    Moved to Ireland September 2017
  • Al_Mac
    Al_Mac Posts: 5,519 Forumite
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    Agreed, were is ac, not even sure if she logs on anymore :(
  • beer2006
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    Also agreed,

    She logged on 2 days ago.

    I still haven't had breakfast yet. I'm starving.
    “Pleasure of love lasts but a moment, pain of love lasts a lifetime.”
  • lewt
    lewt Posts: 9,158 Forumite
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    morning, i aint had done either beer i ve been doing some study work-sound dead posh, it aint. decided weather to take that office job or not. weather to wait for my police check to come through and go backinto care work. im gunna phone the working links place in a mo and see if they got me on the councilling coruse. if so i think ill wait for the police check as care work will fot in with meetings and college.
    If i upset you don't stress, never forget that god aint finished with me yet.
  • Is this a closed party or can anyone join in?
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  • Al_Mac
    Al_Mac Posts: 5,519 Forumite
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    Is this a closed party or can anyone join in?
    More a free for all, anyone can join in :)
  • Cool....well Hello, just browsing and thought I would introduce myself. ;)
    2008 gig list... Nickelback + Staind (OMG...Staind ROCKED!!), Roger Waters, Infadels, Pendulum, The Police, K T Tunstall, Breed 77, Biffy Clyro....oh, and Motorhead :D
  • Al_Mac
    Al_Mac Posts: 5,519 Forumite
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    Go on then, introduce yourself, don't be shy :)
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