MSE Parents Club Part 4

searching_me

she seems ok .. better then mine :rotfl: only met her for 20mins as she ran home from work to see jayden and she wants to be known as mummy chlora not granny :rotfl: .. shes a very proud woman and seemed alittle distant like she didnt wanna get to attacted or maybe it was the realisation she was a grandma x

Pink_Princess_1

money_maker wrote: »

said to savour every second of him, things can change in an instant.
My kids are everything to me, I just need to slow down and appreciate them a bit more sometimes

This is so true there was a tragic accident last year and my cousins baby was killed aged 1 year and 12 days although I adored my children before this, I think it changed my whole outlook on life - i started thinking so what if she needs a cuddle during the night it wont be forever, I started maybe being a bit paranoid about accidents that could happen and didnt really let them out of my sight, its coming up to the anniversary of her death and there is a charity event organised which tbh I am dreading as I still get upset about it now.

cazscoob

so do you think you will have more to do with her now?
i hardly ever see my family TBH i speak to my sister every day and see her a couple of times a week, i cant even think when the last time i saw my mum was!

money_maker_3

so sorry Pink. Dont think you ever really get over something like that, its always more upsetting when its a child

searching_me

i doubt it caz she more of a you made your family YOU look after them although she did knit him some booties,mittens and hat .. soooooo cute x

cazscoob

oh well at least you made the first step to meet her, my mum is like that? she has never looked after any of my kids ever? and then all she does is moans when i take charlie up as he eats the fancy stones in her fire lol!

Pink_Princess_1

Thanks MM - it is so much worse when its a child - but we are helping my cousin to cope. We dont see alot of Mil thankfully - maybe twice a year tops!! but I see my mum everyday more or less, she only lives 2 streets away and is always on hand for the kids. I am really lucky that we are so close and good job Oh gets on with them too - think they are like the parents he never had, he didnt have a very good childhood which is the main reason I would never let MIL look after LO.

Millie's_Mum

Sami_Bee wrote: »

Its available on prescription so free for new mums

Not at my doctors

Sami_Bee

I'd hate it if my boys grow up and move away to have families I'll hopefully be the really helpful doting Grandma although I bet whomever ends up my DIL will probably be doing just like all of us do and be moaning to her friends about her overbearing know it all MIL :rotfl:
I'm really close to my immediate family and can't imagine being apart from them. I hate that my sister isn't just down the road, she's almost 2hrs drive away now and she dislikes the distance as much as me. I hope she moves closer to home before she has her babies but I won't hold my breath because she loves where she is now and TBH its nicer than here.

money_maker_3

Millie's_Mum wrote: »

Not at my doctors

could you try to get it at the chemist on that new minor ailments scheme?? They might be more prone to offer you what you ask for !!