MSE Parents Club Part 4

cazscoob

oh 3 *hugs* you know ive been there recently and it still gets to me. hope you get things sorted out. you know where i am if u wanna chat x

cazscoob

welcome to the other side tara lol!

money_maker_3

Hi tara :hello:

Krystaltips

My_Fathers_Daughter wrote: »

Krystal - Benjamin has been quite sick today (started before he had his injections so I don't think it was that) and has brought back milk every time I fed him, which is not like him at all.

Hubby gave him a bottle of EBM tonight and he was fine...do you think it might be something in my milk affecting him? If so, do I need to pump and dump or will it fix itself overnight??

Don't bother pumping and dumping. Unless you're on particularly potent medication then its generally pointless... The sickiness is probably just one of those things... Could be a complete anomolly that he didn't bring anything up after the bottle... I wouldn't worry if he's otherwise OK...

elle_gee wrote: »

Grr.. went out to Tesco (bought kitchen roll, fruit juice, lemonade and wine - odd combo!), then to get petrol then to hospital. When I got back I found Rhys lying on OH's chest, OH fast asleep, Rhys slipping into the gap between OH and the back of the sofa and wittering right in OH's ear.. and, I repeat, OH fast asleep! Took Rhys off him, he rolled over and is still asleep.. Words will be had later.

ETA: The wine is chilling in the fridge as we type..

I wouldn't be having words later, I would of been wrapping something round his head as I removed the baby!

3onitsway wrote: »

Communications! :mad: Videos/pics don't bother me in the slightest! But emailing/contacts is another matter! I feel all sick now, i don't know what to do!

See above...

feelinggood_2

3onitsway wrote: »

Communications! :mad: Videos/pics don't bother me in the slightest! But emailing/contacts is another matter! I feel all sick now, i don't know what to do!

I'm sorry 3. I don't really have any advice, just wanted to send hugs. Hope you can talk it through x

Krystaltips

feelinggood wrote: »

From what I've read, sleeping with babies should only be done by Mummies, we are the only ones who are alert enough and aware of their babies.

And absolutely never ever under any circumstances on a sofa or armchair!!

feelinggood_2

Krystaltips wrote: »

And absolutely never ever under any circumstances on a sofa or armchair!!

OH had a naughty habit of getting drunk when I had an early night, then not telling me when he got in bed. Words were had about that too.

Toby doesn't want to look at MumMum today, he is facing outwards and shouting at the telly.

3onitsway

feelinggood wrote: »

I'm sorry 3. I don't really have any advice, just wanted to send hugs. Hope you can talk it through x

Krystaltips wrote: »

I wouldn't be having words later, I would of been wrapping something round his head as I removed the baby!
See above...

cazscoob wrote: »

oh 3 *hugs* you know ive been there recently and it still gets to me. hope you get things sorted out. you know where i am if u wanna chat x

I feel a t!t for posting on here - but if i speak to any real people they'll all judge him in the future! IYKWIM!

It was a site where you contact other people and/or swap messages. He joined on 26/10/08 when I was pregnant and the most unattractive person in the world - to him!! This was also the date I took the older two to Eurodisney, so now my mind is thinking that he had dirty women at our home while I was away.
From what I can see, he's received 46 messages, and replied to 8 - but nothing in the replies to say he's done anything - just general flirting.
Whats making me sick is that as my old MSE friends will know, he was totally off s£x (or me) as soon as I knew I was pregnant. We did the deed on Saturday, he instigated it. Looking at the activity log, he was on there on Friday night/early hours Saturday - now I'm thinking someone else got him in the mood IYKWIM.
He's in now - and has noticed that i'm not speaking to him - and keeps asking whats up.
If anyone knows my past - my ex started seeing someone else while I was pregnant with Liv - and i'm feeling incredibly insecure.


ETA: he's noticed i'm not speaking to him, so I handed him the stuff i'd printed off from the other site - then went into the kitchen!

Sami_Bee

3 - that's awful I say sleep on it tho your too angry right now all you'll do is have a massive fight. I hope it isn't as bad as it seams right now xxx

on the subject of OHs saying stupid things this eve OH revealed that he found the sight of me pregnant gross especially this time because I was huuuge! ...thanks for that!

My_Fathers_Daughter

MrsTine wrote: »

MFD - Roo has days like that - she'll be fine with EBM but if I stick her on the boob it's like she can't control how much she's eating and has too much - cue burp and then sick... usually all down me
I love her I love her I love her :rotfl: (ps she did it to me today whilst I was out at my mates lol... bless her)

Benjamin isn't sick very often and today it has been lots and lots of watery stuff (ask Fritha - she had to tell me about it earlier cos I was too busy yacking!!)
We will see how we go...I don't think it is over-eating (he is particularly good at that!!)

3onitsway wrote: »

Not that i'm judging or anything - but MFD in the Pub AGAIN! :eek:

What can I say!! We don't go for long (2 drinks is the most Benjamin will usually allow us to have) but we do go reasonably often!! It's what you get for having a family friendly local!!

Thank you for your comments on my daughters (daughters still sounds strange!) - but don't be fooled by Liv's cuteness - she can be an absolute horror-bag when she wants. I'm still amazed at how long/tall Benjamin is (Or is Violet a short ar5e!)

Benjamin is tall - but so am I! He is about an inch taller than one of the 1 year old girls at Booby Club!

And don't worry about your pics - i'm bound to look worse! I always look asleep or pi55ed in pics. I am officially the least photogenic person on earth.

Hmmm - we will see! I don't think I am bad looking in real life...but I am generally minging on photos!! Occasionally I find one that looks like 'me' as I think I look!
My own mother used to get my brother to pinch me when we were having school photos done so I didn't smile too much :rotfl:


I got thinking earlier after Mum commenting that Violet is a very sicky baby, and my other two weren't. I think she must bring up about a third of each feed - and always had. She's still putting on weight (lots) so I don't think i'm worried, but should I be?

As long as she is putting on weight and thriving then don't worry. I only brought it up cos Benjamin is not sick very often (certainly not every day) but he has been loads today.

On a downer - i've been trying to figure out what's happened with my hijacked email account today, and set up some virus scans. I've found some stuff that I wish I hadn't! :eek: OH will be home from work in about 10 minutes and i'm not sure whether to throw the lap top at him, or wait and think about it for a few days.
(My gut feeling is to drink Jack Daniels and then throw the lap top at him - but that's not sensible).:mad:

LOL - he was hardly being discrete was he!!!
Tell him what you know, ask him why and go from there.
We had some issues about email contact with an ex a while ago...hubby wasn't happy, I was elsewhere and he is a weak and stupid man. We talked and got over it.
Above all, he now knows EXACTLY where I stand should anything similar happen again.


Just to add - I don't have a problem with him contacting his exes per se...it was the type of contact and the secrecy which was an issue.