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MSE Parents Club Part 4

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  • Fritha_2
    Fritha_2 Posts: 1,447 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    *hugs* 3

    *slaps elle's oh*

    Bless Toby shouting at the tv!
    Comping, freebieing and trying to pay the mortgage off early!
  • 3onitsway
    3onitsway Posts: 4,000 Forumite
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    Sami_Bee wrote: »
    3 - that's awful :( I say sleep on it tho your too angry right now all you'll do is have a massive fight. I hope it isn't as bad as it seams right now xxx

    on the subject of OHs saying stupid things this eve OH revealed that he found the sight of me pregnant gross especially this time because I was huuuge! ...thanks for that!

    I feel like such a gullable t**t!
    He knew exactly how my ex was and what he did to me - And I feel like history is repeating! But,,,,,, i've been with him for 6 years, and in those 6 years he's been the most wonderful perosn who'd never cheat or do anything to hurt me. We're the irritatingly happy couple! How can my life change in a matter of minutes! :confused:
    :beer:
  • money_maker_3
    money_maker_3 Posts: 9,591 Forumite
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    he still sha@@ed you though sami, Chris wouldnt even kiss me properly incase he temporarily forgot I was pregnant, get horney, then realise he couldnt have sex with the hidious fatso that was his pregnant wife :)
    I do love my husband really I do :rolleyes:
    The two best things I have done with my life
    :TDD 5/11/02 :j DS 17/6/09 :T
    STOPTOBER CHALLANGE ... here we go !!
  • Sami_Bee wrote: »
    3 - that's awful :( I say sleep on it tho your too angry right now all you'll do is have a massive fight. I hope it isn't as bad as it seams right now xxx

    on the subject of OHs saying stupid things this eve OH revealed that he found the sight of me pregnant gross especially this time because I was huuuge! ...thanks for that!


    ooo nice!! - I am waiting for the bl00per from my hubby now!!
    r.mac wrote: »
    please listen to MFD - she is a wise woman :D
    Proud Mummy to the gorgeous Benjamin John born 14 March 2009, 8lbs 14oz
    A new little seedling on the way, due 30 September 2012
  • elle_gee
    elle_gee Posts: 8,584 Forumite
    Do you think they've all been taking stupid pills lately?!

    *hugs* for 3 xx

    I've opened the wine.. one glass will be out my system by 5am, won't it? Got enough fresh EBM in the fridge for until then - or I could defrost some and pour another glass but then I really won't wake up in the middle of the night! ;)
  • 3onitsway
    3onitsway Posts: 4,000 Forumite
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    Benjamin isn't sick very often and today it has been lots and lots of watery stuff (ask Fritha - she had to tell me about it earlier cos I was too busy yacking!!)
    We will see how we go...I don't think it is over-eating (he is particularly good at that!!)



    LOL - he was hardly being discrete was he!!!
    Tell him what you know, ask him why and go from there.
    We had some issues about email contact with an ex a while ago...hubby wasn't happy, I was elsewhere and he is a weak and stupid man. We talked and got over it.
    Above all, he now knows EXACTLY where I stand should anything similar happen again.


    Just to add - I don't have a problem with him contacting his exes per se...it was the type of contact and the secrecy which was an issue.


    He's got ex's on facebook/email = and thats not a problem, because I know about it! Its the secrecy that I hate.

    At this very moment I feel like I've been living in a bubble where I had this lovely happy family - and he's just popped it.
    He's still hiding in the kitchen!
    :beer:
  • Fritha_2
    Fritha_2 Posts: 1,447 Forumite
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    Benjamin isn't sick very often and today it has been lots and lots of watery stuff (ask Fritha - she had to tell me about it earlier cos I was too busy yacking!!)

    I have vomit radar, I can spy children being sick from sixteen miles away!

    Anyway, it look kind of mucusy to me, could he have a bit of a cold? We had days like that when Celia was smaller where milk would just make a bid for freedom.
    Comping, freebieing and trying to pay the mortgage off early!
  • 3onitsway
    3onitsway Posts: 4,000 Forumite
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    he still sha@@ed you though sami, Chris wouldnt even kiss me properly incase he temporarily forgot I was pregnant, get horney, then realise he couldnt have sex with the hidious fatso that was his pregnant wife :)
    I do love my husband really I do :rolleyes:

    Did you mean 3, not Sami?
    We did it twice whilst I was pregnant, and we've done it three times since! (The last being Saturday after he'd been emailing 5lut5!)
    I feel such a t!t!
    :beer:
  • Fritha_2
    Fritha_2 Posts: 1,447 Forumite
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    elle_gee wrote: »
    I've opened the wine.. one glass will be out my system by 5am, won't it? Got enough fresh EBM in the fridge for until then - or I could defrost some and pour another glass but then I really won't wake up in the middle of the night! ;)

    As a general rule it's an hour per unit, so you should be grand by 5am! With Rhys being titchy and early I don't know if the rules are different (Krystal, any ideas?) but I know that basically if you're sober enough to drive you're sober enough to breast feed/express :-)
    Comping, freebieing and trying to pay the mortgage off early!
  • 3onitsway wrote: »
    Did you mean 3, not Sami?
    We did it twice whilst I was pregnant, and we've done it three times since! (The last being Saturday after he'd been emailing 5lut5!)
    I feel such a t!t!

    This is something that he has done, and nothing for you to be embarrassed or ashamed of.

    I am sure you will find that he is dying of shame and he has just let his todger have its evil way with him. I mean in a looking sense, not a touching sense.

    Babies do take up a lot of time and effort and it is easy for daddies to feel left out of the loop. That's why we go to the pub so often ;)
    r.mac wrote: »
    please listen to MFD - she is a wise woman :D
    Proud Mummy to the gorgeous Benjamin John born 14 March 2009, 8lbs 14oz
    A new little seedling on the way, due 30 September 2012
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