lilmissmups moving on and hopefully upwards diary!

lilmissmup

Thanks hun.

At least I can have it a bit girlie.

I am trying not to talk to him to stop things getting horrid as don't want us hating each other.

But do i delete him off facebook??? I know I should!

mariagti

Morning hun,

Hope the viewings go well.

i'd say yes block him on facebook, as it will only cause you more heart ache knowing what his doing all the time, seeing what his saying to other people etc. Facebook causes nothing but problems with me and my OH and we're in a relationship!

hypno06

If the blatancy of facebook is what is hurting you, then delete it and stop the hurt from slapping you in the face every time you log on.

But only you know what you need to do, and only you can be strong enough to do it. But once you have done what you need to do, enjoy the liberation that it should give you.

Remember, there are no rules in these situations.

lilmissmup

I should do but the nosey side of me wants to know what he is telling the world , his brothers ex has just asked him what happened with us. I know i should delete him before he says something else about us that hurts.

Not gonna help me move on though.....feel cruel just deleting him but should i after what hes done, no probably not. Hes been my world for last 6.5yrs though its hard to just say bye, keep finding pics etc of us around the house whilst sorting stuff!

Fire_Fox

(((((hugs))))) :A

stacy

Aww lilmiss, this is the hardest part sorting through things ect I often think about if me and my oh split when we have arguements ect we have been together 7 years this august, it is tough but you will get through it, it will get easier after this obstacle, try to think positive. I know what you mean about facebook i am so nosey lol :rolleyes:

lilmissmup

Well i didn't really like the house today.

Went to some other letting agents in town, when I said the word cats I got looked at like i said i was a murderer :rolleyes:

But one agent has a house similar to what I saw and they are going to ask the landlord if he would accept and let me know next week.

Nick text me today saying sorry for last night so had a few texts today back and forth.

Me and Dad were tidying house earlier and painting walls, hes back tomorrow to help and went round my friends tonight for tea, she is my friend who is my rock right now. Don't know what I would do without her!

Nichelette

I'm not on here much during the week so I've only just discovered your new diary, but I hope you find somewhere nice to live with the cats soon. I've never been with anyone for more than a few years, but I can imagine how much it hurts to lose someone you probably thought you'd be with forever. As you've said the hardest part is being alone, so as hard as it is make the effort to go out with your friends, and soon hopefully you'll start to see the light at the end of the tunnel. Look after yourself xx

mariagti

Thats a shame you didnt like the house, hopefully the agent will get back to you quickly.

Your friend sounds like a star! Have you thought about renting with a friend? Then you would have company to keep you busy and would cut bills in half so you could still save.

You sound like your coping well considering hun, your doing the right thing having your friends around you keeping you company. Keep strong and keep posting! x

lilmissmup

I am not coping well at all, just don't want to post it all on here, not heard from him for over 24 hours, trying to be strong and not text him either.

Still should delete him off Facebook but can't bring myself too.

I think I am in shock still, I wasn't expecting him just to go and I can't really believe that he won't be coming back.

Problem is most of my friends already live with OH's or don't have the cash to move out of home.