📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 4

1302303305307308444

Comments

  • I Have seen it Jo :D

    Need to keep some people in line ;)

    ym
  • following_eyes.jpg

    Watching you Bhb In fact I am watching you all :D

    That's quite comforting in a really weird way :rotfl:
    jo1972 wrote: »
    Awww FH, just seen your avvie, that's really sad :(

    Kinda how I feel right now. I'll hopefully be able to change it soon :rolleyes:
    Need to start again :o
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    I Have seen it Jo :D

    Phew!!
    Kinda how I feel right now. I'll hopefully be able to change it soon :rolleyes:

    Why not feel like your ID, forever hopeful :)

    I'm off to mums now but will be thinking of you, fingers crossed till told otherwise :A:A
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • following_eyes.jpg

    Watching you Bhb In fact I am watching you all :D


    Holy Cow YM!! Are you trying to scare the bejesus out of me!?! I'll be having nightmares tonight!:eek:
    **Keep Calm and Carry On!**
  • following_eyes.jpg

    Watching you Bhb In fact I am watching you all :D

    Bloody hell - better behave now :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:
    :) Embrace your inner Hillbilly :)
  • fayjmck wrote: »
    OK Question - how many of us have NO alcohol in the house today?

    I don't know if there is alcohol in my house apart from a bottle of an undrinkable holiday purchase:eek:, because I haven't looked in the bit where the wine lives. Any that is there is OHs.

    I may sound really stupid but it was only a few weeks before I stopped drinking completely that I finally twigged that having large quantitites of wine delivered regularly courtesy of Tesco was not helping me cut down. My first big light bulb moment was realising that if I didn't have the wine in the house I would have to go out and get some (and am a very lazy person:rolleyes:).

    Too many pages to catch up on, but best wishes to all, especially those who are struggling a bit. It sounds so easy to stop or cut down until you try and find out what a hold alcohol has. It took me years to get to the point of tackling it properly so am well impressed by all of you.
  • Just got off the phone with Mr FH :jPersonnel phoned him and said it was just a timing issue and that he didn't get the proper salary because it wasn't approved on time. But it's approved now and he'll get it backdated in his next pay.

    He has asked if he can get a payment made to him sooner, but not sure that will happen. Thing is, we don't trust them until we can see the evidence. He's asked for the details in writing though and she is sending him through an e-mail.

    We'll wait to see if that happens, but are now quietly confident that everything is going to be okay. Phew!!!

    Thanks for all the support guys. It must have worked (((hugs)))

    Much love X
    Need to start again :o
  • 115K
    115K Posts: 2,678 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture
    ^ Good news FH.:T
    HOUSE MOVE FUND £16,000/ £19,000
    DECLUTTERING 2015 439 ITEMS
    “Don’t let your happiness depend on something you may lose.”
  • Thats good news FH....lets hope you can breathe a bit easier now :T
    **Keep Calm and Carry On!**
  • Brilliant FH :T

    Don't go and celebrate 'too much' though ;):D

    Celebrate with an orange juice :D

    YM's watching you know :rotfl:
    :) Embrace your inner Hillbilly :)
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 351.3K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.2K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 453.7K Spending & Discounts
  • 244.2K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 599.3K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 177.1K Life & Family
  • 257.7K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.2K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.6K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.