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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 4
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Evening all

I will say it quickly ....... I have had a bottle of wine tonight.:eek:
Feeling insecure at work . Boss is talking about getting someone extra in ( I don't think we need it yet ) ..... I worry that this will mean I have less work..... I am always like this and it has not happened so far in 7 yrs but
Love to you all
Sweet Dreams
40SM:D
ETA Also have to see Doctor tomorrow about DS1 autism thingy so I don't hold out much hope for tomorrow as I find this very stressful . I fully understand why Miss P needed a drink after the speech therapist.0 -
Enforced AF tonight, hadnt intended it but know ill be pleased in the morning.
GG, fantastic news, im so pleased for you, please dont use this as a passport to carry on how you dont want to though xDFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!0 -
:hello:
Did anyone see the Benefit Busters programme on Ch4 tonight. I just watched it and the blonde who was drinking (and denied it) really made me think. She looked a wreck and the trainer kept saying how much she smelled of booze. Certainly got me thinking.
Loved the dishwasher story eselt and it's great to see you around again. fay, I was thinking the empties in the fridge were ex's until I realised OMG how embarassing.
Beachb, I am so pleased about your test results. Still lots of good reasons for cutting back tho'.
geranium, sorry to hear about the SW disaster. Although I need to I've never joined a club like that ('cos I always thought I'd have to eat different food from OH and not be motivated) but isn't it fairly normal to plateau sometimes? I certainly know that empty wine calories don't help me!!!
YM what's with the gruesome new avatar. Bring back Lal-la!!!
BHB, I've heard some great excuses for drinking (most of them on here :rotfl:) but the one about a sewage pump is a load of carp!
jo, glad you're popping in from your hols, was there no shopping opportunity today? Anyway all AF days count whether enforced or otherwise.
:T Well done everyone on an AF Thursday!!
9AF please Miss P.0 -
Hi everybody
7 AFDs for me now, please Miss Piggy.
YM: I agree with Maman - what on earth is that Avvie? Scary or what?
Decorating starting to drive me crazy - I had to have two snickers-type bars tonight ... at least it didn't drive me to the old pinot g ...
Night night xxTotal AFD's May-December 2009: 178 ie 73% of total days (245 days)
Target January: 25 actual: 24 Target Feb: 22 actual 22 Target March: 26 Actual: 24 Target April: 25 Actual: 50 -
Including tonight (which was not alcohol free)....
10 Alcohol Free Nights.
bad....quite drunk actually. But I did cycle 7 miles to stockport with 60 metres of rope on my back, climbed for a couple of hours, and then cycled back?0 -
yellowmonkey wrote: »Do you want me to note that down as your total for Sept geranium

ym
Yes please YM - thank you :ABack to comping! July wins: Frylight August wins: Pixar DVD, Diesel Watch,£75 hamper brioche products September wins bath soak
Thanks to everyone who posts comps and help :beer:0 -
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On the Family Fortunes thread - some of my favourites
Name a dangerous race - The Arabs
Name something Red - My cardiganBack to comping! July wins: Frylight August wins: Pixar DVD, Diesel Watch,£75 hamper brioche products September wins bath soak
Thanks to everyone who posts comps and help :beer:0 -
Morning
Happy to report I've remained AF for the last 4 nights. Makes me 8/14.
Amazing what a good book can do.
40sm - FB is just trouble for me, I love playing scrabble and chatting with my old school mates, and Bejeweled oh dear, I may have to start counting bejeweled free days ! I really live on the edge these days.DC.
"Some people walk in the rain... others just get wet... " - Roger Miller0 -
Cutting down/ Giving up August Challenge!
Days
115K 5/31(no target)
69Chick 7/14
Bluenose 4/20
Budget Babe 13/1:j
Debtmonkey1A 8/19
Different Corner 8/14
Fayjmck 10/31
Fedupandskint 11/30
Foreverhopeful 5/10
Gargrave50 0/10
Geranium72 9/20
Grey Pilgrim 10/30
Honeybear 1/6
Maman 9/10
Mari 0/16
Mollypolly 20/31
Mookyboy 2/16
Nessa56 2/13
Price is Right 7/11
Samandsheryl 10/22
Skintscottishgirl 2/24
Time2GrowUp 2/12 (left challenge but welcome back anytime!)
Wanna Bee Free 7/8
Winebox 5/10
Yellowmonkey 8/11
Units
BarshamHillbilly 89/125
Days Pledged : 408
Actual : 164
Units Pledged: 125
Actual : 106**Keep Calm and Carry On!**0 -
Morning everyone - all doing well, I hope.
Yeah, plus it's a great excuse as to why there's booze on your breath. Of course there is - you've been drinking openly, didn't they see? Anyway, I donated the remaining scotch in the shed to the bindweed behind it. Hope it chokes..Snowy, I did laugh about your stash in the shed. But we've all been there. My trick was to have a quick sherry or G&T in between so that OH thought I was sticking to just the one bottle.
. Bloody difficult to do, I have to be honest, but I felt a lot better for it though.
I'm going to Tesco in a moment - not only cos it's relatively quiet at 7.00 a.m., but you physically can't buy booze before 9.00. Makes that side of shopping a lot easier to deal with.Proud to be dealing with my debtsDMP Mutual Support Thread member 337
Amount owed 20/5/09 - £40,800: DFD 1/12/20160
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