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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 4

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  • Tosh1 wrote: »
    Hey, I've been alcohol free for four months now!

    Mind you it did take the help of Alcoholics Anonymous to help me find the right path and I wish I did it years ago.

    I reckon I've 'saved' (I've just spent the money on nicer things; like bills and stuff) nearly £2000 maybe more, from money not spent on booze and time spent working when normally I'd be drinking (I'm self emp).

    So I just thought I'd tip my hat and suggest AA is a great place if you think you have a 'drinking problem'.

    Regards,

    Tosh

    Hi Tosh, and well done on your 4 months AF:T:T:T, not to mention the moneysaving bit which is amazing.

    Just being nosy, but did you go straight to AA, or did you try other things first to help you stop?
  • mumofboys_2
    mumofboys_2 Posts: 154 Forumite
    edited 18 August 2009 at 9:25AM
    Hi all

    Well done on staying AF last night. I feel so much better today - hurrah! Having said that I did sleep really badly last night too - two visitations from the little darlings, and then a really vivid dream that I was auditioning for the part of Nancy standing on top of a ladder for that female judge from Dancing on Ice. May I just point out that in real life I cannot sing at all! It is quite a worry!:confused:

    40SM - The constant fighting is such a bore, although I have to say I am still dreading them going back to school, I do miss them, although I am not looking forward to the early mornings and the school run. Loving the weetabix at 6pm - what time did he go to bed?

    Sam - Oh no, you and I are going to have an issue tonight!!! You can call me Mumofbhoys !;)

    Fay - I have bought some Hellebores for a very shady corner, and want to put in some Euphorbia too, but I think they are both early flowering, any ideas for some summer interest? Do Digitalis do ok in shade? Also planted some Kale in the smallest veg patch ever seen!

    Jo - Hope you are having a good holiday - don't punish yourself if you are finding it hard going...

    Cazza - Keep going you are such a star, well done!:D Don't try to tackle too much at once, you are doing great...

    Right, I need to make a picnic as we are off on an adventure with bikes, dogs and friends to a lovely wood near to where we live. Catch up later.

    MOB
  • yellowmonkey - ooooh what a fantastic photo! Makes me feel all warm and full of joy. :T

    Reminds me of when my OH and I went to Canada (British Columbia) in October 2006. The trees were turning vivid pinks and golds and reds and yellows - soooo beautiful.

    *big sigh* (I need a holiday!!) :rolleyes:

    Hugs,
    Caz
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    He who does not economize will have to agonize (Confucius)

    Beware of little expenses; a small leak will sink a great ship (Benjamin Franklin) :eek:
  • 40SM

    How spooky, i am just eating a sandwich meant for lunch as i read!


    MOB

    Oh no! Well in that case i hope you have an alcohol free but awful evening! lol

    Sam
    AF since 06/02/2010
  • honeybear_2
    honeybear_2 Posts: 3,914 Forumite
    Hi there

    I've been skulking round MSE for awhile. Finally taken the leap to post an SOA but I really wanted to post on here too cos one of my money problems is definitely that I spend far too much on red wine & this seemed like a place that might help with that?

    Great pic of Autumn, btw :)
    @ LBM = £15,872.65, now £10,819.82
    AF Jan = 7/? Feb = 5/14 Mar = 14/20 Apr = 6/14 May = 2/14 June 2/14 July 0/TF Aug 1/TFv Sept 6/TF Oct 4/7
    "NEVER DOUBT YOUR OWN QUALITY"
  • honeybear

    You've come to the right place!
    AF since 06/02/2010
  • 40SM

    How spooky, i am just eating a sandwich meant for lunch as i read!


    MOB

    Oh no! Well in that case i hope you have an alcohol free but awful evening! lol

    Sam

    Well, you had a pretty awesome performance at the weekend, so I am not holding my breath....:rolleyes:
  • honeybear_2
    honeybear_2 Posts: 3,914 Forumite
    Thanks! :)

    Feel so freaked about by actually sitting down & facing up to all this I'm now cleaning my bathroom! Displacement activity, or what?!
    @ LBM = £15,872.65, now £10,819.82
    AF Jan = 7/? Feb = 5/14 Mar = 14/20 Apr = 6/14 May = 2/14 June 2/14 July 0/TF Aug 1/TFv Sept 6/TF Oct 4/7
    "NEVER DOUBT YOUR OWN QUALITY"
  • MOB - yeah they are woodland plants so they are great in shade and are more early summer than spring - bluebells also good, pink purslane, and some evergreen things like Vinca major or minor (beautiful purple flowers and glossy all year round foliage)

    Stick shade loving plants into google images - UK and you will get a whole lot of interesting things - lots of bulbs like shade too........and euphorbias can flower all summer if you pick the right ones
    Total debt 26/4/18 <£1925 we were getting there. :beer:
    Total debt as of 28/4/19 £7867.38:eek:
    minus 112.06 = £7755.32:money:
    :money:Sleeves up folks.:money:
  • No manners - waves to Honeybear
    Total debt 26/4/18 <£1925 we were getting there. :beer:
    Total debt as of 28/4/19 £7867.38:eek:
    minus 112.06 = £7755.32:money:
    :money:Sleeves up folks.:money:
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