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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 4

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  • Remembering that alcoholism is an incurable,
    progressive, fatal disease.


    Living Sober.

    Chapter #4.
    Living Sober.

    Some methods A.A. members have used for not drinking.

    "A simple book for complicated people"
  • Miss_Piggy_2
    Miss_Piggy_2 Posts: 3,631 Forumite
    I'll do Augusts scoring? .................She said in a very small voice hoping that no-one would notice.:rotfl:

    Miss P
    xx
    **Keep Calm and Carry On!**
  • 40somethingmum
    40somethingmum Posts: 2,513 Forumite
    Miss_Piggy wrote: »
    I'll do Augusts scoring? .................She said in a very small voice hoping that no-one would notice.:rotfl:

    Miss P
    xx

    I noticed :T:rotfl::rotfl:. Thank you for "volunteering";)

    40SMx
  • maman
    maman Posts: 29,734 Forumite
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    Next month I think I will stop counting AFD and count units or bottles of wine or something. Its just that counting the days sometimes works against me .... I must finish this bottle tonight so that I can have one AFD instead of 2 IYSWIM. Or I am not wasting an AFD on a glass of wine!!
    It would be far healthier for me to spread the wine over 2 or poss days and have 3 AFDS instead of 1 . At the moment , if I do that I think that I have failed. I hope I am making sense:o Don't worry I don't expect the scorer to count my units as well as AFDS ( that is hard enough). Who is the scorer by the way ???

    40SMxxx

    AND AUGUST's SCORER IS MISS PIGGY :T:T:T

    Thank you so much for volunteering.

    40SM I think your idea is good. I don't think I could cope with counting units as I do love full fat wines but I may do a bottle count alongside my AF days. I have already noticed fewer trips to the bottle bank, so that's progress.

    Have a good day everyone.
  • 115K
    115K Posts: 2,678 Forumite
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    I wasn't even AF last night when I said I was going to be.:mad: I finished the half bottle of wine in the fridge and then had another bottle after that as my DH brought one home for me (at my request.) I'm wondering whether to even bother with keeping score with my AF days if I don't stick to it.:rolleyes:
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  • fluffyb
    fluffyb Posts: 1,025 Forumite
    115k, hugs to you. Are you taking Kudzu? I can't remember :confused:


    Well done to Miss Piggy for volunteering for August :T

    I haven't decided yet if I am taking part in Augusts challenge as August is always an iffy month :rolleyes: Hubby and I both have August off and will be away on short breaks a few times, so will be away a lot, and I have said all along I will drink when away on holiday. I think I will still clock up 10 AFDs easily, but don't want to risk failing for the first time ever as it will de motivate me and have the 'sod it' effect on me IYKWIM :confused: Being in Augusts challenge may do me more harm than good :eek:

    So not sure yet :rolleyes:
  • Miss_Piggy_2
    Miss_Piggy_2 Posts: 3,631 Forumite
    Looks like its me then !:eek::eek::eek:

    If anyone wants to have their totals counted differently (ie units or bottles) then I'm quite happy to keep track of those too (I must be mad). Just let me know nearer the time.

    69chick - glad to hear you are slightly better . I expect you can't wait till 12.15!

    Jo - 19 for me please!

    Miss P
    xx
    **Keep Calm and Carry On!**
  • yellowmonkey
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    Well done for volunteering for August

    ym
  • maman
    maman Posts: 29,734 Forumite
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    Ignore this line, just testing adding characters!! (computer says too short!! Rubbish!!)
    fluffyb wrote: »
    115k, hugs to you. Are you taking Kudzu? I can't remember :confused:

    All AF days count 115K. I would stick with it and perhaps next month don't have a target but just build days or count bottles?
    Well done to Miss Piggy for volunteering for August :T
    And so say all of us!!

    I haven't decided yet if I am taking part in Augusts challenge as August is always an iffy month :rolleyes: Hubby and I both have August off and will be away on short breaks a few times, so will be away a lot, and I have said all along I will drink when away on holiday. I think I will still clock up 10 AFDs easily, but don't want to risk failing for the first time ever as it will de motivate me and have the 'sod it' effect on me IYKWIM :confused: Being in Augusts challenge may do me more harm than good :eek:

    So not sure yet

    I do understand Fluffy but I think you might feel worse if you pull out of August completely. What I do, is print off a calendar for the month and fill in all my weekends/socialising then estimate a conservative target (allowing perhaps one day a week for unexpected events). If I go over this then I can always 'claim' days back from weekends. Just a thought.

    :rolleyes:
  • jo1972
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    Good on ya Miss P :D:D:D

    ETA: hope the scorer's curse doesn't get ya :eek: :eek:

    I'll be back later to update you on my horrific night :eek:

    xx
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