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The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

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  • Oh my goodness, I'm so so sorry Runner to hear your news. Thinking of you and you OH at this absolutely dreadful time. xxxx
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  • codemonkey
    codemonkey Posts: 6,534 Forumite
    delurking to say I'm so sorry to hear that Runner. That's just so bleedin unfair. You and OH take care of yourselves and each other.
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  • claire16c
    claire16c Posts: 7,074 Forumite
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    Runnerduck I am so sorry.

    Im on the ttc thread but Ive sometimes lurked on here so seen part of your story. I had the same thing happen to me at my scan. I cant say I know exactly how you feel but I know what it feels like to be in that room and have that happen and what a nightmare that is.

    It makes me cry for you sitting here reading this and to think you have to go through this now after everything else. The world is so unfair.

    I dont really have any advice because there is nothing anyone can really do to help. But some of the ladies on the miscarriage support thread on here were really helpful to me if you have any questions or just want to let it out to someone other than your OH
  • TTC40
    TTC40 Posts: 1,056 Forumite
    Runner - thinking of you,but words seem inadequate. Hope you and OH have plenty of love to support you.
  • Nicki
    Nicki Posts: 8,166 Forumite
    Very sorry to hear your news runner. The same thing happened to us in our first pregnancy and I still remember how devastated I was. Take as much time as you need to grieve your loss and be kind to yourself as this is a really tough time. As claire said the miscarriage support thread here is very supportive too.
  • mokba43
    mokba43 Posts: 98 Forumite
    Runner, my thoughts are with you xxx
  • time2deal
    time2deal Posts: 2,099 Forumite
    Oh no Runner. Sending lots of love and what support we can. Thinking of you both.
  • onestep
    onestep Posts: 893 Forumite
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    runner there are no words. Take care of yourselves. I'm so so sorry for your loss :(
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  • vseviour
    vseviour Posts: 137 Forumite
    Runner, so so sorry x
  • :( hugs runner xxx
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