The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

bigzippy

:rudolf: Merry Christmas guys hope you all have good ones filled with as much hope as is sane calorie-less tasty treats and pleasant relaxation

bigzippy

Definitely out this month, the cramps and spotting have begun in earnest. Good job I packed AF supplies and extra underwear etc :cool:

Hope everyone's had a lovely day? We've definitely had some ups and downs but I think we got through it well, considering :)

Whattodonow

I'm around 10dpo and naughtily SSing which I haven't done for several months now.

But I'm suffering insomnia tonight (and obviously google confirms this, along with every other conceivable symptom, is a sure sign of pregnancy).

Also my boobs are at least a cup size bigger and sore!!

Logically - no cbfm this month because of HSG. BDed once night after Hsg on cd14. Nothing since then. Insomnia probs down to change in routine/staying at parents. And boobs do sometimes get sire before Af. So realistically I know I'm being foolish.

Need sleep!

Sorry - this had been a bit of a wordpuke!

Whattodonow

You deffo out BZ?

Whattodonow

Pink teapot - did AF get you?

onestep

Cd2 for me but no surprise there as we had the month off ttc. We've had a lovely quiet time over Christmas but various visitors from now til 3rd. So this morning will be making beds, cleaning bathrooms etc.
Hope everyone is ok.

lilymay1

WNTD - I know 'they' all say you can be more fertile after an HSG but it hasn't done anything for me sadly. Hoping you have better luck.

Onestep - All those visitors sound lovely. Making beds and cleaning bathrooms is my ideal of heaven (except when DS is around!)

AFM, I've had a bit of a pants few days. DS fell off the end of the sofa on 23rd Dec and put a huge gash in the back of his head. Had to phone an ambulance and rush him down to hospital....the only time I have seen more blood was giving birth Several sitches and lots of head glue later we were allowed to come home but it's really really knocked him for 6 and he just isn't the happy little boy he used to be.
CD16 for me today and hopefully going to ov soon. Was CD17 last month, but the sooner I ov, the sooner AF will arrive and I can get started on the clomid! Is 100mg quite a lot to be starting on? Perhaps I'm just panicking because I'm not being monitored.

Seriously annoyed with my DH (typically he decides to be a pen1s right around ov). He came in drunk last night and vomitted everywhere at about 2pm. Wouldn't normally be so bad, but I'm helping a friend out today with his IT business and I had to be here at 6am. I'm so tired! He also has to be in work this morning so I don't know what the hell he was playing at. Anyway, rant over.

Hope everyone else had a lovely Christmas. Zippy - sorry to har AF arrived again. I've been reading a lot of stories about clomid working on the 3rd cycle though!

Primmer

BZ - sorry af arrived, glad you and your DH got through Christmas ok and wishing you a better and happier 2013.

LillyMay - hugs for poor ds hurting his head, must have been really worrying for you. Hope your DH is suffering today!

Onestep - enjoy your visitors and hope you get it all done before they arrive.

Wtdn - hope you managed to get some sleep and that ss works our well with the right result.

bigzippy

Whattodonow wrote: »

You deffo out BZ?

Deffo. Cd2 and cramps from hell I feel like such a fail and like I'm just giving DH more things to be sad about at Christmas

lilymay1

bigzippy wrote: »

Deffo. Cd2 and cramps from hell I feel like such a fail and like I'm just giving DH more things to be sad about at Christmas

Don't ever feel like that. You are not a fail in the slighest. Have a hug :grouphug:

If you don't mind me asking, would you do a recap of your story so far? I know you're just about to start cycle 3 of clomid but if you don't mind, could you go over the story that's got you here?