The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

bigzippy

T2d, I did know it was possible to move ovaries but forgotten to mention it before/assumed if it was an option for you they would've mentioned it to you. Glad you've got this time over there with family and sunshine etc and really hoping it recharges your physical, emotional and psychological batteries ready to come back and batter this thing!

Primmer, I'm not going to pretend I know how you feel, and I don't have sent magic words (or wands, dammit!) But I'm really sorry this sucks so much

Ttc40, me too (assuming 10 day LP)... Snore

Primmer

Thank you all for your kind messages and Lily thank you for sharing, so sorry you have had to suffer such loss.

onestep

Primmer ((hugs)) We have been through similar - my IUI back in Jan/Feb was funded on plastic, & we can't afford any more goes. I'm more accepting these days, although I've not been in the best of health since then so I guess I've been focussed elsewhere. Everything gets better/easier with time but that doesn't make it any less painful while you are living through it. Give yourself lots of time, you are allowed to grieve.
Take care x

TeamLowe

t2d glad to hear you so upbeat, been thinking of you

Lily I'm sorry to hear the appointment wasn't fantastic but I am jealous you've got your prescription. let's hope Clomid gives everyone a 2013 baby

lots of love primmer have you considered/had any counselling? hope you're not offended when I say that your sadness reminds me of mine after my miscarriage, you seem to be mourning the loss of what could have been and was so wanted, and maybe being able to talk through it will help x x

Primmer

Onestep - thank you, time to grieve I think is what I need. Tried to pretend all was ok at first and with hardly anyone in rl knowing it feels like I am keeping all the hurt inside which I think is making it worse.

TL - thank you, you have not offended and summed it up well, think I may look into counselling in the new year as it could help to talk it through with.

Hugs and thanks to you all for your support, without this thread to share thoughts and feelings on, I really would be alone.

Whattodonow

Sorry all, only just had chance to have a quick catch up. Didn't want to read and run. Sounds like we're all going through tough times at the moment. Don't think the time of year helps. Big hugs to all xxxx

good_vibes

Hi ladies,
On here for advice. Have a urgent request from GP to discuss OH's SA results. My blood works have come back fine. Any heads up about what might be discussed?

lilymay1

good_vibes wrote: »

Hi ladies,
On here for advice. Have a urgent request from GP to discuss OH's SA results. My blood works have come back fine. Any heads up about what might be discussed?

Can't help massively, but I presume it's because there is something not quite right. Maybe low count or motility or something. Saying that, I got an 'urgent' recall about OH's results and it was because his mobility was 39% rather than the 40% that is considered the lowest end of normal. So not urgent in any way, shape or form!

Fingers crossed it's nothing xx

good_vibes

Thank you lilymay, His last SA 7 years ago (with his ex) was not good on all 3 counts. Just have to wait and see

Primmer

Good vibes - it could be that they need to do a re-test as sample left too long before test or was ruined in someway or it could be that the results are below normal but there are things that can be done to improve results so as difficult as it is try not to panic.