The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

QQuaver

Just dropping in to say BFN (FET) at the clinic:o

Good thing is that the doctor said there was nothing wrong with the egg, in fact it looked as good as it can be. And my insides looked fine too. So no reason why it didn't work:huh:

DH wanted me to do another egg collection asap, so I asked the doc, and he said it'll depend on how my hormone levels are next Monday. So off I go again:j

Nicki

Very sorry QQ. Everything crossed for next time.

EverTheOptimist

QQuaver wrote: »

Just dropping in to say BFN (FET) at the clinic:o

Good thing is that the doctor said there was nothing wrong with the egg, in fact it looked as good as it can be. And my insides looked fine too. So no reason why it didn't work:huh:

DH wanted me to do another egg collection asap, so I asked the doc, and he said it'll depend on how my hormone levels are next Monday. So off I go again:j

So so sorry to hear that QQ. ((Hugs))

At least you had a small positive to make a dent in the frustrations and upset of the BFN in that the egg was a good 'un and your insides are good.

Let us know how your hormones are and what they decide, partly for selfish reasons as i have just had a BFN from a FET and i had to have this month as a withdrawal month, then can start from next cycle, although with all the meds etc it's a 6 week process. I am just curious what different docs allow.

Anyway i hope you are and DH are doing ok and can stay positive and refocus.
xxxxxxx

QQuaver

EverTheOptimist wrote: »

i have just had a BFN from a FET and i had to have this month as a withdrawal month, then can start from next cycle, although with all the meds etc it's a 6 week process. I am just curious what different docs allow.

(((hugs))) for your BFN:(

I have PCOS, so am hoping this medicated FET cycle may reset my hormones:cool:
My Beta hcg was 0.0, so there's probably no need for a withdrawal bleed? Was your hcg higher than that?

Primmer

QQ - huge hugs for bfn, I really hope that you can try again soon and that there were positives about the condition of your egg.

EverTheOptimist

QQuaver wrote: »

(((hugs))) for your BFN:(

I have PCOS, so am hoping this medicated FET cycle may reset my hormones:cool:
My Beta hcg was 0.0, so there's probably no need for a withdrawal bleed? Was your hcg higher than that?

Ah i see, that would be good if it resets everything for you.

No my HCG was 0. I have just found my clinic to be very rigid, despite telling them my hubby will be away from Sept for 6 months and wanted to be sure he would be here for 1 more fresh cycle. When i MC'd at the start of the year i had to have 3 clear months before the FET, and this time the withdrawal bleed etc.

It just frustrates me how much control they have and that if i could do it naturally i could start trying straight away. Grrrrr :mad: Seems we are penalised because we have to have treatment.

Anyway i hope you can get straight on with your next treatment, and am thinking of you.
xxx

QQuaver

EverTheOptimist wrote: »

wanted to be sure he would be here for 1 more fresh cycle.

Can't you get your DH's sperm frozen? That's what we do.

When i MC'd at the start of the year i had to have 3 clear months before the FET

I can understand waiting 3 cycles after mc:o

It just frustrates me how much control they have and that if i could do it naturally i could start trying straight away. Grrrrr :mad: Seems we are penalised because we have to have treatment.

(((Hugs)))

Anyway i hope you can get straight on with your next treatment, and am thinking of you.
xxx

Thank you:o

mrshappy

So sorry to hear that QQ Take care of yourselves xx

jujugaboo

So sorry QQ, hope you give youself a bit of time before the next one. Sending you lots of hugs.xx

Runnerduck

(((hugs))) QQuaver, so sorry it's bad news, hope you're clinic will let you move quickly, if that's what you want, i know with me the only way i cope is by focusing on the next one, fingers crossed that will be the ONE xxx