The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

QQuaver

Good luck testing on Sunday Chickpea
As for me, I'm 4DPO, nothing is happening...zzzzzzzzzzzzzz

liloandstitch

Evening (or morning) ladies - I was hoping for some news from lisa too ............. Hope she is okay, and that she lets us know when she is ready.

Chickpea, hope you have the right result on Sunday.

Here, AF is just not letting go. She goes, then she comes back, then she goes, then she comes back - none of it very heavy but nonetheless a pita. So who knows what day I am on? Or even if I am on the same time as everyone else! Still, the fun of it all, shall have to make sure that hubby is well exercised for the next year on the off-chance that it is the right time - I am sure he wont mind!!

Lilo

chickpea

Nice PMA Lilo!

I'm working on that at the moment - the last week of the 2ww is always the worst for me. I've decided to confront my fears and kill (not literally) all my pg friends with kindness, buying big bunches of flowers and pressies when they pop. (I'm secretly hoping there's a kind of karma that'll come back on me. Maybe I've spoiled it by admitting it tho..!)

Next one due sometime this week, one on 8 Mar, then one on 12 and one on 16 April, then one mid-May, then twins and a singleton in June (busy month), then one in July.

The florist is going to make some money out of me!

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I hope Lisa is OK...better than OK..

Chocolate_Cookie_Monster

Wow Chickpea - you really are drowning in PG friends. Hope this week flies for you. You might be our first BFP of March!!!
Well I am CD 6. Just gearing up to start BD'ing. I thought I had Ov pains yesterday so POAS and the beginnings of a faint line are there. Bring it on!!!!

toniq

Lisa really hope u r ok xxxx loads of sticky vibes to all that need them xxxx
Lilo my af is similar, the only time it settles is when im down regging x

Got my appt with Guy's booked for March 16th and looking to do fet over easter, but need to check all bloods first and all that usual palaver before i can start.

not sure how i feel about using frozen, it's a learning curve in the weird world of ttc, hubbies looking into me doing reflexology after i told him about u ladies doing it xxxxx

good luck all in 2ww and b'ding!xxxx remember they need a clear out first! xxx

lisawood78

Hi ladies.
Sorry to have been AWOL, had a lot to worry about.
We have had bleeding, BUT Google suggest that it could be an after effect of the crinone gel, apparently it can cause red/brown/grey or even black disharge due to it being irritating to the cervix (YUK!!!) So have been running scared since that started a few days ago.
We do have a very clear BFP, as of Sunday but I just can't let myself get excited due to the continued mess that occurs on and off. A digital tests also only says 1-2 weeks and I feel it should say 2-3 by ow.
Clinic seem to think that cutting back on my blood thinners (aspirin and Clexane injections) may cure it but I dn't feel hopeful.
First scan is booked fpr 14th March, can we get that far?!? So sorry for the downer me post ladies
LW78 x

Runnerduck

congratulations Lisa :j:j:j

hopefully the clinic will take good care of you, rest put your feet up and try to relax (and i know how hard that is!) hopefully your scan on the 14th will show everything to be ok

Chocolate_Cookie_Monster

Congratulations Lisa. Thats wonderful news. Try and relax as much as possible. I hope the bleeding stops and all works out well.:D
Please keep us updated.
CCMx

sarahs999

Congratulations lisa. It does sound stressful and I can totally understand how you must be feeling. Got everything crossed for you.

Sx

ginvzt

Lisa - congratulations! Did you have 2 embryos transferred? The bit of discharge/bleeding could be that one of them have attached and another one failed?

There is nothing new on my side. I think the 'goodtime' was last weekend, but I really didn't feel like 'dtd', so didn't. To be honest, I rarely feel 'in the mood' anymore. Oh well. I have actually forgot to take my vitamins/folic acid for the last few weeks, I am on tea/coffee every day (and a lot of tea!), haven't been to the gym this year (well, once)... So, I am completely going against all the advise. And I am thinking to do next IVF cycle in May... I better get back on track.

I am too pre-occupied with sorting out the house and getting the 3 rooms we are doing ready before Easter when or godson comes for a visit. That is his room, dining room and living room. And I am trying hard to get the garden sorted as well, so I can get on with my gardening. It is busy, and the time is getting short, but I HAVE to succeed in this. I WILL have those rooms redecorated and ready before Easter, and the garden will have the raised beds in, trees planted and my vegetables all ready as well!