The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

staffiecat

Oh Lisa I am so happy for your BFP. I will refrain from doing a proper dance until you've had comforting news from the clinic. What are the clinic saying about the blood test - you should ring them as often as you need to - the more the better if it helps to relax you (although relaxing is always easier said than done).

Hopefully its just related to the medication and means nothing, just take each day at a time, try and do at least one thing to relax and meanwhile sending lots and lots and lots of sticky vibes - as well as a big huge hug :grouphug:

liloandstitch

Lisa, if the combined thoughts and good wishes from us all can have any influence on the outcome, it will all be fine! I do understand that you must be extremely scared and worried, even though you desperately want the BFP. Relax if you can, you do have some possibles as to why you are having the problem. Even at quite major blood flow, a miscarriage is not a foregone conclusion. You cannot influence the outcome of the pregnancy by anything you do - it is out of your hands. Just follow the advice you are given and try and keep calm and rest as much as possible. I am sure they would have put you on complete bedrest if they thought you were miscarrying(not that it does anything!) By the way, I am an absolute worrywort, and have the olympics gold medal for worrying, so let me do it all for you!

Keep Calm

and

Carry on .......


Lol Lilo

jujugaboo

QQuaver wrote: »

We are thinking of IVF this April, but I may miss it as I have to work abroad, so may have to be May:undecided I'm abroad again in June, so timing is bad for the next few cycles.

Next cycle is due somewhere around March 10th, but it is going to be unmedicated, so I'll probably ov late thus missing DH:(
Obviously forever hopeful there's not going to be a next cycle:D

The whole IVF process can be long unless you go on a short protocol, so make sure you have 6-7 weeks where your in the country, unless you will only be away for a few days. Book in quick to as they spaces seem to fill up.

lisawood78

Thankyou thankyou ladies.
Still got problems, had a very unpleasant episode in the night including lots of red but Google still indicates things COULD be ok. If you are interested Google Crinone / Discharge and you will see what we are facing!
BHCG at 2pm then another on Friday.
So sorry it is all me me atm, will be back on the support wagon asap.
Hugs to all
LW78 x

QQuaver

jujugaboo wrote: »

The whole IVF process can be long unless you go on a short protocol, so make sure you have 6-7 weeks where your in the country, unless you will only be away for a few days. Book in quick to as they spaces seem to fill up.

It's short protocol (my age):o So it'll start from CD1.
I'll only need to be in the country for 2-3 weeks.

lisawood78 wrote: »

If you are interested Google Crinone / Discharge and you will see what we are facing!

I've googled:p
Seems a lot of people have that, good luck:o

jiblets1

Thinking of you with my fingers crossed, Lisa. You can have a little congratulations, and one in capital letters once you've had the comforting news!

jujugaboo

lisawood78 wrote: »

Thankyou thankyou ladies.
Still got problems, had a very unpleasant episode in the night including lots of red but Google still indicates things COULD be ok. If you are interested Google Crinone / Discharge and you will see what we are facing!
BHCG at 2pm then another on Friday.
So sorry it is all me me atm, will be back on the support wagon asap.
Hugs to all
LW78 x

I have Googled to, I am not looking forward to using the gel at all but then the pessaries were not much better either.

nichart20

Lisa congratulations I have everything crossed for you that everything is going to be ok and as soon as you have confirmed this I will also be back in capitals with dancing smilies x x

Lilo sorry to read what your having to go through at the moment x x

Good luck to cycle buddies JuJu & Toniq x x

Murray hope you can get off that wagon soon x x

I managed to start ivf this cycle after having the cyst I am on short protocol. Had a scan today and I have 9 follies this is loads for me after having 2 cycles cancelled due to poor response and I might even make it to Egg Collection!!!

Good luck to everyone else in 2WW or BD x x

chickpea

Good news Nichart! Hope it continues.

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I'm on CD26 - and experiencing what I'm afraid are the unmistakeable signs of AF cramps.

I plan to wait until Sun to test - but will AF beat me to the punch...?

Good luck fellow 2WWers/IVFers!

toniq

Chickpea don't lose hope, I have a friend who was convinced of the same and she was pregnant with twins, you just don't know yet xxxx
Loads and loads of sticky vibes to all who need them xxxxxx

Nichart that sounds like a good response, really hoping this time is the charm for u xxxxxx

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