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The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

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  • Brilliant news alamaya, we will be willing it to implant - showers you in babydust! -

    Lilo
    Live on £4000 a year again for 2011
  • VK-2008
    VK-2008 Posts: 926 Forumite
    just wondered, i know how frustrating the joyful 2ww is
    but see these high street tests that can check 6 days in advance any1 got thoughts on them?
    :A VK :A
  • kairi
    kairi Posts: 75 Forumite
    alamaya wrote: »
    1 perfect grade a embryo on board. sadly the other 5 didnt make it so no back up frozen goes so this one has to work
    Apparently it had started to hatch?? lol ive been told thats a good thing lol

    Ohh.. I hope it sticks!!! Good luck with that!!! How long til you can safely say you're pregnant?
  • VK-2008
    VK-2008 Posts: 926 Forumite
    kairi wrote: »
    Ohh.. I hope it sticks!!! Good luck with that!!! How long til you can safely say you're pregnant?

    too me i think its once you have given birth and are holding the little bundle in your arms!
    :A VK :A
  • VK-2008
    VK-2008 Posts: 926 Forumite
    most folk tend to spread the word after the 12 week stage. or once they have scan.
    i spoke to one of my midwife friends who says generally at 8 weeks you are safe too say things are good
    :A VK :A
  • jujugaboo
    jujugaboo Posts: 4,246 Forumite
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    alamaya wrote: »
    1 perfect grade a embryo on board. sadly the other 5 didnt make it so no back up frozen goes so this one has to work
    Apparently it had started to hatch?? lol ive been told thats a good thing lol

    Good luck, sending you lots of babydust and have my trotters crossed for you.

    Lots of deep breathing and relaxation. :)
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  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    Good luck Alamya, when are you testing?:)
  • alamaya
    alamaya Posts: 419 Forumite
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    LOL well ive been told 14th Sept. omg long time away lol
    Baby Girl Born May 2011
    Baby Boy Born Nov 2012

  • chickpea
    chickpea Posts: 713 Forumite
    alamaya wrote: »
    LOL well ive been told 14th Sept. omg long time away lol

    It'll FEEL like an eternity, but it isn't really. I don't envy you getting through it!

    (But I do envy you your 'hatching' embie - sounds lovely, like a teeny, tiny chick!)

    I wish you all the luck in the galaxy with your one and only Grade 1 British-standard kite-marked embie!

    +++++++

    My friend had the same with IVF this year - lots of eggs, only one embie, no frosties.

    But it worked! Her DS is due in a few weeks!

    ++++++++

    I think you have to try to divert yourself - buy a few novels, treat yourself to some DVDs and mags - anything to avoid obsessing!

    But do pop on here too!
  • So, 1 day late now and ive not tested again..im scared, i dont know if i could handle another bfn :( might test tomorrow morning if nothing happens
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