The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

alamaya

hi nichart thanks for the luck. Been told BMI must get to 29 but they will let it slide on 30. When i went for my first appointment it was 34.8 at the moment its 31.61.

Worked out 12st 13lbs gets me to a BMI of 30.85 so that should count. But then again appointments at 4pm so might weigh heavy. Just hoping if its just over they let me go ahead.

eek

nichart20

alamaya wrote: »

hi nichart thanks for the luck. Been told BMI must get to 29 but they will let it slide on 30. When i went for my first appointment it was 34.8 at the moment its 31.61.

Worked out 12st 13lbs gets me to a BMI of 30.85 so that should count. But then again appointments at 4pm so might weigh heavy. Just hoping if its just over they let me go ahead.

eek

Oh you will do it im sure, do you know if there a waiting list in your area

liloandstitch

Good luck everyone with all your appointments etc.

I have abandoned trying to work out my cycle, dont even know what day Im on!!! CBFM doesnt seem to work very well for me! Am trying to chill out and see what happens.

I have updated plumpmouse on the graduates thread.

Lilo

alamaya

nichart20 wrote: »

Oh you will do it im sure, do you know if there a waiting list in your area

I have no idea lol

Tried searching but keeping getting that new 18 week rule the nhs brought in come up. Lets hope lol. Worst case scenario i am preparing myself for 2 years which i think is the worst it could be. But least im on the list and every month waited is another month more debts gone and i am more prepared. well thats what i tell myself to keep the sanity lol

nichart20

I was expecting a long wait and was told there is no waiting list really really hope its the same for you, I am trying to find out when the rule comes in for 1 embryo limit as would like to have 2 put back that's if I have 2

alamaya

I think my PCT already have the 1 embryo rule

So horrid thinking they only give me one free go and only get one emby to play with.

Keep worrying (always been like it so nothing new) if this fails i cant afford more goes with the debt i have. Then i panic that i wanted a big family and now it looks like i can only have what i can afford .

I am a only child and always said i wanted at least 2.

Do you think you can appeal the one go rule as i know NICE recommend 3 tries.

Good luck on getting two embys

nichart20

Yeh I would have loved a big family too but now would be so gratefull for just 1, when I went to the appointment she was trying to convience me 1 would be best for transfer, you never know the cycle might be put upto 2 free ones in April and if you have some to freeze I was told FET was around £1000 this is in west yorkshire

shelly

nichart20 wrote: »

Hugs to shell has she stayed away, was it just spotting

So far full AF hasn't arrived, at the moment I'm just getting DBS. Tomorrow is CD39 and will be my longest cycle so far since writing cycles down every month. I started religiously writing them down in April 08 and in all that time I have had 2 cycles at 38 days so this one is turning into the longest.
Getting a few cramps though as I type this so expect to see full flow by the morning.....just in time for my birthday tomorrow

ginvzt

Happy birthday Shelly!!!!!!
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shelly

Thanks Ginvzt!! That cake looks lush!!