The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

MadMac_2

Lilo, woohoo on the medal! Keep up the good work to earn more...!!

So sorry to read your appointment have been put back again, you are taking the long way around then by boat?!

No BFP here, no PMA here and currently no BDing here either as OH is away to give us both a bit of break from each other, so I'm just soldiering along on my own.

Hope you are all feeling happier, healthier and more determined than me, xx

emmzy

Hiya all! Long time no see Iv been such a busy girl, What with my wedding ( 7 weeks today!!) that Im totally disorganised for I dont even have music or food! And being away over xmas I havent had a chance to sit about on the computer.
I dont really have the time to read it all today either but I thought Id stick my head in and say hello and let you all know I havent succombed to the cold or anything lol

I have my hycosy on the 26th and for those of you that know me a bit from the other thread you know how psychotic I go when doctors/hospitals are involved, Last night I was watching the boxset of footballers wives I got for my xmas and there was a episode about a baby that was born a boy but had ovaries and stuff. Theres me last night waking up in the middle of the night thinking thats what theyd find when they do the hycosy lol that i have man bits or something Im so ridiculous :rotfl:
The diets going not too bad, I lost over 2st so far but put on 6lbs over christmas like a fat pig and Im so disapointed with myself! Still got a long way to go tho as Im still no Kate Moss lol

Anyway hope everyone is well and I havent missed out on any thing exciting if someone wants to fill me in quickly incase i dont get a chance to read before OH comes back

Wishing you all BFPs:D (well not all of you unless i can come too i dont like being alone!)

nichart20

Hello :hello:

emmzy congratulations on the weight loss :T im sure the weight gain over christmas will drop off over next 7 weeks if you have loads to do for the wedding hope you have a lovely day

lilo I should be on another medal soon oh and the pg people in the office there is 3 at moment just 2 that sit so close I see them all day the other 1 is out of sight, there are 2 on maternity leave, wish their luck would brush off on me :mad:

appointment letter not come but postman did so will leave it until monday then will be on the phone

has anyone got any romantic plans for valentines day yet? it will be my first one as a married lady so would like it to be special

jiblets1

Hi all,
thought you might like to get a male perspective on infertility - here's a blog by a guy I follow on twitter called fertilityguy

http://fertilityguy.blogspot.com

He's quite open about what he's going through, and as we've seen on this thread, we very rarely get the insight into how our OH's are feeling.

For those on twitter, there are quite a few people you can find to follow to do with ttc. Search ttc, (or the american's tend to all call themselves infertiles - I don't see many brits do that!) and you'll find quite a community!

nichart20

jiblets1 wrote: »

Hi all,
thought you might like to get a male perspective on infertility - here's a blog by a guy I follow on twitter called fertilityguy

http://fertilityguy.blogspot.com

He's quite open about what he's going through, and as we've seen on this thread, we very rarely get the insight into how our OH's are feeling.

For those on twitter, there are quite a few people you can find to follow to do with ttc. Search ttc, (or the american's tend to all call themselves infertiles - I don't see many brits do that!) and you'll find quite a community!

thanks for this, is really interesting to read from a mans perspective. Just trying to get my head round twitter now

kizmet106

Tee hee this just cheered me up:

http://999reasonstolaughatinfertility.blogspot.com/

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Congratulations Lilo on your medal :j x

jiblets1

nichart20 wrote: »

thanks for this, is really interesting to read from a mans perspective. Just trying to get my head round twitter now

I'm @jiblets1 on there too, so if you want to find me and see who I'm following, then you'll find quite a few ttc peeps there too. I like the links to the blogs, for a bit of extended perspective...

nichart20

kizmet106 wrote: »

Tee hee this just cheered me up:

http://999reasonstolaughatinfertility.blogspot.com/

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Congratulations Lilo on your medal :j x

I own up to 1, 3, 4, 6, 7 & 10

liloandstitch

Madmac, Im waiting to see if my boat is about to sink!! I have had another dodgy smear, and the only remaining treatment is a hysterectomy. I do not know how bad at the moment, and what they will recommend so I am staying really positive at the moment, and trying desperately to get pregnant this month so at least I could have a baby first! I dont have a bad feeling about it, so I am hoping it will just be a monitoring exercise. Fingers crossed.

I love the blog kizmet made me laugh, especially as I have probably done most of them .............

emmzy, well done on the weight loss, and good luck for the 26th, not long now.

Jibs, thanks for the link, always good to see the mans point of view.

Lilo (not so lonely any more!)

JohnnieStar

kizmet106 wrote: »

Tee hee this just cheered me up:

http://999reasonstolaughatinfertility.blogspot.com/

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Congratulations Lilo on your medal :j x

I love this, I became a fan of it on FB too! Lots of the status updates I wish I could have as mine, but ya know... x