The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

tea_lover

Oh I'm so sick of this sh.itstorm we all seem to be stuck in. It just seems so unfair. I can't remember the last time we had good news on here, it's just heartbreaking knowing so many of you are having such a rubbish time

Feeling very angry at the world today. What have we done wrong to deserve this much cr.apness.

Primmer

Oh Chickpea - I am just so sad for you, I can't imagine how you are feeling. Life seems so unfair. Sending huge hugs sweetie xx

codemonkey

Chickpea I'm so, so sorry to hear your news. Take care of yourself xx

MrsDavo

So sorry to hear of your loss chickpea.

I had a MMC April 2012. We too found out at a scan, it's the worst thing in the world. I will never be over losing a much wanted baby. But it will get easier as time goes on, to function day to day.

Be kind to yourself and take time off work if you need to.

I had to have the ERPC too, so if you want to ask anything then feel free.

Thinking of you. Xx

Ballabriggs

Chickpea, so sorry to hear of your loss. I've been exactly where you are and it's !!!!!!. You turn up thinking that the 12 week scan will go fine and you can breath a sigh of relief and then you get the ultimate kick in the teeth when they tell you the bad news. I felt like the world was spinning around me. The anger your feeling is completely natural and you need to get it out. Punch something, scream in the bathroom anything to get it out of your system. My hubby put the boxing pads on and I punched like mad until I was a sobbing heap on the floor very emotional but very releasing. The op is fine, best to get it over and done with as soon as you can so you can start the healing process. Be kind to yourself and just go with what you are feeling, it does get better I promise. You learn to cope.

Following my MMC I went onto have another miscarriage then an ectopic and now today I've found out I'm pregnant again. The third time in less than a year, I'm absolutely terrified to tell you the truth.

Will be thinking of you chickpea x

Rowingirl

Chickpea I'm so so sorry about your loss. Huge hugs.

mokba43

Nothing i could say would make you feel better Chick; so just know we are all here, in a way, this is our loss too xxxxxx

codemonkey

Ballabriggs wrote: »

Chickpea, so sorry to hear of your loss. I've been exactly where you are and it's !!!!!!. You turn up thinking that the 12 week scan will go fine and you can breath a sigh of relief and then you get the ultimate kick in the teeth when they tell you the bad news. I felt like the world was spinning around me. The anger your feeling is completely natural and you need to get it out. Punch something, scream in the bathroom anything to get it out of your system. My hubby put the boxing pads on and I punched like mad until I was a sobbing heap on the floor very emotional but very releasing. The op is fine, best to get it over and done with as soon as you can so you can start the healing process. Be kind to yourself and just go with what you are feeling, it does get better I promise. You learn to cope.

Following my MMC I went onto have another miscarriage then an ectopic and now today I've found out I'm pregnant again. The third time in less than a year, I'm absolutely terrified to tell you the truth.

Will be thinking of you chickpea x

Stealthy BFP announcement there. Congratulations and may this be a sticky one.

Ballabriggs

Thanks code monkey. Didn't mean to be stealthy:o

I had the woohoo :rotfl: moment and then I felt and still feel very frightened worried and apprehensive. Doesn't it suck that such a happy thing should make you feel like this:( trying to get an appointment at the emergency gynae clinic to see if its on track or another EP.

Anyway sending big hugs to chickpea

Derby2

Oh Chickpea, I'm so, so sorry.