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Trying For a Baby III

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  • Kelinik
    Kelinik Posts: 3,319 Forumite
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    Girls can you all tell me off please, I just ignored the sensible part of my brain which said not to and went and googled to see if vivid dreams are a pg sign. :rolleyes:

    I'm pretty sure I've not seen it on any of the 'top signs' type lists yet loads of stuff came up! The one that particularly grabbed my attention was this...

    http://www.countdowntopregnancy.com/earlypregnancysymptoms/chart_specific_symptom.php?symptomid=45

    I started having the dreams over the weekend and am now 10 dpo going by my normal cycle length. Feel otherwise completely normal other than tired but that I'm really not ssing about that as my eldest had a sleepover on sat and the little monsters angels didn't go to sleep until 1pm and were up just after 6!!!

    Fortunately we've got quite alot planned for the next few days so no time to start obsessing, which is just as well I reckon! :cool:
    :heart2: Mumma to DD 13yrs, DD 11yrs & DS 3 yrs. :heart2:
  • Natalie6999
    Natalie6999 Posts: 402 Forumite
    kmckee999 wrote: »
    Morning girls... gosh lots of ss'in goin on here today, what happened to bein strong and holdin off :rotfl: (im only jelous)!!! ;)

    Well my app came thru the door today (well actually those stupid telephone password things) i booked one online first but its not till the 24th aug :eek: then tried phoning but nothin available :mad: that seems like forever away!!!

    I booked my appt for fertility clininc on the day we were going on holiday, spent the whole holiday either in tears or having screaming matches with OH & got a BFP the day we came home, DS is nearly 6 now.

    There were 3 of us at work, one who had had 6 or 7 cycles of IVF & two of us who had just got our first appt at fertility clinic all got pregnant naturally at the same time & gave birth within a week of each other.

    I think sometimes geting that appt takes the pressure off as you know that something is going to be done eventually.
  • nunnygirl
    nunnygirl Posts: 2,206 Forumite
    Wow thats good Natalie, I agree about the pressure being taken off. I think it does help
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  • dizzybuff
    dizzybuff Posts: 1,512 Forumite
    I have had 1 cycle on clomid , I was lucky enough not to go down the IVF route. At the moement my cycles are leveling out hopefully . I have one every 8 weeks or so . I think it comes to a 40 day cycle.

    We are not ttc at the mo but when we do I am so scared we will have to down the same route.

    My ds is 20 months now :O But was small as i had complications (placenta stopped working ) and he was 4lb 3 born at 38 weeks. He was blue and we nearly had an angel

    OMG Im crying thinking about it.

    What if that happens again ?
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  • polkadot
    polkadot Posts: 1,867 Forumite
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    kmckee999 wrote: »
    Morning girls... gosh lots of ss'in goin on here today, what happened to bein strong and holdin off :rotfl: (im only jelous)!!! ;)

    Well my app came thru the door today (well actually those stupid telephone password things) i booked one online first but its not till the 24th aug :eek: then tried phoning but nothin available :mad: that seems like forever away!!!
    :rotfl: mines booked for the same day!!!
  • nunnygirl
    nunnygirl Posts: 2,206 Forumite
    dizzybuff, please don't worry yourself that it might happen again. As you've had problems in the past your doctor/midwife will be more aware.
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  • Kelinik
    Kelinik Posts: 3,319 Forumite
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    dizzybuff wrote: »
    We are not ttc at the mo but when we do I am so scared we will have to down the same route.

    My ds is 20 months now :O But was small as i had complications (placenta stopped working ) and he was 4lb 3 born at 38 weeks. He was blue and we nearly had an angel

    OMG Im crying thinking about it.

    What if that happens again ?

    Oh hunny that must have been so frightening. :sad:

    This time though you and your midwife etc will be aware there could be complications and will keep a much closer eye on everything I'm sure. x
    :heart2: Mumma to DD 13yrs, DD 11yrs & DS 3 yrs. :heart2:
  • kmckee999
    kmckee999 Posts: 227 Forumite
    Ahhh thanx natalie that was a lovely thing to say, fingers crossed :)
    polkadot lets hope we both get some positive news!!

    dizybuff we all say what ifs all the time, but tryin to stay positive is all we can do, u have a lovely 20mnth old and hopefully u wont need ivf route and the clomid will work well. chin up lovey x x
  • dizzybuff
    dizzybuff Posts: 1,512 Forumite
    I know Im so scared though . So many things to worry about .

    My ds is wonderful he has caught up so quickly ... I just wanna have a normal birth

    Dont get me wrong it was great my mum was there ( didnt get chance to take her coat off . DS came in 15 mins of arriving. Im so glad we went when we did and the mw were so quick .

    Although u sorta loose dignaty when 20 odd people see ur foof in one day :rotfl:

    Well when I ttc at least I know I'll be consultant lead. Angers me I was so good in pregnancy and had a rubbish birth . Then people who abuse themselves get perfectly healthy babies.
    ONE HOUSE , DS+ DD Missymoo Living a day at a time and getting through this mess you have created.
    One day life will have no choice but to be nice to me :rotfl:
  • feelinggood_2
    feelinggood_2 Posts: 11,115 Forumite
    Dizzy, I'm worried about another pregnancy/labour. Mine wasn't as bad as yours, but I can understand how you feel. I was induced as I developed pre-eclampsia. The labour was difficult, DS got into distress and I delivered him (arms first!) while being prepped for a section. I was lucky that I managed to get to term, but I'm worried I'll get pre-eclampsia again and have an early baby. I'm torn between wanting to get pregnant and being scared.
    Stay-at-home, attached Mummy to a 23lb 10oz, 11 month old baby boy.
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