Trying For a Baby III

twinklie

:j for Gena and her two stars. My concrete floor is half done by the way. Will be finished tomorrow night.

No bding at the twinklie household. OH is out, concreting tomorrow night and then going to Bangor for a PhD interview on Thursday (fingers crossed and won't be back till really late. Friday I have a MS and that will be followed quickly by bed I reckon.

Hope everyone can stay positive and motivated. I think I'll update my thread then go off to bed. I'm pooped. First FULL day of lessons tomorrow, followed by a meeting NICE! Thursday will be a bit full on as well, duty day and teaching all day followed by Science club! Why do I do it again??

1more?

just popped in to say well as above
im stepping out of ttc until next month at least and will see how i feel about the whole thing then
sticky dust to you all and hope its ok to come back in a little while

Catw0man

Hugs ((((1more?))))

Gena

So sorry for you 1more, big ((((hugs)))) to you. Come in whenever you like if you want a chat, unfortunately lots of us know what you're going through. Take your time, look after yourself and see you when you're ready. xxx

bitzer_maloney

So sorry 1more? :grouphug: Do look after yourself and if you want to talk/chat/vent, we're all here for you.

Casa Bitzer is much happier today, though the garage may have tried to pull a fast one (giving us a quote and "forgetting" to add the VAT) we disputed it and and paid what we were quoted. Mr Bitzer managed to fix the leak himself, and I let him go to bed early as he was mentally and physically exhausted from the stress of the day (OH doesn't get stressed ever so I was quite worried.) Then when I came to bed I woke him up in the best possible way *ahem*

On the ttc front, has anyone with a cbfm POAS and not got a line? I did this morning, it was just blank but still read high. Maybe I got it too wet...

stickybabydust ladies xx

LilDevil

jacobsmum wrote: »

lildevil: ((hugs)) i found it quite hard as the last one we had a few scans due to having a blood clot near the baby (cant remember the name of it), and saw him the day before i lost him his face and everything.its hard but im just trying to concentrate on getting pregnant 1st before i start obsessing over everything which i tend to do! but on a lighter note started b'ding last night going to pounce on oh at every chance i get!! how often are you supposed to bd is it every night or everyother? ovulation stuff confuses me

That must've been so tough for you, we had a scan at 7+1 due to bleeding and all ways well, then 8+5 the bleeding started again. Regarding how often, I think the general advice is every 2-3 days.

katyj10 wrote: »

... well I am now trying to give up caffeine. I have switched to caffeine free coffee and diet coke (I normally drink too much of this but am cutting down on fizzy pop). The only caffeine from now on will be in the odd cup of tea!!

Wish me luck. Shakes due any time I reckon.

Katy

I have fruit teas quite a lot - or hot choc (options/skinny cow varieties!)

1more? wrote: »

just popped in to say well as above
im stepping out of ttc until next month at least and will see how i feel about the whole thing then
sticky dust to you all and hope its ok to come back in a little while

I'm so sorry to hear your news, lots of hugs from this neck of the woods too - as others have said, if you ever need to talk, we're here for you. Sadly there's quite a lot of us that have been there.

1more?

thanks everybody im ok about it im thinking better now than later on
and also we cant change whats happened i got loads on at the moment so keeping busy
thank you again xx

LilDevil

1more? wrote: »

thanks everybody im ok about it im thinking better now than later on
and also we cant change whats happened i got loads on at the moment so keeping busy
thank you again xx

It's good that you're thinking so positively, but do remember, if you have a few wobbles, it's only natural and to give yourself time to grieve as and when you do have a 'moment'.

katyj10

Very sad news 1more - we're here to talk if you need to.
Katy x

scotsgirl_3

(HUGS) 1more. As LilDevil says, give yourself time to grieve - there is nothing wrong if you randomly start crying for no apparent reason.