Trying For a Baby III

moneyangel22

bitzer_maloney wrote: »

Could be, sounds similar to what I get (which may or may not be ov pains!) Weird that that cbfm hasn't picked it up though. What does your cbfm say, are you on high or low?

Its been high for 10 days now! the cbfm usually does pick it up every time! I took the stick out and compared it to the one i used in the pok that day and the lines are the same...ive kept the last few days tests too to compare and the lines were definetely darker yesterday and Wednesday.

bitzer_maloney

moneyangel22 wrote: »

Its been high for 10 days now! the cbfm usually does pick it up every time! I took the stick out and compared it to the one i used in the pok that day and the lines are the same...ive kept the last few days tests too to compare and the lines were definetely darker yesterday and Wednesday.

Ooh, that is weird! Well I'm a bit stumped then to be honest! It could be a false surge you picked up on your OPK or it could be you missed it with the cbfm sticks. Neither of those are very helpful to you though!
If I were you I'd bd for a few more days (if you have the energy ) just in case your cbfm decides to give you a peak soon.
I've kept *all* my sticks (I label them by cycle and day and reading - I can't help it, I'm a [STRIKE]geek[/STRIKE] scientist ) and by looking back through then I can see my sticks get darker over a period of days, but then we're all different so mine may not compare to yours.

Do you temp too? That would be one way of telling if you've ov'd or not.

kmckee999

Oh Oh not sure whats really happened as i dont post on the 12+ board but this is a friendly forum and we dont want harsh words or upset, we all have moments of upset and frustration with ttc....
As loads have already said it is very difficult ttc we all have our own story, some longers than others but this place is where i come for help and support, so please keep giv it to me, includin u becs. I sometimes get fed up with ss'in as i never have been their yet after nearly 12 months, but i expect when its my turn i wil be overcome with excitement and perhaps join in!!

We just have to respect each individuals needs and hope one day we all get what were after

Good luck scotsgirl, fingers crossed for u x

justmarried06

CAFCGirl wrote: »

hi all

had to take a few days off, read snugglepants post above, i didnt read back so i dont know what went on! But I like being in the dark LOL/QUOTE]

Hiya ladies - am afraid this counts for me too! Am planning on a very long session online later tonight to try and catch up all I've missed, not been online at all this week. Work are getting very hot on internet access, so will prob only post as moleymoo. Should hopefully see you all later tonight

Lots of love

JM xx

elliebobs

Glad to see things have settled down; hope to see you here becs too; you will be missed otherwise!

All this talk of snowboarding is making me jealous; I've wanted to try it for years but keep putting it off for one reason or another. I'm determined to give it a bash though; I live near the Trafford Centre and there is a snow place thingy near there; is that anywhere near to you bitzer and twinklie?????

sorry to hear you've hit a wall cafc; easier said than done but is there anything you can do (or hit) to help you de stress a bit?????

bitzer_maloney

elliebobs wrote: »

Glad to see things have settled down; hope to see you here becs too; you will be missed otherwise!

All this talk of snowboarding is making me jealous; I've wanted to try it for years but keep putting it off for one reason or another. I'm determined to give it a bash though; I live near the Trafford Centre and there is a snow place thingy near there; is that anywhere near to you bitzer and twinklie?????

sorry to hear you've hit a wall cafc; easier said than done but is there anything you can do (or hit) to help you de stress a bit?????

Not near me I'm afraid ellie, I'm a southerner (well relocated midlander!) And we go to Milton Keynes. Well we will once we've got some money after sorting the fridge and car service out - why do these things always happen at the same time?! :mad: Do try it out though, I'm a big scaredy cat normally but I told myself to try it and I love it! I'm rubbish though still, but I'm hoping I'll improve! Lessons are great fun but totally tiring - you use muscles you never knew you had!

I meant to say earlier CAFCgirl, I don't know what I can say to help you, only that I went through something similar (except without the m/c) and only taking a break away from thinking about ttc really helped me. You don't have to bog off to the wilds of Scotland like me, but get yourself out somewhere green and pretty and just try to remember all the good things you have in your life. Really think about what you have, who you are and how you feel and why. Try to get a bit of perspective, its hard to do unfortunately so I wish you luck xx

moneyangel22

hi Bitzer.

Yes I do temp, it came down a couple of degrees for 3 days then this morning went up 2 degrees, think that confirms i ov'd yesterday. :-)

We have been b'ding every day but 2 in the last 10 days so if we havent covered it this month i dont know what else to do!!! Plus ive been lying down for ages after and feel like this is helping. (God i hope so).

bitzer_maloney

Oh good money I find temping helps me out when my cbfm/other signs are playing silly beggars! I get a dip on ov day then it shoots up the next day. Sounds like you did ov yesterday then, how odd the cbfm didn't pick it up!

You sound like you need a well-deserved rest from bding for a bit!

CAFCGirl

thanks for the posts everyone.
I think its been getting to me even more because im having a really strange period and just want to move onto the next month and really try the SMEP plan to the letter this time....

i want to get back to peeing on a stick and feeling like im doing something productive.....

DH and I are going out tomorrow to buy some things for our holiday so maybe that'll take my mind somewhere else for a few hours....

appreciate the best wishes though everyone...

elliebobs

Thanks Bitzer; I'll give their site a look and check out their prices etc; I seriously need to work some muscles and I'm hoping that fate being the way that it is will decide that I shall get PG so can't carry on! there is a bizarre kind of logic to my reasoning!