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Advice re OH and house buying

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  • Dinah93
    Dinah93 Posts: 11,466 Forumite
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    When he says 50-50 does he understand exactly how much money this would equal?

    I agree with the other posters that you are maybe being a bit carried away when you've only just got back together. In my experience if couples break up they do so for a reason, and only time will tell if the break up actually cured the issue or they just got back together because being apart was too odd.
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  • mrsbeaton
    mrsbeaton Posts: 15 Forumite
    Dinah93 wrote: »
    When he says 50-50 does he understand exactly how much money this would equal?

    I agree with the other posters that you are maybe being a bit carried away when you've only just got back together. In my experience if couples break up they do so for a reason, and only time will tell if the break up actually cured the issue or they just got back together because being apart was too odd.


    yes he does, I got a SOA off of here, which lists everything, wrote it all down and showed him, it really did include everything, birthdays, haircuts etc, and he was fine with that.

    Rest assured we will not be rushing into anything just yet, I am going to be having a good long think about things.

    Thanks again x
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