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Weekly Flylady Thread 6th July 2009

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  • bevan840
    bevan840 Posts: 1,014 Forumite
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    edited 6 July 2009 at 1:48PM
    xx_Jo_xx wrote: »
    Bevan - you could make your Photo selection no. 4......which may prompt you to do it this week!? Then you'll only need to think of one more job.
    Im sure you must have a drawer of cupboard which needs doing, or something else you've been putting off for ages? xx
    Good luck thinking of something

    Hi Jo, thanks for the suggestion of the scrapbook becoming part of the list. Unfortunately I need DH's help with that as I'd like it to be put together between us and at the mo I cant get him to think straight!! Still on my list though to remind me :) One day :) Will add sorting out someone to look after kittens while away and sorting clothes for week in Cornwall :)

    bevan hugs for you both - I know how hard it can be waiting for hospital things - - try to get him less stressed for wed nesday (easier said than done I know) but it will help the blood pressure etc. Cross the bridges when you come to them - there is no point second guessing at this stage - its great that you are getting him to go away and relax and sort things out after - thats a good starting place. What about hiring some of his fav DVD's or funny DVD's for tomorrow to help him chill a bit - and forget housework tomorrow - if you drive and he is fit try taking him out for a run in the car or soemthing that or would that be adding to his stress - I meant about not being able to drive not your driving try to distract him as much as possible - have a laugh with him - like a fashion show - try on some of your long forgotten clothes and get his opinion as to whether they stay or go?


    I've tried to talk to him, to stop him thinking about the 'What If's' Tried explaining that they may not find anything but he's sure they will. I've used the line my Mum gave me on him too but didn't do anything. Why are men so clammed up about things? You try to explain things in a nice/positive way and they still think the opposite! If I was to do the clothes thing he'd think I was after something ;) hehe, I've done it before :) and he's scared of that as well at the moment. I also have to work :( I've managed to get Wed afternoon off so I can go to the Hospital with him though.
    He hasn't been told he cant drive, just that he can't work (he drives a coach), I don't understand it but apparently it's law now that if you drive a public vehicle and are experiencing chest pains, the Dr's will not let you drive until you get the all clear, it's fair enough really :) So I'm letting him drive me to work and pick me up (with him being on the sick we cant afford 2 cars so he needs mine at home in case he needs to go out) :rotfl: about the driving!!! he used to complain about my driving, but my come-back is that if he wasn't comfortable with my driving, he wouldn't fall asleep everytime he is in my car!! teehee I'll try and get him to sit and watch DVD's tommorrow while I'm at work, doesn't like sitting doing nothing, which is why I hid his car keys last week!!! He didn't have a choice then as couldn't go anywhere :D
    Trying to keep him busy with little jobs :) little bit of ironing, cleaning the kitchen sides etc etc only give him little jobs to keep him active and moving instead of dwelling on the dreaded 'What If's' He'll get there, just want Wednesday over and done with so we can focus on Cornwall :D

    Flying wise, decluttered lunch :) and tidied work desk :D not that it shows anymore lol!!!

    ETA My first attempt at multi quote didn't go so well lol
    :idea: Jan 09. Debt @ LBM - £11936.55 Debt at worst - £12600.55 Current Debt (01/03/2012) £8,859.51 29.7% Paid off
    Honeymoon Fund £410.40/£6000 House Deposit £1.50
    :A Proud to be dealing with my debts. DFW Nerd 1177 :A
  • rosepink1984
    rosepink1984 Posts: 2,753 Forumite
    5) defrost small freezer
    Oh, that's another thing i need to do too, will add that to my list for next week...

    Do you think I should reopen the windows? Had to shut them as we just had a cloud burst and the rain was coming in the windows but if I reopen them and go for my nap it might happen again while I’m asleep….but I would prefer to have some fresh air…

    Hope your course goes well 1 step

    Big hugs Bevan
    "Snowflakes are one of nature's most fragile things, but just look what they can do when they stick together."
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  • mumofjusttwo
    mumofjusttwo Posts: 2,610 Forumite
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    edited 8 July 2009 at 7:52AM
    [STRIKE]Morning All[/STRIKE]Afternoon.


    Thanks Pigpen for the list and thanks to Toots for doing the stars. Honestly the reason I am not getting any stars is to make it easier on Toots so it is one less person she needs to keep any eye on. *Do you think she will believe me?*

    Well electrician has finished :j and said h will pop round some time next week to get paid.


    Well liking the kitchen as most of the kickboard etc are in boxes still so guess I won't need to do them :D and I still haven't got a hob so won;' have to clean that.


    Right need to think of my 5 things :D

    1.Buy plasterboard for tiling :eek:
    2.Phone up Doc re smear test etc
    3.Give all the windows a GOOD clean
    4.Do all the ironing
    5.Find some new tiles
    January Grocery 11/374
  • Natty68
    Natty68 Posts: 3,467 Forumite
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    edited 6 July 2009 at 2:07PM
    Hugs Bevan

    Well done neveah on getting your first star :)

    Ok back from my HHC and I am now bathed, dressed and hair done. Trouble is I am now all hot and bothered..grrr!! I thought the weather was supposed to cool down, can someone tell Kent that it is supposed to be cool and not muggy!!

    jinky67 wrote: »
    Think i will have lunch then make a start on putting away the pile of un-ironables thats currently collected on my table and in a binbag:cool:

    jinky I have to ask, why are there clothes in a binbag?

    Have cleaned the bath and filled up the water containers with my bath water, so that I can water the garden with this when it hasn't rained. Although I might chuck it in the water butts in the garden if it is continues to rain during the day/night. Bed is all made, fluffed up and straightened.

    I also cut back my forsythia away from my tomato plants. These poor plants were getting strangled with the forsythia, now I have 5ft tall tomato plants looking like palms..lol. And totally unhindered in their growth. Note to self do not plant them in the veg plot next year - they grow too much..lolWhite wash has been brought in from outside, folded up and put away. Also folded up the whirly gig after washing it down.
    Am now going to put a pink wash in the machine and make some lunch to eat while watching Murder She Wrote.

    Magnificent Monday ~
    Crabby kitchen!

    Level One
    Empty and wash out the bin.. make it smell sweet!
    Level Two
    Wipe all appliances.. large and small :p
    Wipe over units and kickboards
    Sweep and mop the floor
    Level Three
    Sort and wipe a cupboard.. throw away all those germ harbouring chipped plates and mugs!

    Thoroughly clean the oven and hob
    Wipe the table.. does it need a clean cloth?

    Extras
    1. Wash any filters that need it.. don't forget the extractor hood!
    2. Wipe over the oven and hob
    3. Scrub out the fridge.. incorporate those 'slightly wilting' things into your meal plan!
    4. Find tiebacks for the curtains and put up - yay I found them, and tis done! Not sure what they were doing in with all my cross stitch patterns though..hmm.
    New Weekly Challenge...
    1. Clear the storage box of ironing (post picture when done!)
    2. Clean out airing cupboard
    3. Clear out final cupboards in the kitchen (food/baking cupboards etc)
    4. Take books to the library (DO NOT forget)
    5. Clear out drawers in the living room cupboards
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  • kazwookie
    kazwookie Posts: 14,275 Forumite
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    It is chucking it down here, and was at one time hailing as well.

    Booked various appointments
    Sorted out MOT for car
    Swept the floor
    Hoovered the office
    Backed up the office comp.
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  • Mudbath
    Mudbath Posts: 5,479 Forumite
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    Afternoon everyone!

    I can't believe i've only just logged on to the thread and you're on page 9 already!!! Gabby lot!:D

    Pigpen – OMG you made me laugh so much with your ‘counting guinea pig poop’ weekly challenge!!!! Thanks for the giggle!
    Penguin83 – well done on the quitting – keep at it !!!!
    Holly – nightmare with the fridge…why is nothing ever easy!! Glad you got it sorted.
    Natty – I loved hearing about your bird feeder antics…I love watching mine too. Wood pigeon’s should so not be able to fly the size of them!!!
    Tag – HAPPY BIRTHDAY – hope you have a good one xx
    Jo – yeahhhhhhhhhhhhhh at your tomato – I get excited by that kind of thing too!!!
    Rach – hope you enjoy your new job – I can’t believe it’s come round so fast. Have a fab day xx
    Bevan – hugs, thinking of you this week xx
    Rosepink – your step count is progressing really well! Fantastic, I hope you’re starting to feel better for it.

    KITCHEN LIST COMPLETED TOOTLES!!!!!!

    My extra five things list and i've thought hard about this.....I must be mad!!

    1) Go through my wardrobe, DD's and DSs wardrobe and remove EVERYTHING that doesn't fit!
    2) Finish the 3000 word assignment
    3) Declutter dining room.
    4) Visit library to take book back and local shop to get battery for pedometer (you've all made me want to use it again).
    5) (and this is the one i'll regret) Gut master bedroom - chuck, chuck and more chuck!

    What fun :rotfl:!

    Hugs to everyone with extra hugs for tootles and LL.

    Old pooch is still only eating her food when it's soaked but she enjoyed a walk this morning.

    Better start on my new list....speak soon xxxxxx
  • toochoosey
    toochoosey Posts: 7,371 Forumite
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    AnW'sMum, has the thunder stopped now lovie? Just checking in with you that you're ok? :)

    I'm not going to make a 5 things list - much as I want to, and think it's a great idea. There's too much happening at the mo, the children need some serious attention, as does the house... :think:.... change of mind...
    scratch that....

    1) make sure I put a love note in their lunch boxes twice this week
    2) make tomato soup for DD2 - her favourite
    3) absolutely no shouting from me this week - that's a tough one
    4) buy the paint for the LR
    5) defrost small freezer


    I think thats a lovely thing to do, :T :A
  • xx_Jo_xx
    xx_Jo_xx Posts: 2,858 Forumite
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    edited 6 July 2009 at 2:19PM
    toochoosey wrote: »
    I think thats a lovely thing to do, :T :A

    I thought that too......well done SS xx


    Ok - my new list

    Magnificent Monday ~Crabby kitchen!
    Level One
    Clear and wipe worksurfaces
    Empty and wash out the bin.. make it smell sweet!
    Level Two
    Wipe all appliances.. large and small
    Wipe over units and kickboards
    Sweep and mop the floor
    Level Three
    Sort and wipe a cupboard.. throw away all those germ harbouring chipped plates and mugs!
    Defrost Freezer
    Wipe the table.


    Extras
    1. Wash any filters that need it.. don't forget the extractor hood!
    2. Wash the windows if they need it
    3. Wipe over the oven and hob
    4. Scrub out the fridge.. incorporate those 'slightly wilting' things into your meal plan!
    New Weekly Challenge...

    · Clean out ALL of TOP drawer, make up and toiletries
    · FILING!
    · Clean out cupboard under the stairs.
    · DO ALL IRONING
    · Paint living room wall
    · Start step counting.
    · GO TO GYM!!!
    · Lose 7lb
    · Phone ING and transfer savings - then close account.
    · Call tax credits to find out if their mistake has been rectified
    · Phone Abbey to find out about random payment -
    · [STRIKE]Update Grocery Budget List[/STRIKE]
    · [STRIKE]Meal Plan[/STRIKE]
    · [STRIKE]Shopping List [/STRIKE]
    · Expenses Spreadsheet - Started but dont really know what Im doing! :confused:
    :)Sometimes lurking, sometimes posting, but always flying:)
    You are supposed to be the leading lady of your own life, for God's sake! - The Holiday
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    Feb GC £48.02/£250 (£201.98)
    :D I will declutter my house and debts :D
  • Sunnygirl_2
    Sunnygirl_2 Posts: 978 Forumite

    Sunnygirl hhhhhhhhmmmmmmmm slavedriver is it just you wait:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:


    Oh dear.....should I be scared?!?!?!:confused::rotfl:;)

    Ended up doing a run to A&E just now...my nephew (A) has hurt his finger at school and it looks broken. SIL is at work with their car and BIL was in bed at home having worked a night shift and he's supposed to be in work tonight. As SIL has got the car he couldn't get to A&E so I offered to drop BIL and A. I am also looking their little girl again this afternoon too.

    So I'm having a quiet half hour then I'll do a bit in the kitchen before school pick up. Then I'm picking up my mum and dad from the train station straight from school and I need to fit in returning some library books at some point too! Busy day!

    Ok, I need to think about my 5 things now.
    1. Go running at least once this week
    2. Do half an hour of paperwork sorting
    3. Clear the ironing pile
    4. Sort out the car insurance
    5. Plant out the plants from the windowledge.
    This list really is quite a tough one for me. Its really is lots of things I've been putting off for ages so I really hope I get it all done.

    See you all in a bit.
  • Dustykitten
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    I've ordered some school trousers online and that is it.

    Have a stinker of a headache and nuro not touched it - time for a cuppa and some parrots I think.

    I really should try and do something off my list.
    The birds of sadness may fly overhead but don't let them nest in your hair
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