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  • Valli
    Valli Posts: 25,600 Forumite
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    It IS The New Taye and Dave thread!

    wanders off to google prices of train tickets....
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
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  • SarahMoon
    SarahMoon Posts: 262 Forumite
    I did and it seemed he enjoyed it aswell, I feel like a big school girl lol
  • angle
    angle Posts: 467 Forumite
    That's fantastic!!

    Seeing him again?
  • blue35_2
    blue35_2 Posts: 77 Forumite
    I follow this thread every day!
  • Aw what a lovely story!

    I don't think you went too far. You're only 20, you're both young. You've had an awful time lately, you should have some fun. Don't take it too seriously and just see where it goes!
    I'm sure he appreciated the kiss, even if it doesn't lead anywhere in future other than you guys just being friends ;)
  • SarahMoon
    SarahMoon Posts: 262 Forumite
    Yeah I am seeing him again, Thursday actually, I'm thinking of buying something new, We are going out for lunch somewhere, I cannot wait :)

    Would it be rude to offer to go halves/Me take him? He always pays for it all, Its crazy, I used to pay for all my dates with my ex to this.
  • jblack_2
    jblack_2 Posts: 1,435 Forumite
    Let him pay for it. My OH is a TM for Virgin too and they're on a good wage, £30k+.

    J
  • liam8282
    liam8282 Posts: 2,864 Forumite
    Ok sounds like a nicey nice love story...

    Doesn't it sound a bit fishy that this person was supposedly a train guard the day you met him, or in other words a ticket collector.

    He said he was usually a train driver but covering for someone else that particular day, but the next time you saw him he was doing the same job.

    Also a train driver at 21, seems very young to me, could be possible but very unlikely.

    Are you sure you are not getting into a relationship on the rebound (rebound being it was the actual moment you left your ex that you met this guy) and also getting into a relationship where the guy is lying to you from the start??
  • liam8282
    liam8282 Posts: 2,864 Forumite
    The minimum age for a train driver on Network Rail lines is 21; 18 on the London Underground or for employment wholly within depot confines. Remember that these are only legal minimums; the way the industry works these days means you will probably be well above these ages before you get a driving job.
  • jblack_2
    jblack_2 Posts: 1,435 Forumite
    Good point Liam, They are both safety critical jobs but have different requirements and rules/regs to keep up to date with.

    A driver is there to do just that. A TM is responsible for the train and everything on it.

    I can't understand why a Driver would be doing TM duties, all the drivers I know would refuse to do it and have union backing if it were pushed.

    Drivers wear different uniform to TMs too, could be a clue there.

    J
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