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  • dfh
    dfh Posts: 1,073 Forumite
    SarahMoon wrote: »
    Wouldnt people see me as a !!!!!!? Splitting from my violent ex and getting with someone else?

    Of course you are not a !!!!!!.If a bloke sleeps around,he is a stud.If a woman does the same,she is a !!!!!!.Stop believing in this stereotyping.Not suggesting you are sleeping around.You have just met a nice guy and went for a coffee.Just enjoy yourself.
  • GreyPilgrim
    GreyPilgrim Posts: 1,636 Forumite
    SarahMoon wrote: »
    Wouldnt people see me as a !!!!!!? Splitting from my violent ex and getting with someone else?

    Yes Sarah, they would see you as a complete !!!!!!. How dare you even CONSIDER ever sharing your life with someone else and having a good time after an unpleasant episode in your life finishes.

    You should immediately join a convent or lock yourself up in a tall tower. Or both

    :):):)

    I think this is a fantastic turn of events. I only revisited the thread to see if you'd managed to get a letter of thanks sent through to this bloke, and it's taken a turn that I wasn't really expecting.

    I don't know anything about your previous situation, but it's always nice to hear of nice things happening to nice people.

    All the best.

    GP
  • angle
    angle Posts: 467 Forumite
    SarahMoon wrote: »
    Just got in from "Coffee"
    He was such a gentleman, I mentioned I was a bit peckish he took me for lunch and I was ment to be buying him coffee and he ended up buying me lunch :P

    I am going to see him again next week and he said he would take me on a local express train somewhere for lunch. He is alot younger than I thought (He is 21 I'm only 20)

    Sounds like a sweety!

    Glad you had fun. Did you need your post-it notes?
  • Noctu
    Noctu Posts: 1,553 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    SarahMoon wrote: »
    Who is Taye and Dave?

    There was a lady on another part of the forum who met someone at the gym and she kept us updated on their friendship/relationship. It was like a love story, hehe! Don't know where the thread's gone now though...
  • SarahMoon
    SarahMoon Posts: 262 Forumite
    Yes Sarah, they would see you as a complete !!!!!!. How dare you even CONSIDER ever sharing your life with someone else and having a good time after an unpleasant episode in your life finishes.

    You should immediately join a convent or lock yourself up in a tall tower. Or both

    :):):)

    I think this is a fantastic turn of events. I only revisited the thread to see if you'd managed to get a letter of thanks sent through to this bloke, and it's taken a turn that I wasn't really expecting.

    I don't know anything about your previous situation, but it's always nice to hear of nice things happening to nice people.

    All the best.

    GP
    That made me smile, and thank you :)
    angle wrote: »
    Sounds like a sweety!

    Glad you had fun. Did you need your post-it notes?
    I binned them at the station he made me feel so comfortable, He is really sweet, he said he is going to take me to blackpool on the train (He drives a car yet takes the train everywhere longdistance lol - using his free travel card now thats money saving :P )
    Noctu wrote: »
    There was a lady on another part of the forum who met someone at the gym and she kept us updated on their friendship/relationship. It was like a love story, hehe! Don't know where the thread's gone now though...
    That sounds soo sweet :)
  • awwwwww thats so great!!

    good luck sm let us know if we need to buy "hats"
    Nonny mouse and Proud!!
    Never argue with an idiot. They drag you down to their level then beat you with experience
    !!
    Debtfightingdivaextraordinaire!!!!
    Amor et metus. Lac? Sugar? Quisque massa vel duo? (stolen from a lovely forumite!)

  • suekjw
    suekjw Posts: 866 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts Combo Breaker
    Sarah, good on you! I think it's very romantic and does sound just like a film script.
  • SarahMoon
    SarahMoon Posts: 262 Forumite
    I have been so silly! I kissed him today and I felt I went to far :(
  • looby75
    looby75 Posts: 23,387 Forumite
    SarahMoon wrote: »
    I have been so silly! I kissed him today and I felt I went to far :(
    ah but did he think you had gone too far???

    Stop beating yourself up for having a bit of fun, you deserve it! (to have fun I mean not beating yourself up lol)
  • angle
    angle Posts: 467 Forumite
    Why do you think you went too far?

    Did you enjoy it? If so, then why shouldn't you enjoy yourself?
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