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Weekly Flylady Thread 29th June 2009

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  • Quillion
    Quillion Posts: 1,768 Forumite
    Hi All i feel awful not being able to keep up with the thread i feel like i am missing out.

    My best friends in hospital and has had a breakdown. She is on a level 3 section as she has been trying to harm herself.
    I have been to see her and i am so sad.
    She is not the friend i know and love but i understand she is in the right place.
    She has suffered all her life with mental health problems and has been in and out of hospital. She was fine last Sunday apart from a chest infection where she coughed that much she was sick. The doctors think that she has not absorbed any or her medication due to the sickness and this is why she is so poorly.

    I had to leave my bestest friend ever the other day on her hands and knees begging m to end her pain. The staff had to prize her fingers off of my legs.

    Just had to share this, if i said this out loud i would not be able to speak for the tears.

    Hugs for everyone who needs them xxx
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  • loshypops
    loshypops Posts: 152 Forumite
    Magnificent Monday ~ Living room, hall and stairs - done!!

    Twinkly Tuesday ~ Bathroom, Loo & Cruddy Study - done!!
    Weird Wednesday ~ Crabby kitchen! done!!
    Thwarting Thursday ~ Boudoir and landing.. done!!
    Fabulous Friday ~ Child swamps, Land of Spare Oom or just a neglected extra room! - done!!

    i'm a little behind this week but all done now and ready for next week!! :beer: (and my rather late sunday lunch!)


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  • Pollybear
    Pollybear Posts: 3,273 Forumite
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    Oh Quillion, that's so sad :(
  • Pollybear
    Pollybear Posts: 3,273 Forumite
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    OK, what have they done with the thanks button?
  • Dustykitten
    Dustykitten Posts: 16,507 Forumite
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    Quote button not working either

    Quillion - I am so so sorry to hear about your friend. You must mean the world to her, I hope she starts to recover real soon x
    The birds of sadness may fly overhead but don't let them nest in your hair
  • Penelope_Penguin
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    Quillon (hugs) for you and your friend.
    OK, what have they done with the thanks button?

    Quotes aren't working either? MSE seems to be all over tha place.

    CAn I ask if any of you can see this thread? Can you see it on the front page of OS?

    TIA, Penny. x
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  • juliejim
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    Hugs Quillion - hope your friend is feeling better soon.
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  • soappie
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    Big, big hugs Quillion
    I am the leading lady in the movie of my life
  • soappie
    soappie Posts: 6,794 Forumite
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    edited 5 July 2009 at 6:15PM
    Quillon (hugs) for you and your friend.



    Quotes aren't working either? MSE seems to be all over tha place.

    CAn I ask if any of you can see this thread? Can you see it on the front page of OS?

    TIA, Penny. x
    soappie wrote: »
    Big, big hugs Quillion
    [STRIKE]
    Pen_pen
    the quote button is quoting everything and I've no thanks button here. There is on the closed test thread....[/STRIKE]

    Forget that - it's back again now
    I am the leading lady in the movie of my life
  • toottifrootti
    toottifrootti Posts: 6,427 Forumite
    kazw another great car booty - WTG!!!:rotfl:
    methekids - you are doing a great job - but dont give in - the longer you keep making them work the more they might realise that you are no longer a pushover - enjoy your rest you have earned it. :T:T:T:T:T
    SGT glad puddey is back -you can 'pinch' them anythime!!!

    jinky
    Given I can be evil Mum, I think I will fill the crate, take it to her room and if its not emptied and tidy by next day, it will be emptied into a binbag and binned.:cool::beer:
    I dont think thats eveil - I think thats very sensible way to make them realise it cannot continue!!!:T:T:T:T
    Quillion massive hugs and strength vibes for you and your lovely friend - MY goodness no wonder you are feeling dreadful - but you are so right - she is in the best place for a good recovery and hopefully once they get her meds stabilised again she will be much better. I understand how much you want to help her - and be with her - have you talked to the staff about your visits - do they think they are good for her? and you have to consider you too (hard as it may seem) please take comfort from the fact that they will try to do everything for her to stop all the pain and suffering and get her back on track.



    oooooooooooooooh thank goodness its the thread thats gone wonky i thought it was me:rotfl:

    Hope they get it sorted before we start the new thread - i wont know where I am:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: well thats normal of course!!!

    Freecycle thing has gone:T
    Tea (HM lasagne) eaten
    Mother and bestest mate spoken too.
    off to phone NOF before I get caugjht up in new thread.

    back in a bit toots xx
    Peace will be mine
    could do better - must try harder
    Live each day as if its your last
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