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Weekly Flylady Thread 22nd June 2009

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  • juliejim
    juliejim Posts: 7,944 Forumite
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    Just eating strawberries and ice-cream!

    Anyone fancy joining me for a HHC 6.15 - 6.45?
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  • Dustykitten
    Dustykitten Posts: 16,507 Forumite
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    Hugs for those feeling down at their achievements. I don't know if any of you read my post at the end of last week when I did get 5 stars (a rare occassion), I felt depressed by it.

    I know it is easy to say but there really is more to life than completing a list (which somebody else has created) of jobs for you to do. I can't fly and have a life, I accept that so some weeks I fly and others I get a life. Some can do both I know but not me.

    If you have a child at home pre school years
    then please enjoy them - believe me there is just as much to do once they are at school but those days with them are gone.
    The birds of sadness may fly overhead but don't let them nest in your hair
  • mumofjusttwo
    mumofjusttwo Posts: 2,610 Forumite
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    Hugs for those feeling down at their achievements. I don't know if any of you read my post at the end of last week when I did get 5 stars (a rare occassion), I felt depressed by it.

    I know it is easy to say but there really is more to life than completing a list (which somebody else has created) of jobs for you to do. I can't fly and have a life, I accept that so some weeks I fly and others I get a life. Some can do both I know but not me.

    If you have a child at home pre school years then please enjoy them - believe me there is just as much to do once they are at school but those days with them are gone
    .

    :T:T:T:T:T Too true. My house proves that I enjoy my children rather than do my housework:rotfl::rotfl:
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  • juliejim
    juliejim Posts: 7,944 Forumite
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    On my own then - off I go!
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  • toottifrootti
    toottifrootti Posts: 6,427 Forumite
    phizzimum wrote: »
    Level 1 for today finished! also have binbag full for charity shop - now I have to remember to take it tomorrow...I know! I remember flylady herself used to say to put it straight into the car- I'm in town tomorrow so hopefully that will work.
    thats the way - get rid before you change your mind!!! you may have to get help with the mattress then. we dont want you getting squashed under it if it falls the wrong way!!!!:eek:
    feel free to ignore this, i just need to let it out or im gonna go bonkers, im so stressed, fed up ect ect. I ve been running my little a**e off all day doing bits and bobs and feel that its all amounted to nothing, nothing looks better the house is still a s**t tip and the garden well.............i going to write down now what ive actually done
    Dont you dare apologise for feeling like that - we have all been there - but as the others have said LOOK AT WHAT YOU HAVE DONE - not what you still have to do - be VERY proud of what you have acheived - would you have done it if you werent here? I dont know but you work, have a wee one and keep house - its not easy to keep it all ticking over - just be patient angel - BABY STEPS -in another 3/4 weeks you will think differently - try to keep doing the lists and it will get easier every week which will leave you time to more bits and look after LO. (((hugs)))
    just seen that you are in tears - honey its overwhelming you so stop trying to do SO much - take a step back and from tomorrow just concentrate on one area - not a whole room - having time with Lo is far more important than cleaning so do the necessary bits and forget the rest - Sarah's advice is spot and you could try AnW's Mum's dot 2 dot approach too until you feel better.
    My DD3 was in the egg and spoon race today. She didn't drop her egg once.... she felt that she'd won the race because of that. :D She wasn't in the least concerned that she didn't cross the line first. :j
    SS supergirl - how wonderful for DD3 what a wee star she is - a proud mummy moment? xx

    pooh honey I have sent you a pm - please dont feel blue - I think you do really well and I think i have explained it better how it works in my pm - (((hugs)))

    toochoosey - they are fab - briliant idea -good luck I am sure you can do it xx
    toots xx
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    could do better - must try harder
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  • toottifrootti
    toottifrootti Posts: 6,427 Forumite
    edited 23 June 2009 at 10:05PM
    Toots List
    Monday
    Email to Cousin and Bruv ( has he sent the stuff I gave him?)
    Phone for uplift of chair - need to make more phone calls on this.
    Find out about cleaning help - whats the cost?





    Selling challenge ~ Monday
    1. Photograph 20 things you wish to sell!! (you can do more if you wish!!)
    2. Download and install any selling tools you may require.. auctiva/turbolister for example!
    3. Upload pics to the computer!
    Tuesday
    send email to ex SIL re present coming





    Selling challenge ~ Tuesday
    1. List 5 items for sale/rehoming!
    2. Make sure details on paypal etc are up to date so you can accept payments! (guess who has 3 cards just expired!!)
    Wednesday
    outing with support worker
    bank cheque
    collect drycleaning
    exchange trousers
    poundland - brown paper, latex gloves , nonslip stuff, freezer tubs, brown tape
    tesco soda crystals, 2 small wine for NOF
    farmfoods loo roll
    Clarks Sale - sandals and shoes
    t-shirts
    present for niece
    dietician
    district nurse
    tell joiners replacement doors have arrived
    update carer control re tuesday - no lunch reqd - early carer needed.
    put away clothes that dont need ironing
    dig out summer stuff and try on - get rid/ sell as reqd



    Selling challenge ~ Wednesday
    1. List 5 items for sale/rehoming!
    2. Make sure you have materials to package the items yo are needing to post!
    Dont know if I will manage but will at least try to do something!:D

    My M.A.C.A.W challenge this week is....sort through emails and read/send/file/answer/delete as appropriate.

    extras to do
    7 - finish knitting shrug thingy
    38 - knit for a charity!
    watch thread for completed lists
    post to f/l/p
    plus my dailies (where poss!!)
    Extras done
    spent morning at Macmillan House
    spoke to best friend/mother/ NOF


    tootsxx

    'money and good health is coming easily to flypeople'
    Peace will be mine
    could do better - must try harder
    Live each day as if its your last
    DFW Nerd #1000 Proud to be dealing with my debts

  • Flylady_Flower
    Flylady_Flower Posts: 2,855 Forumite
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    White sofa cover washed yesterday is dirty again :rolleyes: I know what you will all say, but I was given it, I wouldn't choose white with a 22 month old :eek:

    Have you thought about dying it? You can have it whatever colour you want then - just put the right amount of dye in the machine when you wash it next.
    :T:T:T:T:T Too true. My house proves that I enjoy my children rather than do my housework:rotfl::rotfl:

    Hi Hon, how are you? How's the kitchen?

    Well, not much done here - my TV is bu88ered and I've only had it 4 months - it won't switch on....:mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:

    Anyhooooo, I have cleaned the kitchen and lounge AGAIN, my bedroom is just a mess - don't ask, so that's not getting done today it will have to wait until I have a bit more energy.

    Bye for now...
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  • juliejim
    juliejim Posts: 7,944 Forumite
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    In my HHC I:

    Brought the bedding in off the line
    Hoovered mattress
    Remade bed
    So Level 1 completed.

    I've then been to see to the animals - a bit earlier than I would have liked but DH won't be back until I'm in bed so I'd got to take the kids with me so that means before their bedtime.
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  • rosepink1984
    rosepink1984 Posts: 2,753 Forumite
    Helllooooo!

    Just popping in to say we are having a lovely time on holiday at Mum and Dad's. I've just sent DH out to grab a takeaway, so thought I would pop on to see you all. Don't think i will be able to catch up on all 22 pages before he gets back tho!

    Love and hugs to all, and welcome to LadyGrim and all other newbies.

    We are having such a relaxing time! And the weather is glorious today! We went to the cinema yesterday, and today have had a drive through West Sussex which was beautiful. And we picked up a few bits for DH from Mr T as there is a huge one here which sells everything and DH had lost his shorts so was wearing jeans which are too much in this weather!
    We also got a washing up bowl which I've been needing for ages as ours has a crack in it. Not that I use it for washing up, but you never know when you will need a large washable plastic bowl...

    I've been laughing at myself cos since I've arrived here I keep noticing things and tutting and thinking "they obviously don't clean their..." and thinking that my parents need to follow Pigpen's lists! I think I will go round with a damp cloth upstairs as so far I've noticed the window frames, radiators, walls and back of doors need cleaning! To be fair, my mum is disabled, my dad works full time and looks after her, and my sister works and does the majority of cleaning and a lot of everything else that needs doing, so between them they do very well to keep it as nice as they do. It would just be good to do some of the finishing touches for them before they come home. Plus i'm itching to get all those dirty marks off everything! What's happened to me? Flyladies you have taken over my brain! :rotfl:
    "Snowflakes are one of nature's most fragile things, but just look what they can do when they stick together."
    Sealed pot challenge no.576 Loose change pays your debt challenge #2 no.1 Wannabe flylady
    Weight lost since 9 June 2009: [STRIKE]5.5[/STRIKE] 6 lbs
  • rosepink1984
    rosepink1984 Posts: 2,753 Forumite
    000203E1.gifFFP, just saw this on the old thread, this is me on holiday except that I have brown hair, and don't move in that strange way (what is she doing, or maybe I shouldn't ask)


    000203E4.gifThis is definately DH, it even looks like him! :rotfl:
    "Snowflakes are one of nature's most fragile things, but just look what they can do when they stick together."
    Sealed pot challenge no.576 Loose change pays your debt challenge #2 no.1 Wannabe flylady
    Weight lost since 9 June 2009: [STRIKE]5.5[/STRIKE] 6 lbs
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