MSE Pregnancy Club XIII

tarajayne

Ok, long post. Todays news.

Went in at 8.30am to be monitored, cervix was open and membranes bulging. MW said they could easily be broken but if I wanted could go home and have it done there and still get my HB. Registrar said I should stay in but an hour later I was contracting well so came went home. Called MW about 2.30pm, contractions going well but she told me she could not break my waters at home and also that bubs is actually back to back and that's why I'm having so many problems getting going. Told me to walk up and down stairs which I did and they stopped. Due to her position I decided that enough was enough and I would go back in to have my waters broken and stay there. MW rang in and said they had space so off we went for the 2nd time (hour each way). Got to hospital to find out that not only should she have gone with us but that she didn't speak to the co-ordinator and they were too busy but if we waited they would do it. Left in a room for 3 hours then they said it couldn't be done tonight by which time I was hysterical. So I've discharged myself now, no HB pack at home anymore, still irregular contractions and an hour from the hospital. I am a failure, don't want to be pregnant right now, had enough!!!

tiamai_d

tarajayne wrote: »

Ok, long post. Todays news.

Went in at 8.30am to be monitored, cervix was open and membranes bulging. MW said they could easily be broken but if I wanted could go home and have it done there and still get my HB. Registrar said I should stay in but an hour later I was contracting well so came went home. Called MW about 2.30pm, contractions going well but she told me she could not break my waters at home and also that bubs is actually back to back and that's why I'm having so many problems getting going. Told me to walk up and down stairs which I did and they stopped. Due to her position I decided that enough was enough and I would go back in to have my waters broken and stay there. MW rang in and said they had space so off we went for the 2nd time (hour each way). Got to hospital to find out that not only should she have gone with us but that she didn't speak to the co-ordinator and they were too busy but if we waited they would do it. Left in a room for 3 hours then they said it couldn't be done tonight by which time I was hysterical. So I've discharged myself now, no HB pack at home anymore, still irregular contractions and an hour from the hospital. I am a failure, don't want to be pregnant right now, had enough!!!

Aww sweetheart you are not a failure, your just cursed with an inept medical team!

Can you get the homebirth pack back? Tell them that after their c0ck up it's the least they can do?

I want a baby by morning!

money_maker_3

oh tara huni, BIG HUGS xx
you are not a failure, you have done this 5 times before, and you will do it again perfectly well !!:)
Are you going to go back in or phone to get the HB pack brought back again?
Hope tomorrow is better for you and you have your little girl in your arms soon

tarajayne

Not going back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

money_maker_3

Has the MW that was out with you earlier still got the HB pack? Phone her now and tell her you need it !!

searching_me

awwwwwwwwwww tara what !!!! hope everything goes ok ...just think it'll soon be over and you'll have your little girl x

money_maker_3

Right I need to go to bed, havent slept for a while
Tara, good luck, sending you all the vibes you need
Will be on in the morning to see how you get on !!

Night xx

tiamai_d

I need my supper, what do I want?

Night MM xx

searching_me

tia the right answer is everything :rotfl: ... night MM x

jha

huge hugs tara what a carp midwife you have. get your oh to get that midwife back with the hb kit sharpsih.

sending "come back midwife & hb pack and strong labour vibes"