MSE Pregnancy Club XIII

mollythewestie

Honeypop - Congratulations on the birth of baby Aaron! :beer::j

skintchick

Congratulations honeypop!!!!

jennynoo

Mooki, that's a lovely BS, thanks for sharing

Nicki

tiamai_d wrote: »

Completely random how it happens. I can be fine then something will trigger a memory and bam! It's all in my head replaying over and over and no matter what I do, it wont stop. Wait till you see me in 2 weeks, the obsession with what I was doing at this point has started, I worked it out that July 10th is the day, 33+2 weeks exactly, and I really tried not to look that up, but I did.

Definitely go for the elective, it's not worth putting yourself through the stress because no matter how hard you try it will be in the back of your mind waiting for you to loose concentration. There is things you should face and things you shouldn't, especially if you will then always be looking out for development problems in the little one.

Thanks Tiamai. It does make a difference when people understand where you're coming from, rather than just think you're a random loon, who should just get a grip! Not that anyone has ever said that to me, mind you, but its always in the back of your mind that this must be what they are thinking. God knows what Freud would say about that though!

I am sure I will be looking for development problems in the newbie anyway, cos there's always the risk when you have one on the spectrum that others will be too, but its such a huge spectrum and I know so much more about it now than I did when DD was born that I am sure even with another one we would cope, and there won't be any added nagging doubt that something around the time of the birth made things worse, or triggered a propensity which was latent. Added to which, to be completely honest, it will lessen the fear about me succumbing to PND/PPP again for both me and the OH, and that's not to be sniffed at either.

skintchick

updating with Honeypop's birth:

EDD 2009

Saverram_ 13th June 2009
britonsarah - 24th June 2009
pinkpig08 - 28th June 2009:female:
mollythewestie - 29th June 2009
chalky_bertie Dad2B - 30th June 2009
tarajayne- 2nd July 2009 :female:
chopsticks - 5th July 2009
LittlePickle - 10th July 2009:male:
Lu T - 11th July 2009
tinkerbelluk - 12th July 2009
niknaknoo1982 - 20th July 2009:male:
catz747 - 23rd July 2009 - Twins!! :male::female:
Skintchick - 24th July 2009
efrieze- 26th July 2009 :female:
Mrs Moc - 28th July 2009 :female:
SugarSpun - 30th July 2009 :female:
SuzyWuzy - 2nd August 2009 :female:
fairydawn - 2nd August 2009:male:
carlamagee - 3rd August 2009
Newmoneysaver - 4th August 2009:male:
Triggles - 5th August 2009:male:
Vickylee - 5th August 2009
dooleys - 7th August 2009 Twins!!
Natalie85 - 9th August 2009:female:
AylesburyGirl-16th August 2009
Shelvis - 20th August 2009:male:
nessquic80 - 23rd August 2009:male:
Tiamai_d - 26th August 2009:female:
HypnoNu - 27th August 2009:male:
mustbemad - 31st August 2009 :female:
zgaze - 3rd September 2009
Spinks - 3rd September 2009
fitzilian19 - 4th September 2009:male:
midgetjem84 - 9th September 2009
Rose123 - 9th September 2009
Xmaslolly76- 10th September 2009:male:
Kate1 - 12th September 2009
Charlie23 - 12th September 2009
Jacksons mum - 14th September 2009 :male:
JAM1376 - 15th Septemeber 2009
mountainlioness - 16th September 2009 :female:
Workinmummy - 19th September 2009
Fitzio - 20th September 2009
lil miss 06 - 21st September 2009
Glamazon - 22nd September 2009 :male:
happytum - 22nd September 2009
Harley - 22nd September 2009 :female:
jillie1974 - 22nd September 2009
Squishy - 22nd September 2009
Csh - 24th September 2009 :male:
Stick2000 - 25th September 2009
Bear family 28th September 2009 :male:
Cady - 29th September 2009
Nicki - 2nd October 2009
madwoman85 - 10th October 2009
papa-roo Dad2B- 15th October 2009
Cheapskate - 16th October 2009
vicstar - 17 October 2009
Damzel_In_Distress - 18th October 2009
Fidget - 20th October 2009:male:
Jennynoo - 21st October 2009 :female:
nancmat - 22nd October 2009
Lizziebell*80 - 27th October 2009:female:
Helen81- 28th October 2009:male:
Tigsteroonie & Marleyboy 3rd November 2009:male:
Karen1907 - 3rd November 2009
SarahOwen - 3rd November 2009
Got it Spend it - 4th November 2009
charliedavis - 11th November 2009
fattybooboo - 11th November 2009
pookie5488 - 11th November 2009
kitty_and_gucci_2008 - 12th November 2009
boogellyboo - 14th November 2009
Charlton Taz - 21st November 2009
daisychain80 - 25th November 2009
faye6174 - 30th November 2009
Ender4 Dad2B - 1st December 2009
always29 - 4th December 2009
Liza83 - 6th december 2009
girlcurl - 7th December 2009
katster - 10th December 2009
BeenieCat - 12th December 2009
WrigglesRJ - 15th December 2009
newbie_maz - 15th December 2009
lou66 - 15th December 2009
aless02 - 19th December 2009
Mazcabs - 19th December 2009
Elastigirl - 25th December 2009 :xmassmile
agscully - 25th December 2009 :xmassmile
Candycanes - 27th December 2009
albionsarah - 29th December 2009
Maybebaby80 - 30th December 2009

EDD 2010
jha - 10th January 2010
louise99- 17th January 2010
charliechin - 22nd January 2010

TTC LIST
Fishcake_random, durham_girl, likabu, Pooky, miss_pink, Boobylou, jiblets1, Uisge10, CHARLIE54, Andrea78, Wondermum07, Melvis, Janec08, Helen79, Hayley11, Ruth.77, Filmstar, jmf76, Natalie6999, AnnieM, Leopardlady, Nikabella, Evansangel, smartie12

BIRTH LIST
:male: elle_gee - 17th May 2009 at 8am (31 weeks emergency c/s) Rhys Alary, 3lb 6oz (lifetime member)
:male: Jvic28 - 5th June 2009 - Tomos 6lb 5oz (Emergency c/s)
:male: Sami_Bee - 6th June 2009 at 6.13am Edgar Samuel 8lbs 4oz
:male: Hedgehog21 - 8th June 2009 Hugh 5lb 5oz
:male: Searching_me - 8th June 2009 Jayden 7lb 7oz
:male: Stargirl12 - 9th June 2009 Joshua James (emergency c/s)
:female: Mookiandco - 16th June 2009 Leila Miriam
:male: money maker - 17th June 2009, Dylan (planned c/s)
:male: Honeypop - 23rd June 2009, Aaron (emergency c/s)

PROBABLY GIVEN BIRTH BUT TOO WORN OUT TO LOG ON LIST
allow 2 weeks after EDD before transferring to this list...
Lanz81 - 25th May 2009 :male:
loopylass81 - 27th May 2009:male:
Doooford - 28th May 2009

searching_me

congratz honeypop ... hope your sweep went well tara everyone feeling ok today? x

SugarSpun

I'm now only 16th on the list, and at least one of those ladies at the top has probably already popped and just not come back.

*wibbles*

chopsticks

Glamazon wrote: »

Chops - do the batch cooking! You will regret not doing it afterwards, it does take ages and like SM said a few days ago it does feel like you've done a marathon cos you seem to be on the go all day! But it was the best thing I've done (and baby not here yet!)

I've been a good girl and have done it. I haven't done loads because I wanted to get my other jobs done too, but this afternoon I have made two lasagnes, a chicken cannelloni, chicken breasts stuffed with soft cheese and wrapped in ham in a tomato and basil sauce and a HM pizza. So only five meals there but that's five more than there were!

newmoneysaver wrote: »

Chops - can you be selective with the meals you have in the next few days and just make huge vats so you can freeze the excess. That's my plan, so I don't have to spend a whole day cooking

That's a good idea. Now I've got a few in there, I'm going to do what you suggest and make double of a couple of dinners next week so they can go in too. The only downside is that the freezers (I've got two) are now both rammed, so I'm going to have to sort them out. There will be room for some more meals, but they just need tidying up first. And, of course, there is no point in just emptying the freezers and putting the stuff back in, I might as well give them a quick clean too. A job for next week I think, unless I get bored over the weekend.

Fidget wrote: »

Aw chopsticks I really feel for you, I remember what I was like at the end of my last pregnancy I couldn't "be" anywhere it was all so uncomfortable. My OH doesn't know what he's in for in the last month or so - I remember whingeing for England last time! I can only imagine me getting that way again as the the restless legs, heartburn and general shatteredness is already getting to me x

Thanks Fidget. I sometimes feel that I don't do anything but moan to my DH (and you lot). DH has been very good though and hasn't moaned about me complaining, bless him. I totally agree on the "could be anywhere" bit - my feet ache if I've been on them for a few hours, so then I have a sit down or a lie down and then the restless legs start, so I have to get up and move around again!

p1tse - congratulations and welcome to the thread!!


SugarSpun - I would feel totally the same about the name thing if I was you. The piano story has made me giggle!!


Honeypop - congratulations on the arrival of baby Aaron. Looking forward to your BS when you get a moment.

chopsticks

SugarSpun wrote: »

I'm now only 16th on the list, and at least one of those ladies at the top has probably already popped and just not come back.

*wibbles*

I'm seventh :eek:

skintchick

Am I the only one who gets excited the closer I get to the top, rather than scared?

Am I weird?