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Needs must when the devil vomits into your kettle! Bob's cunning plan mark 2
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This reminds me of bad Christmas's I had in the past before I finally bit the bullet and asked him to leave, even then it took nine months to convince him it would be best if he went.
Our problem is that I feel the need to try and solve problems and make things better for everybody and he never grew up but does what he wants without thinking of the consequences and relies on other people to sort things out. When things got tough he also tried to escape with alcohol.
Life is much simpler and more peaceful without him and it is actually better for him as he has a new woman who is also financially astute who just takes his share of the bills off him and sorts everything out for him. We get on fine now & he even thinks to buy Christmas presents for the kids.
Still Mr Bob is your decision. The question is; do you think you are happier with him despite all the stress or would you like to cut free and try life on your own? I found that I had a growing resentment that I was the one scrimping and saving and doing without so to fund his carefree existence.0 -
I did have a long reply there Helen but as is ever the way it was lost in Time and Space. So i have decided to start a New Diary.
http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?t=2169899Blackadder: Am I jumping the gun, Baldrick, or are the words 'I have a cunning plan' marching with ill-deserved confidence in the direction of this conversation?
Still lurking around with a hope of some salvation:cool:0 -
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Ey up bob :wave:
HAPPY NEW YEAR:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D
p.s. we apologise for the lack of smut in this post, however we expect normal service will be resumed very soon.......Gettin' There, Wherever There is......
I have a dodgy "i" key, so ignore spelling errors due to "i" issues, ...I blame Apple0 -
Ey up bob :wave:
HAPPY NEW YEAR:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D
Happy New Year!!p.s. we apologise for the lack of smut in this post, however we expect normal service will be resumed very soon.
This is Bob's thread. Bob will not tolerate a normal servicing..."Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
"We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
"Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky." OMD 'Julia's Song'0 -
Happy New Year!!
This is Bob's thread. Bob will not tolerate a normal servicing...
:rotfl::rotfl:
Thanks Z and Happy New Year to you too.:D
I missed this before as i started the other diary, but they are similar themes..:rotfl:Blackadder: Am I jumping the gun, Baldrick, or are the words 'I have a cunning plan' marching with ill-deserved confidence in the direction of this conversation?
Still lurking around with a hope of some salvation:cool:0
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