Needs must when the devil vomits into your kettle! Bob's cunning plan mark 2

GunJack

hang in there bob...work to plans once you're sure it's the right plan.....and reach down and pick the worst turnip on the pile to aim at mr.b

shaun40400

i'd go with the second bank as well
to mr bob

dont lose site of christmas,,,,its too close
s xx

boredofbeingathome

Yeah, i am resigned to moving banks now. Even if he is staying with the same one-

I slept on the couch last night because i just had to stay away- he made me that angry

So am off into town- walking with boots, then visiting my Gran. Then i am sitting down and doing nowt.

Scrabble wouldn't load for me after the first game, but i got a good score on one word..it's the little things which make me happy- LOL

Shaun puts it so eloquently :P to Mr.B.


2010- IT CAN'T COME QUICK ENOUGH... and i do enjoy Christmas.

boredofbeingathome

GunJack wrote: »

hang in there bob...work to plans once you're sure it's the right plan.....and reach down and pick the worst turnip on the pile to aim at mr.b

Have reserved a smelly mouldy one

boredofbeingathome

penguin83 wrote: »

I did the same with shifting banks BOB as we both had loans and credit cards with the same bank so moved to one completely unrelated to any debts we had.

Sorry to hear about Mr BOBs antics but please dont let it spoil Christmas for you xxxx

I think i will have to do Pingu- makes me hopping mad about it though. I have just obtained a 0% card from bank as well so will maybe have to keep my account for online banking purposes..

Talking of which i had better check that before i go out this cold and frosty morning.:D

The_Dragon

Sorry to hear about this Bob - getting a new bank account seems the way to go and get rid of anything joint asap and get your name off ANYTHING he took out!

In the meantime start thinking about that turnip in the country you want!

elantan

bob i wish i was there to share a coffee and a hug with ya ....


2010 is gonna be the year ...

decide what you want (you have already)
decide how you are gonna do it (you have started)
put it into action (your just waiting to start)
review it at appropriate periods (once started i am sure you will)
alter anything that needs altered (it'll keep you on the path)
and most importantly enjoy the fact you are getting what you want ...
cause you are worth it

In_Search_Of_Me

http://www.sixwise.com/newsletters/08/01/29/the-turnip-nutrition-uses-and-some-interesting-lore-of-one-of-the-most-important-vegetables.htm

maybe substitute turnip for mr bob...roasting sounds good!

sorry that people are being so f **** selfish again...dont know what to say other than hugs for you. As others have said dont let him spoil christmas - enjoy the time and then rethink in jan - i would definately not want to be financially linked to him though as even thouse hes unable to pay he still doesent seem to get it! grrrrr
I'm in the tarra to 2009 group but suspect that it will be a while before I can get shot of all current issues but count me in as a general here comes 2010 principle!
lots of love bob and dont forget there is a spare bed here till 17th jan...

boredofbeingathome

The_Dragon wrote: »

Sorry to hear about this Bob - getting a new bank account seems the way to go and get rid of anything joint asap and get your name off ANYTHING he took out!

In the meantime start thinking about that turnip in the country you want!

Maybe i should go for a Kirsty Allsop homemade Turnip:rolleyes::D

Yes i want to get my name off everything joint.

Just had another row:o He said that I had said that the Capital one payback amount should be no problem I can't remember saying that i did say it was because i was paying the mortgage, and if it is no problem then he should surely have saved for that by the lessening of the strain on the main account..in other words me reducing the overdraft is not an excuse to run up the overdraft again by paying it to Capital one:mad:.

I also challenged him again as to his plans to pay off stuff- it is all well and good extended the lower payment arrangement, however now -he is still paying interest and the payment just about covers that...he really doesn't learn.

I did offer to write letters for him, but he has taken the huff because of my attitude.:cool:

So am sticking to my guns on this. I have also put into place with Natwest that as the over draft lowers they too will lower the limit. He won't be able to run it up now! Have got forms for other banks and i am looking online at some as well.

boredofbeingathome

elantan wrote: »

bob i wish i was there to share a coffee and a hug with ya ....


2010 is gonna be the year ...

decide what you want (you have already)
decide how you are gonna do it (you have started)
put it into action (your just waiting to start)
review it at appropriate periods (once started i am sure you will)
alter anything that needs altered (it'll keep you on the path)
and most importantly enjoy the fact you are getting what you want ...
cause you are worth it

Thanks for that El, wish you were here too..but not in this snow.lol:rotfl: