A Payment A Day Part 4

SueP19

Hopeful1 wrote: »

Hi hun!! Things have been a nightmare here! I've discovered last night and being suspicious for a while, that OH's depression stems from a gambling addiction. His big bad boss isn't quite so bad after all. OH has told me a lot of lies. I'm not sure how things will end up. He is resigned to the settee at the mo. He needs to do a lot to prove he wants to be part of the family.

Financially he has left me in dire straits BUT lady luck has shone down. A cheque arrived yesterday for his PPI. OH's given it all to me (i've done all the work for it!). I'm disappointed as he is not working now so i will have to use some for general living but will use a little for debt too. It gives me a bit of breathing space for a while.

On the completely up side. My baby is growing well. He is a busy bee who kicks me most of the day and night! I think he may have ADHD Pregnancy always makes me feel chilled out which has been a life saver this last few weeks. I'm very excited about the arrival of my little boy. No.1 son has been affected by what OH has done but has been a star. So i have so much to fight for and be grateful for :smileyhea

:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: ah thinking of you honey

Flower08

Morning everyone.
Sorry to hear about the problems you are having with OH hopeful - we're all thinking of you and hope you can work through the problems.
PAD for me today is £2 to HSBC CC

clearing_out_my_pockets

Only a small one from me today, but then I'm not normally on at the weekends... 45p

LondonAndy

For Hopeful ---> :grouphug:

Thanks for your kind words thread. Felling positive today - a weekend of sport woo-hoo!

Just £1 Mac. Payday soon!

musogirl295

£16.31 today. That brings the big credit card down to a nice round £2k:eek:!

Muso x

sashybo

Hi all, just 50p to Barclaycard again today.

Have a good day everyone.:beer:

Thisisforthekids

Hi all,

Sorry to hear about you problems hopefull, some men just dont realise what they have till its gone, lets hope he bucks his ideas up before its to late. :grouphug:

Just £4 from me today feel a bit fed up really, sitting at work with thousands of people all walking past towards V Festival in high spirits, in anticapation of a great time.

We will def go next year, when finance's and baby's are more stable!!:T

Well just £4 from me today we have got quite a bit of spare cash but OH is in town today to get the last few bits for baby!!_pale_ once she has got what we need i am going to PAD whatever is left, so should be a sizeable one in the next few days.

macgirl

Whoo-Hooo!!
Just been accepted for a 0% card from Virgin to transfer my EGG balance :j:T (from a horrendous apr of 17.9%):eek:.
I'm delighted as I got turned down from the PO the other week and am surprised as I already have an MBNA card......
Who cares - I know it's a bit sad, but I'm so happy!!!! :money: :rotfl:

(Jst need to work out how the hell I'm gonna pay it off in 9 months now)

mswan

Hi all £4 for me today

Flower08

Thats great news macgirl!! Now all of your extra payments will actually be going towards the debt rather than horrid interest!
Im slightly jealous as the HSBC debt OH and i have is in his name and he has appauling cradit rating so no chance of getting a balance transfer - the interest rate is 27% i think grrr!!