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MSE Pregnancy Club XII
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Hi all, thanks for asking after me
Haven't been back to thank you all yet
Well i woke up to bar steward turning my alarm off, and he said he wanted to take DS to school. At this point i was still tired and feeling crap so i said okay, but then when he woke DS up he was white as a shet and said he felt sick. So he's stayed off school.
Turns out bar steward took an overdose last night and my response was "oh that's nice, so i was meant to be waking up to a dead body on the sofa?".
:rolleyes: He's been puking and crying most of the morning but not in front of DS who has no idea anything is wrong. He came in when i was still in bed crying asking for a hug and i said no!
Had to pop into town and thouht in my wisdom to go to Iceland and save some time, til i remembered how much i hate Iceland and had to go to Morrison's anyway for stuff, and was mighty miffed that everything i'd just bought in town was on offer in Morrisons :rolleyes:.
We had a heated chat in the bedroom, i said i think we're fooling ourselves if we think it can work after all this time, he disagrees - i said it's too late for you to try because i know you'll end up treating me like crap again, he maintains that i also treat him like crap, trying to turn it round onto me... Anyway i've got mixed feelings, looks like he's going to have to go to his family 200 miles away, and i know it's def over if that happens so naturally i'm tempted to let him stay.
On the other hand, i can't see a way out of this black hole, but will i regret it? Could it have worked? Was it me? Could i have been better to him? I don't know, but i know he could have been better to me.
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Tigsteroonie wrote: »We are on team
BLUE !!!
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Just had our 20-week scan, and the Bean is apparently doing just fine in there. Reckon he's got boxers arms, he was punching around like mad. All measurements check out okay.
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Boot him out Beenie.
I'd have been tempted to pass him some more pills and make sure he did it properly, so well done for resisting that urge! you're obviously a nicer person than I am!:cool: DFW Nerd Club member 023...DFD 9.2.2007 :cool::heartpuls married 21 6 08 :A Angel babies' birth dates 3.10.08 * 4.3.11 * 11.11.11 * 17.3.12 * 2.7.12 :heart2: My live baby's birth date 22 7 09 :heart2: I'm due another baby at the end of July 2014! :j
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Yay Tigster!0
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beenie, just remember the things he said to you last night !!! Dont you dare blame yourself for any of this !!!!!!! And get him out of your lifeThe two best things I have done with my life
:TDD 5/11/02 :j DS 17/6/09 :T
STOPTOBER CHALLANGE ... here we go !!0 -
tia - am sure there is a whole industry for repair places hyping up costs on behalf of the claimants... we were totally done over for a cracked number plate (£350! Cost in Halfords: £15) Insurance co knew they were being taken for a ride by the claimant but said it wasn't worth the hassle and cost of proving it (which is true but it makes me so cross - as well as hiking my renewal quote)MFW Challenge member no. 96 - on hold! :rolleyes:
Girl Cub due 14th September0 -
Elle, your getting a taste of what it can be like trying to chase 'professionals' and get answers. You learn how to read between the lines because they do not give you straight answers unless you ask them directly.
Learning curve aint it? :rolleyes:
But he sounds like he is doing so well! So some *Podgy Rhys Vibes* heading his way!!!
:rotfl: Yes, that's what we need - Podgy Rhys Vibes!
Must be the start of holiday season for the nurses. Two of them have just had a few weeks off and come back today, taken a peek at Rhys then sought me out to tell me how impressed they are with him and how well he's doingTwo weeks ago he was at a really low point and quite a few people didn't think he'd still be here so they're amazed he's in a new room (3rd of 4 before going home) and in a cot.
Even the cleaners have been keeping an eye on him. One told me this morning she'd come in expecting to see him in Room 2 (high dependency) then dashed out to peek at the big whiteboard to find out if he'd been moved back to Room 1 (intensive care), but eventually found his name in Room 6 (special care). She said she abandoned her mop and bucket to go peek at him before carrying on!0 -
Sorry its rough Beenie
What did he try to overdose on? Even if he looks fine, he should still get some medical attention. Some stuff, especially paracetemol, appear not to have done any harm for several days, but then prove fatal or cause serious damage. He really should get checked out, and not least because if he does need ongoing medical treatment for his psychiatric issues, he'll then be in the system.0 -
Beenie, going by his recent behaviour he doesn't have the emotional maturity to handle a relationship. You were supposed to be his partner not his mother. I think him going to realitives would be a good idea. He would be far enough away so as not to be coming near you trying to mess with your head (like he is now). Plus his family can look after him.
I changed my mind, it's not a punch he needs, it's a bloody good smack on the butt if he is going to act like a child!0 -
have to agree with others beenie it maybe hard but can you keep putting yourself through this ... honestly ... not only that but kids are not stupid they may not see anything but they feel the tension and what if your son woke one night to hear the words hes calling you and the way he treats you how would you explain?? not only that but the stress of thinking is he going to start again is not good for your bubs darling.. if you dont do it for yourself do it for your kids x
Still searching .....:)
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