Weekly Flylady Thread 4th May 2009

toottifrootti

mumofjusttwo wrote: »

Problem is that he lives abut 3 hours away now

so was he taking time off to look after the children while you are away - if so can he not come and do it at your place so they are not too disrutped.

I cant remember how old the children are - are they at school - who was going to look after them while he was working if he wasnt taking time off?

sorry angel I am not meaning to upset you with these questions. I know he is helping you by looking after the children and he is their father but he should also be taking your wishes into consideration. And you shouldnt be trying so hard to accomodate him IMHO - he is the one who left.

forgive me if I am speaking out of turn
toots xx

mumofjusttwo

sorry Dusty I didn't mean to make you cry.

I know that DH would be ok if I found someone else (don't even know if he would care).

I know that it is easier for him to find some one else but I think it shows something when it is only a week after he leaves he 'finds' someone. Now he just so happens to be living near her :rolleyes: I suppose I should think that I am better of without him.

Just don't know if I should let them stay at DH girlfriend house (oh seems odd writing that )think that I am a little upset as both my mum and sister were to busy to talk.


Mind I wouldn't want to swap my two children for a man anyway. Would much rather have them here with me because, even if I do say so myself, my kids give the best hugs in the whole world. When I ask DD how much mummy loves here she says 'bigger much' and puts her arms out as wide as she can.

embb

Hi guys :wave:

Done naff all since I got in, I tell a lie, I've slept Had 2 hrs and still feel like I could do some more, but can't anyway, Asda is calling for chocolate supplies cause I've run out :eek:

Greenbee you HAVE done something constructive you've been to the tip.

mojt (((((hugs)))) nothing useful to add to what the girls have already said, just wanted to give you a virtual hug, you've been doing brilliantly xx

I have the biggest choccie craving so I'm going.... now!

laters x

OddjobKIA

shawshank redemption lovers

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rFNwBA4x7ek

mumofjusttwo

toots . No need to apologise. You really do help (as always)
Well he has got to take Friday and Monday off (although he did forget that DS would be at school on Monday)

DS is 5 and DD is 3

I think the problem is that I don't know how I feel. I am glad that he told me, but of course if the children were staying in her house he would have to have told me as DS would have told me

I would mention o DH that he just says she is a friend. Don't think that DS would understand about girlfriends yet and I did tell him that he can't sleep in her room while they are there.

Flylady_Flower

vanilla wrote: »

Just wanted to pop on and let you all know i had a beautiful baby boy on wednesday morning at 5.38am, he was 7lb and we've named him Rhys Edward.:j:j:j:j

Congratulations Vanilla, best wishes to you all....

Triker, thanks for the update on Pigpen, all the best to you pigpen, hope the back improves soon - nothing worse than not being able to do something because you're unable to move... hugs to you... even if you don't do them ... :A Oh, and well done on the assignments - how long do you have left of this course now? must be finished soon eh? Uni next year... :T:T

Quillion, sounds like you've had a bit of a bad time too, sorry I don't know what happened, but all the best to you too, hope things improve soon... :A

Soappie - How's plan B going and how are your eyes now? hope it was nothing serious...

Toots, sorry you are feeling down, but glad your little 'hugs in the post' are still arriving and cheering you up - hope you feel better soon... :A oh and thanks for all your emails - they always cheer me up (loved the one about the iranian airspace... :rotfl:)

Thanks for the energy saving tips Greenbee - I've sent the link to it to my Mum and Sister too... all things we should do, and I will be chasing up my lovely DS to keep on top of... :rolleyes:

MOJ2 - Huge hugs honey - I'm so sorry that I haven't been able to pop round to see you - I will put that right soon I promise . On the staying over bit - have you thought about letting him stay at your home on those days? (obviously no 'ladies' allowed ) or do they have to go to his place? (3 hours away - where has he gone now?)... Hope you come up with a good solution that won't upset the children (or you!) too much.

Your two children are amazing and beautiful and your DD's smile could melt an iceberg so I can believe you're glad you still have them rather than him - you will find someone who appreciates all of you in due time and you will be better of for it... hugs honey... :A

Flying wise - I have decluttered my emails and a bacon sandwich and little else... I need to start on the spare room now (well after dinner that hubby has cooked... ) see you all later...

carol22_2

Hey all
Haven't done much flying today, did a load of washing, went to the gym and the swimming pool, bought some veg to put in a risotto for dinner (and some biccies but shhh).

MOJ2 - lots of hugs, I don't really have any advice but lots and lots of hugs.

Big hugs to mamamia too, hope you enjoy tonight

Triker thanks for the update on Pigpen, make sure you tell her we are all thinking of her!

Need to go study - german speaking exam on Tuesday eek.
Love to everyone

froddington

MOJT - hugs

I'm off out now to my aunty's 80th do - only her, my mum, my cousin, his wife and me! Mind you, she'll be quite happy with that. Going to walk there and get a taxi back, so need to get a move on.

Have a good evening all x

toochoosey

MOJT, hge hugs honey
[EMAIL="AnW@sMum"]AnW'sMum[/EMAIL], enjoy your night out......(not sure what happened with the name????, I accidetally put an @instead of the ' and now I can't get rid of the underline)
Toots, enjoy your hugs in a box.
Oddjob, have you been to Freshwater West to see the Harry Potter house?, or is it a bit far?

blueberrypie

Finally got the kitchen list done and the living-room list done, and I'm too tired to even go and look at which days they were on, so can I just beg for the stars and quietly toddle off to the nearest soft horizontal surface please?

Two stars please...ta...g'night...