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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 3

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  • annie_d
    annie_d Posts: 933 Forumite
    Evenin' all. FLUFFY I saw you commented on waking with headaches. That has been my problem too since not drinking. Waking with SUCH a head pain and stifnes. Also lots o nightmares too. Not enough to drive me to drink but, you know. Very disturbing all the same.
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    Here, here Nutty, lovely post :)
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • fedupandskint
    fedupandskint Posts: 10,358 Forumite
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    Lillibet - are you ok now hun? We're all worried about you. Hope you're ok or have some support somewhere offline.

    All ok here just watching the Professor Reagan prog about anit ageing. Will take the tip about haircuts over creams!

    AF tonight too, no cravings here
    final unsecured debt to repay currently £8333
    Proud to be Dealing With my Debt
    DFW Nerd 1154 Long Haul 155
  • annie_d
    annie_d Posts: 933 Forumite
    Poor Lillibet. Positive thoughts from all of us to you xxx Sent with love.
  • 40somethingmum
    40somethingmum Posts: 2,513 Forumite
    I have just flushed an entire prescription's worth of paroxetine down h eloo - too much temptation.

    Oh sweetheart I hope you are alright. I don't know much about paroxetine but am assuming it is an ant-depressant . am I correct ?

    Please go to see your doctor tomorrow as withdrawal from these sort of things can cause problems.

    Let us know you are alright ?

    Love

    40SM
  • lillibet_dripping
    lillibet_dripping Posts: 1,678 Forumite
    I'll live to fight another day - it's in my job description
    x
    :j[DFW Nerd club #1142 Proud to be dealing with my debt:TDMP start date April 2012. Amount £21862:eek:April 2013 = £20414:T April 2014 = £11000 :TApril 2015 = £9500 :T April 2016 = £7200:T
    DECEMBER 2016 - Due to moving house/down-sizing NO MORTGAGE; NO OVERDRAFT; NO DEBTS; NO CREDIT CARDS; NO STORE-CARDS; NO LOANS = FREEDOM:j:j:beer::j:j:T:T
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    LD, hope you get a good nights sleep, start afresh tomorrow with a positive outlook if you can, everything feels better in daylight :)

    Dunno how I've managed to get through tonight, OH is still up town drinking, he sounded 3 sheets but was trying to tell me he's only had 2 pints (he's been in the pub since 12pm :rolleyes:), he knows when he goes out on the razz, which is usually either on a Fri or Sat once or twice a month, that he has to sleep on the sofa cos I will not be woken up by drunk OH, not on his nelly mate!! So he had better adhere to the rules, cos I tell ya, if he wakes me up I will kill him in the sort of mood I'm in :mad: very very snappy still, even feel snappy with myself :confused:

    Think I might go off to bed in a minute to get an extra hour incase drunk OH wakes me up slamming the front door.

    Notch me up for another when you get a chance Budge, although I know you said you won't be around today so forget that last comment, hope you're okay xx

    Speak to you all tomorrow, un-hung-over'ed :D

    xx
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • glasgowgirl
    glasgowgirl Posts: 294 Forumite
    Hi everyone,

    A not bad night as went out with friends and only had 2 drinks, so home feeling sober at a decent hour and not any damage to the bank balance/dignity which is a huge improvement.

    Lillib - your post really touched me. I've not got kids but I've seen from friends how bloomin' difficult (and wonderful) being a parent can be, specially when you're a single family and the buck stops with you. Thinking of you.

    xx
  • eselt
    eselt Posts: 604 Forumite
    Hi all- Lillibet please let us know you are OK- although paroxetine is an SSRI it's only usually prescribed for major depression, OCD, anxiety, PTSD etc. which suggests that the GP who prescribed it to you thought you have more than a mild-moderate difficulty, and were really struggling. Although you flushed them down the loo and the immediate danger isn't there, it does mean you don't have the medication your GP thought would help. Please get in to see the duty doctor at your surgery tommorrow, explain how you feel and how you have been struggling, most of all let them know if you feel so low you think you could be at risk- please do this. You sound like a wonderful, caring parent and you need to get better- we are all here to support you, and have huge respect for mums (and dads) who are having a tough time. Huge hugs to you tonight, will log on first thing and hope to hear from you.

    Hope everyone is OK tonight.
  • Pippilongstocking
    Pippilongstocking Posts: 16,336 Forumite
    (((((Lillibet)))))) from one single mum to another x babe its hard sometimes but I hope you get some support somehow or other to help you muddle through you sound like you cope really well - and even coping people need a hug and a lift sometimes - xxxxx

    Theres alot of virutal hugs, virtual over the fence chats and virtual door knocking to make sure you are OK xxx
    Total debt 26/4/18 <£1925 we were getting there. :beer:
    Total debt as of 28/4/19 £7867.38:eek:
    minus 112.06 = £7755.32:money:
    :money:Sleeves up folks.:money:
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