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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 3

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  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    Hello Peeps

    Sorry i'm not around much at the moment....just toooooooo busy.
    Anyway have just caught up and wanted to say Congratulations to Dotstar!!!

    Fedupandskint...I hope you are ok.I am sorry to read about your troubles.No one can tell you whether you are doing the right thing or not.You have to decide what you want and what is right for you.At least there are no children involved , so you can be selfish....Look after Number One...as my lovely Dad used to say.You arn't on this earth very long so make the most of your time.Be Happy.

    Well done PriceIsRight and BHB on resisting temptation.Great achievements.:T:T

    Jo...I hope your face is less swollen in the morning for work.And that you soon feel less carp.....Well done on 2 weeks AF....That is a great achievement even if you have been poorly.I bet not so long ago you would have either not taken the tablets or risked a drink anyway:rolleyes:

    Hi to everyone else.
    BB.....still cloudy sunshine for us eh;)

    Oh...and re the hampers/baskets....I went on the pictures thread last year and got lots of ideas for hampers for all the family.I covered cardboard boxes in lovely xmas paper for some of them instead of paying for baskets.They were really nice.
    I got the cellophane off ebay.Yards and yards of the stuff for not much
    money.
    All my family were really impressed with how professional they looked....even Me;)

    Right...going to do a bit more work now but will try to catch you all later
    Have a lovely evening.
    Love Mollypollyxxxx
    :happylove :happylove
    I'm back!!!!
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  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    :hello::hello:Hiya Lurky:D:D
    :happylove :happylove
    I'm back!!!!
    DMP starts 1st July 2015:T
    Dfd March 2021 (hoping to get there sooner )
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  • Lurkio
    Lurkio Posts: 3,155 Forumite
    mollypolly wrote: »
    :hello::hello:Hiya Lurky:D:D

    wha?? who? Me?

    Hi Molls...... :D:D :wave:

    How ya doing?

    :DNeigh, neigh, and thrice neigh :D
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    Congratulations Dotstar, good luck for the next 8+ months xxx
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    Lurkio wrote: »
    wha?? who? Me?

    Hi Molls...... :D:D :wave:

    How ya doing?

    I'm doing good Lurky...thanks.
    Are you still on this ere wagon???
    :happylove :happylove
    I'm back!!!!
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  • Lurkio
    Lurkio Posts: 3,155 Forumite
    mollypolly wrote: »
    I'm doing good Lurky...thanks.
    Are you still on this ere wagon???

    Had a couple on Thursday, few on Friday and last night... well we won't go int o last night :o, but yes, I am back aboard looking to chalk up another few days. Starting to be comfortable with not drinking in the week, which I think was my aim really :)

    ETA - Thursday was an exception - I went 'up west'.... :D

    :DNeigh, neigh, and thrice neigh :D
  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    :hello::hello:Hi Jo.....How you feelin' hun.

    Now that I've been on here and caught up I cant seem to settle back into work.LOL:D

    Ho Hum....best get on:rolleyes:
    :happylove :happylove
    I'm back!!!!
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  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    Lurkio wrote: »
    Starting to be comfortable with not drinking in the week, which I think was my aim really :)

    ETA - Thursday was an exception - I went 'up west'.... :D

    Well done Lurky...I really wish I could do that....sometimes I think I could:eek:but I darn't in case I can't stop again....It would be such a waste of the last 14 months.

    Right...really must get on.
    Catch you later
    Love Mollypollyxxxx
    :happylove :happylove
    I'm back!!!!
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  • budget_babe
    budget_babe Posts: 1,633 Forumite
    edited 14 June 2009 at 7:20PM
    Hi guys :hello:

    Happy Sunny Sunday to you all :A

    And happy sunny smiles to Dotstar and the impending ankle biter :T how wonderful for you sweetheart and it is indeed a reason not to drink at all. I did not touch one drop of alcohol whilst I was pregnant, I don't smoke, I ate everything that was healthy including tomatoes, (and I don't do tomatoes) and inspite of this my Ds was still premature and weighed only 4lb 3oz. I always think what a good job it was that I did all of the above as if I hadn't what could of happened? So keep yourself healthy and well sweetheart and lots of love to you all. :Axxxxxxxxxxxxxxx


    Gc nice to hear from you matey and keep posting we miss you when you don't. So remember don't read and run, try and post the most ;) Hugs and lots of love xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Fedup hugs sweetheart and I hope that you are working through your feelings and getting to a place where you can think more clearly? We are all here to try and offer you support and of course send you our love :A Take care sweetheart xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Jo sorry to hear you are still all swollen, I hope that your Ds football match went well? I unfortunately will not be where Fay is on my jollies to Scotland, I am near Aberforth. I did intend to go to Wales but that was cancelled so Scotland it is. We shall see if the tarot reader was right? Hmmm? Oh and please don't give poor Fay a heartattack, she has only just got rid of one house guest. Good luck for today and your 2 weeks af :T you are doing so well I wish I could hug you in person, because I just feel so pleased for you. Take care and look after yourself. :A xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Pricey Hi sweetheart and well done on staying af yesterday :T It really is a great achievement and something you should feel very proud of. Sadly I don't think I could move to be nearer my Ds as the house price difference would be so huge. Still I have chatted to him earlier today and yesterday so I am feeling happy with that, (as you have too). Oh and doing the ironing :eek: I advocate the iron as you wear scheme :D works like a charm ;) Well done again and take care. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Bhb (I like pink for you ;)) well done on not buying the beer yesterday. You know I think in your own mind that it would not stop at just one night. You are doing so brilliantly well and we are all behind you, wanting you to succeed. So keep positive my friend you have proved you can and are staying af and that is such a fantastic achievement :T Ps sorry you too have jaw ache, Ouch. Keep the faith and take care :A xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Wbf hugs sweetheart and on the positive side you should hear something tomorrow? I do hope so, (fingers crossed). And yes I am trying to get my Dh out of the house, my Ds and myself are going to do a fishing hamper, my Ds is buying a rod licence and I am getting a local permit. So we'll put these together with some other bits and bobs and then wrap in cello. I am a cello junkie :D But do please try to keep yourself occupied as well as it is so easy to feel down. I am very worried about my Dh at the moment, we have talked earlier and he is very down. (I was in tears at one point, as I don't know what to do to make him better?) Sorry to go off on a tangent. Hugs Angel and please let us know when you hear about the job. Lots of love xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    MollyPolly hugs sweetheart and nice to hear from you, re: this hampering. we can confer if we find any good bargains in our dear home town? I just get so excited if I spot a nice basket, (yes I know I need to get out more) ;) Some women buy bags and shoes with me its hamper baskets. Still its more on the lines of mse, don't you agree? Hugs and enjoy the rest of today. xxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Waves to me mate Dear Lurky and well done on achieving what you wanted to :cool: But Budgie thinks her friend was a little naughty last night (tut, tut). Oh and don't ya know that Space Cowboys should stay away from up West :rotfl::rotfl:I hope you have been extra nice to the Lovely Esther today? Hope all the family are well and that you are all happy? You deserve to he happy, Budgie is sending some happiness to you right now. Lots of love and hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Fay you are quiet today, hope you are ok sweetheart and that you are having a very nice peaceful weekend. Peaceful is the operative word here :D Hope work is ok and you are getting through what you need to? Hugs and love to you Angel. :A xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    40sm hope you are ok sweetheart? I am on 13/14 af days when you get the chance to do the scores on the doors. Thankyou for scoring this month and you are halfway there now to a well earned rest :cool: Btw who is the July scorer? There are a few of you who would be really ace, entries are now invited ;) Who is brave enough to take the challenge? Show us your hand and place your chips down. If I were a betting Budgie I would go for ......................;)

    Ok I must go now everyone as I am supposed to be cooking, its all gone pear shaped :eek: Hugs to you all, including: Ra, GG, Annie D, Ym, Ttgu, Fluffy, Maman, Mackeroo, 115k, Stroppy, Orchid, Hopeful, Pk, Eselt, Nettie and everyone else on our af journey. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Budgie says bye bye
    :wave:xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx




    Cherish the ones you love and travel back on the road that brings you home :)
    "What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us" Ralph Waldo Emerson :A
  • Lurkio
    Lurkio Posts: 3,155 Forumite

    Waves to me mate Dear Lurky and well done on achieving what you wanted to :cool: But Budgie thinks her friend was a little naughty last night (tut, tut). Oh and don't ya know that Space Cowboys should stay away from up West :rotfl::rotfl:I hope you have been extra nice to the Lovely Esther today? Hope all the family are well and that you are all happy? You deserve to he happy, Budgie is sending some happiness to you right now. Lots of love and hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    yes :o:o went to dinner at friends... has traditionally been a bit boozy.....

    and Budgie... I am ALWAYS extra nice to Esther...... ;):D

    xxx

    :DNeigh, neigh, and thrice neigh :D
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