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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 3

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  • 115K
    115K Posts: 2,678 Forumite
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    I was actually craving a drink earlier but I am determined to have one day AF! I am going to try Lurkio's technique. It sounds good. :T

    (Why don't oysters give to charity?
    Because they're shellfish.)

    :o:D
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  • fedupandskint
    fedupandskint Posts: 10,358 Forumite
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    jo1972 wrote: »
    I actually thought to myself, I can have just 1 or 2 drinks tonight because my liver isn't actually properly damaged, if I just have a drink today but then stop tomorrow it's not gonna make any different to my liver cos the function test was okay.

    :confused::confused::confused: what am I on???

    It's true alcohol is such powerful stuff that makes your brain think things that are out of your control.

    I have had this thought many times over the last few months while doing the cutting down.

    'If I have one tonight it won't matter cos I'll still hit the target'.
    'If I have one tonight I doesn't matter if I don' hit my target cos I'm still drinking less.'

    It's like alcohol is whispering to me and changing my thoughts from earlier in the day when I think I'm not drinking today. Now I've made the decision to be AF all month it's not like this now but we're only 5 days in.
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  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    Laughing out loud at all the jokes peeps:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::T:T

    Going to tell Mr MP now:D

    Jo...................DONT YOU DARE.

    See you soon
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  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    winebox wrote: »
    Gosh Jo that's really surprised me, cos up to this point you've given the impression that for the moment at least you're quite happy / relaxed about not drinking. It is indeed scary how insidious it is. What was going on when you had the thought? Was it very early in the day? (not during Corrie or 'endres by chance, both full of booze tonight, as per...)

    I am quite happy/relaxed about not drinking probably 20 out of 24 hours a day, the other 4 I have the same cravings as normal. Particularly bad tonight as OH is out and I'm home alone and can do whatever I please which for years has been a ticket to get drunk....the habit is still there even if I can't do it anymore.

    I shrugged it off much quicker than usual because I'm just saying to myself that I can't do it.
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  • fedupandskint
    fedupandskint Posts: 10,358 Forumite
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    115K wrote: »
    Why don't oysters give to charity?
    Because they're shellfish.:o:D

    very good! :D
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    Proud to be Dealing With my Debt
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  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    It's like alcohol is whispering to me and changing my thoughts from earlier in the day when I think I'm not drinking today.

    Thank god I'm not the only one that feels like this, thank you, very frustrating isn't it?! :)
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • 40somethingmum
    40somethingmum Posts: 2,513 Forumite
    Hi Guys

    Here are the latest scores . Lots and lots of 4s and 5s . So well done everyone.:j
    THE JUNE ALCOHOL FREE CHALLENGE
    Let’s do something different instead


    MEMBERS COMMITTED TO OUR JUNE CHALLENGE ARE AS FOLLOWS :
    1 – Miss Piggy Target af days for June: 30, Actual 4
    2 – 115K Target af days for June is: 30, Actual 1
    3 - WBF Target af days for June is: 14, Actual 3

    4 – Jo1972 Target af days for June: 0 Actual 4
    5 - YM Target af days for June is: 0, Actual 0
    6 - Bhb Target of af days for June is: 30, Actual 4
    7 - netttie Target af days for June is: 26, Actual 4
    8 - Different Corner af days for June is: 30, Actual 4
    9 - Eselt Target af days for June is: 30, Actual 3
    10 - Fayjmck Target af days for June is: 30, Actual 4

    11 - Fedupski Target af days for June is: 30, Actual 5
    12 - Fluffyb Target af days for June is: 10 Actual 4
    13 - Maman Target af day is for June is: 10 Actual 3

    14 - Orchid Target af days June is: 24, Actual 3
    15 – PIR af days for June is: 26 Actual 5

    16 – Sparky0107 af days June is: 10, Actual af days 1
    17 - LondonGuy Target af days June is:? Actual 0
    18 - Lurkio Target af days for June is: 20, Actual 4

    19 - Lillibet D Target af days for June is: 10 Actual: 0
    20 - Winebox Target af for June is: 10 Actual 5
    21 - Mackeroo Target af days for June is: 15 Actual 0
    22 - 40SM Target af days for June is: 30, Actual 4

    23 - Maz123 Target af days for June is: ?, Actual 4
    24 – Ageing biker Target af days June is 22, Actual
    25 - MollyPolly Target af days for June is: 30 Actual 4
    26 - Glasgowgirl Target af days for June is: 16 Actual 1
    27 - Nelski Target af days for June is:? Actual 0
    28 - Ntc Target af days for June is: ?, Actual 0

    29 - Noynoy Target af days for June is: ?, Actual 0
    30 - Badger Target af days for June is: 20 Actual
    31 - Openscreen Target af days for June is: ? Actual 0
    32 - Pariskate Target af days for June is: 20, Actual 2
    33 – Annie_d Target af days for June is: 0 Actual 4

    34- BB Target af days for June is: 23, Actual 4
    35 - Stroppy Target af days for June is: 8 Actual 0
    36 - Sleepyjo Target af days for June is: ?, Actual 0

    37 - Escapism Target af days for June is 8, Actual ?
    38 – Time2growup Target af days for June 16, Actual 4

    40SM
  • glasgowgirl
    glasgowgirl Posts: 294 Forumite
    Ok, last one from me (promise)...

    Q: What's the difference between an egg and a cup of tea?
    A: Ye can beat an egg, but ye cannae beat a good cup of tea!

    On that note, off to put kettle on.

    xx
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    edited 5 June 2009 at 9:50PM
    4 – Jo1972 Target af days for June: 0 Actual 4

    As of now that can read:

    4 - Jo1972 Target af days for June: 30 Actual 5

    Thanks 40SM xxxxxx

    ETA: OH MY GOD, THAT'S 1/6 OF THE MONTH DONE :beer:
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  • winebox
    winebox Posts: 1,129 Forumite
    nice one GG

    I too must stop....last ones (today, heh heh)

    Two peanuts walk into a bar
    One was asalted.
    **********
    A sandwich walks into a bar.
    The barman says, "Sorry we don't serve food in here."
    **********
    A dyslexic man walks into a bra.

    That's all folks! G'night!
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