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When to start dating again?

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  • Horace
    Horace Posts: 14,426 Forumite
    Glad that Taye had a grand night - Taye, it doesnt matter that you fell asleep on the bed, it shows that you were relaxed either that or it was a case of too much wine and too much telly:D Hope you had a grand day today as well.

    Jinky - did you have to use really large letters:eek: I am feeling tired and a little stuffed after the wedding dinner today, a good time was had by all:D
  • NAR
    NAR Posts: 4,863 Forumite
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    k2tog wrote: »
    I think the romance of this thread is rubbing off on you NAR - you old flirt ;)
    Wife says I'm not a flirt - I'm a tart! :eek:
  • Taye
    Taye Posts: 473 Forumite
    This can not be good.

    i admit im alittle bit tipsy, but sitting on a toilet in a hotel room desperatly trying ot get a phone to post on a website is beyond pathetic.

    Dave is acting weird, we had a nice day he treated me like a princess but he's acting funny, its like he's scared to touch me, all day and he's not hugged me once and he's a very touchie fella normally, i don't undertstand why?

    I really like him.. and im totally going to regret saying this tommorrow wen im sober but i really really like him, like way more than i should.

    I think i scared him off and i don't know what to do?
    This months aim :- Stick to food Budget / find £100 for my car insurance
    May GC :- £250/£234.55 :T:A:T
    June GC :- £150/£127.37:eek:
  • tattycath
    tattycath Posts: 7,175 Forumite
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    Pleased you're having a good time.
    As for what to do.. guess you will have to do what you think is best. Maybe if you want a cuddle you should initiate it-and try not to run for the hills when he responds. Just be careful and don't go for more than you want to just because you're tipsy. or maybe being tipsy will give you the bravado to go for what you want without looking for barriers to put up
    Hope all goes well Taye
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  • Taye
    Taye Posts: 473 Forumite
    I have, he gives me a quick hug back then pulls away, i don't know what i did wrong?!
    This months aim :- Stick to food Budget / find £100 for my car insurance
    May GC :- £250/£234.55 :T:A:T
    June GC :- £150/£127.37:eek:
  • whitewing
    whitewing Posts: 11,852 Forumite
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    Taye,

    He's just scared of frightening you. (And probably finding it hard to deal with what your ex did to you, in that he is disgusted by your ex, and cares a lot for you).

    Please just ask him to hold you. Or take his hand. Tell him what he can do. You're lovely and he obviously cares.
    :heartsmil When you find people who not only tolerate your quirks but celebrate them with glad cries of "Me too!" be sure to cherish them. Because these weirdos are your true family.
  • tattycath
    tattycath Posts: 7,175 Forumite
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    Maybe you will have to tell him-spell it out-
    i.e 'I just want you to hold me for a while, please don't pull away'
    That kind of thing
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  • whitewing
    whitewing Posts: 11,852 Forumite
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    You haven't done anything wrong. He probably likes you way more than he should too.

    Ask him why he's not touching you. Go on, ask him. Or tell him that you like it when you snuggle up together.
    :heartsmil When you find people who not only tolerate your quirks but celebrate them with glad cries of "Me too!" be sure to cherish them. Because these weirdos are your true family.
  • Taye
    Taye Posts: 473 Forumite
    ugh.. drunk and in charge of a phone i should be banned for life.

    I guess im gonna have to go back out there, only so long i can hide in the bathroom right?

    On the plus side i did see him naked today.. totally by accident, but it was worth seeing.

    wish me luck.
    This months aim :- Stick to food Budget / find £100 for my car insurance
    May GC :- £250/£234.55 :T:A:T
    June GC :- £150/£127.37:eek:
  • whitewing
    whitewing Posts: 11,852 Forumite
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    Good luck. Grinning about the naked quote.

    Talk to him or touch him but don't run off!
    :heartsmil When you find people who not only tolerate your quirks but celebrate them with glad cries of "Me too!" be sure to cherish them. Because these weirdos are your true family.
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