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When to start dating again?

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  • k2tog
    k2tog Posts: 1,007 Forumite
    Heath84 wrote: »
    Well I reckon the vodka is going down nicely... :rotfl: It must have, NAR has disappeared!
    and as for Taye and Dave,

    I think Dave will have booked several rooms at the hotel - one with twin beds, and also 2 seperate rooms, hoping that Taye would chose the twin bed room so he could spend the night in the same room as her.:rotfl::rotfl:
    That would be very resourceful! But not very MSE :rotfl:
  • Bowski_1011
    Bowski_1011 Posts: 1,041 Forumite
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    Heath84 wrote: »
    Yep he is the guy from the gym!


    Thankyou! I can sleep easy tonite now :rotfl:

    Can't wait to read the whole thread tomorrow!
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  • Hooray for Taye! :T

    If nothing else, at least by going she's given it her best shot.

    Aww, I hope it works out well.

    And I'm in London tomorrow, I could walk past them and not even know it hehe. I'll look out for a woman beating someone off with a stick hehe.

    And again, this forum reaffirms my faith in humanity, everyone is so damn nice.

    Have a lovely weekend everyone!

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  • Taye
    Taye Posts: 473 Forumite
    Morning wow you guys where busy/bored last night hu?

    Just so you know my sis has been given the hotel address and daves address just incase with instructions NOT to give to mum unless i disappear and both have my mobile for contact.
    This months aim :- Stick to food Budget / find £100 for my car insurance
    May GC :- £250/£234.55 :T:A:T
    June GC :- £150/£127.37:eek:
  • Taye
    Taye Posts: 473 Forumite
    Last night was ok, met up and had a meal and chat in the pub. After we went back to the hotel and sat in daves room, had a BIG chat don't know if i did right but i told him pretty much my life story, was hard but i'd had a few glass's of wine so they helped. Dave listened and said he understood things better now..

    Afterwards we settled down and watched some films while having abit of a cuddle. i fell asleep. Woke up in the middle of the night dave was asleep lying fully dressed on the bed with me so i got up and snuck off to my own room.

    Haven't seen him again yet, feeling abit embarresed.
    This months aim :- Stick to food Budget / find £100 for my car insurance
    May GC :- £250/£234.55 :T:A:T
    June GC :- £150/£127.37:eek:
  • k2tog
    k2tog Posts: 1,007 Forumite
    Don't feel embarrassed. And don't hide - you'll worry him! Sounds like he was perfectly gentlemanly - hope that means you didn't feel panicky or pressured. What are you up to today?
  • k2tog
    k2tog Posts: 1,007 Forumite
    Just thought, depending on what you told him, you might need to reiterate today that you don't want him blundering in trying to "fix" things. I have just had a vision of him trying to sort out your sleeping arrangements at your house and you getting cross with him :eek:
    Hope you both have a lovely day.
  • BrokeBrunette
    BrokeBrunette Posts: 868 Forumite
    sounds like last night went ok Taye - a chat, cuddle and no pressure for anything else from Dave (what a good lad he is :D)

    I think it's good you told him about your past. IF you are going to have any future together you will want to tell him at some point, so better to get it out the way now and then it will help him to understand why you feel/act as you do.

    DON'T BE EMBARASSED. You have nothing to feel embarassed about. Go and have a lovely day out with Dave. Do the hand holding thing, enjoy each others company and make the most of your time away, just being Dave and Taye.

    Looking forward to an update later.
    big hugs to you Taye
    xxx


    P.S. if you're reading this NAR hope you haven't got a hangover this morning :D:D
  • audbod38
    audbod38 Posts: 213 Forumite
    Well done Taye, your coming on leaps and bounds , im proud of you for telling him about your past ,at least he knows now why your so jumpy and nervous , now all you got to do is calm down a bit and let the relationship progress, i think you 2 are made for each other .
  • mumofjusttwo
    mumofjusttwo Posts: 2,610 Forumite
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    Glad it went "ok" Seeing as you were talking about some difficult things it must have been hard for him too. It seems that he behaved like a gentleman last night :T

    As k2tog said Don't hid as I do think he gets worried that he has upset you and maybe his mind starts to do overtime. maybe you need to tell him how you are feeling and

    Hope you have a lovely day and that the Sun shines on you both :D
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